<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404</id><updated>2012-01-19T09:26:23.834+07:00</updated><category term='randomness'/><category term='feminist'/><category term='manga'/><category term='birthday'/><category term='asian'/><category term='personal'/><category term='author'/><category term='movies'/><category term='books'/><category term='night'/><category term='hanging out'/><category term='holiday'/><category term='eating out'/><category term='boys'/><category term='music'/><category term='dream'/><category term='event'/><category term='fasting'/><category term='happy'/><category term='weekend'/><category term='quiz'/><category term='current issues'/><category term='haiku'/><category term='literary'/><category term='speak up'/><category term='interests'/><category term='celebrity'/><category term='concert'/><category term='fun'/><category term='tv shows'/><category term='writing'/><category term='work'/><category term='fangirling'/><category term='friends'/><title type='text'>:: ceaseless dreamer ::</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default?start-index=101&amp;max-results=100'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>106</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-5665650722694832103</id><published>2009-12-17T11:15:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-12-17T11:17:37.206+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Ptolemy's Gate (Bartimaeus Trilogy, #3)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3218335.Ptolemy_s_Gate_Gerbang_Ptolemy" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Ptolemy's Gate: Gerbang Ptolemy (Bartimaeus Trilogy, #3)" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1208637853m/3218335.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3218335.Ptolemy_s_Gate_Gerbang_Ptolemy"&gt;Ptolemy's Gate: Gerbang Ptolemy&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/33467.Jonathan_Stroud"&gt;Jonathan Stroud&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;My rating: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/47120900"&gt;4 of 5 stars&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Inilah buku terakhir kisah Bartimaeus, Nathaniel dan Kitty. Setelah lama diperbudak masternya, Nathaniel, kekuatan si jin Bartimaeus yang dahulu mumpuni kini makin berkurang. Nathaniel sendiri perlahan-lahan muak dengan lingkungan penyihir pemerintahan di sekelilingnya dan mulai merindukan perasaan keberanian murni dan polos seperti yang sempat ia miliki di masa kecil. Sementara itu Kitty diam-diam mempelajari seluk beluk kepenyihiran dan makhluk halus demi tujuan tertentu. Ketiga tokoh tersebut akhirnya harus bekerjasama untuk menghadapi pemberontakan penyihir dan demon berkekuatan luar biasa, dan hubungan di antara ketiganya pun tidak akan pernah sama lagi. Sekali lagi salut untuk Jonathan Stroud yang berhasil menciptakan dunia magis yang unik berisi berbagai jin, penyihir dan manusia di dalamnya, serta menguntai cerita yang seru, lucu sekaligus menegangkan mengenai arti sesungguhnya keberanian, ambisi, persahabatan dan kesetaraan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-dini"&gt;View all my reviews &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-5665650722694832103?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/5665650722694832103/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=5665650722694832103&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5665650722694832103'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5665650722694832103'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/12/book-review-ptolemys-gate-bartimaeus.html' title='Book review: Ptolemy&apos;s Gate (Bartimaeus Trilogy, #3)'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-6791284770532534402</id><published>2009-12-17T11:11:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2009-12-17T11:15:01.416+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Golem's Eye (Bartimaeus Trilogy, #2)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1538468.The_Golem_s_Eye_Mata_Golem" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Golem's Eye: Mata Golem (Bartimaeus Trilogy, #2)" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1184904097m/1538468.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1538468.The_Golem_s_Eye_Mata_Golem"&gt;The Golem's Eye: Mata Golem&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/33467.Jonathan_Stroud"&gt;Jonathan Stroud&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;My rating: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/47120895"&gt;4 of 5 stars&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Petualangan jin berlidah tajam Bartimaeus dan majikan mudanya Nathaniel berlanjut di buku ini. Selain bertutur lewat sudut pandang kedua tokoh tersebut seperti di buku pertamanya, sekuel ini mengikutsertakan sudut pandang Kitty, anggota kelompok Resistance yang berseberangan dengan pemerintahan penyihir. Sekali lagi saya kagum akan konsep dunia yang dibuat Stroud. Para penyihir yang berkuasa tidak punya kekuatan sendiri dan hanya mengandalkan &lt;em&gt;demon&lt;/em&gt; sebagai alat – mereka bahkan tidak bisa melihat makhluk halus tanpa bantuan lensa kontak khusus. Sedangkan beberapa di antara &lt;em&gt;commoner&lt;/em&gt; (non-penyihir) justru memiliki kekuatan tertentu, seperti melihat &lt;em&gt;demon&lt;/em&gt; atau benda sihir, atau kekebalan dari serangan sihir. Paradoks yang sungguh cerdas.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Buku ini masih seseru dan selucu prekuelnya, tapi seringkali saya berusaha membaca lebih cepat bab-bab yang menggunakan sudut pandang Kitty karena saya lebih ingin mengetahui apa yang terjadi pada Bartimaeus dan Nathaniel. Tapi ada satu bagian yang cukup membuat merinding yaitu saat Kitty dan rekan-rekannya dari kelompok Resistance merampok makam dan menemukan 'sesuatu' di bawah sana. Atau mungkin itu pengaruh membaca buku ini sampai pukul satu dini hari? Menurut Bartimaeus, jam-jam tengah malam adalah waktu di mana ketujuh &lt;em&gt;plane&lt;/em&gt; (tingkat keberadaan) berada paling dekat satu sama lain, memungkinkan orang melihat hal-hal yang biasanya tak dapat dilihatnya......&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-dini"&gt;View all my reviews &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-6791284770532534402?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/6791284770532534402/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=6791284770532534402&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6791284770532534402'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6791284770532534402'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/12/book-review-golems-eye.html' title='Book review: The Golem&apos;s Eye (Bartimaeus Trilogy, #2)'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2677421345029582770</id><published>2009-10-15T11:10:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-10-15T11:15:32.546+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Amulet of Samarkand (Bartimaeus Trilogy, #1)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1540497.The_Amulet_of_Samarkand" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Amulet of Samarkand (Bartimaeus Trilogy, #1)" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1234873924m/1540497.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1540497.The_Amulet_of_Samarkand"&gt;The Amulet of Samarkand&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/33467.Jonathan_Stroud"&gt;Jonathan Stroud&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;My rating: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/47120887"&gt;4 of 5 stars&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tiga kata untuk kisah ini: Seru, seru dan seru. Sang pengarang menciptakan dunia baru yang unik di mana pemerintahan Inggris dikuasai oleh penyihir, namun mereka tidak memiliki kekuatan sendiri melainkan memanfaatkan makhluk halus atau &lt;em&gt;demon&lt;/em&gt; untuk melaksanakan keinginannya. Nathaniel, anak muda yang berhasrat menjadi penyihir hebat, memanggil jin berusia 5,000 tahun, Bartimaeus, untuk menjalankan misi tertentu yang secara tak terduga berakibat fatal dan menyebabkan mereka terjebak dalam intrik dunia sihir.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jika jalan cerita di atas terkesan gelap dan penuh ketegangan, itu memang benar. Tapi buku ini punya tokoh unik yang memeriahkan suasana yaitu Bartimaeus – salah satu tokoh literer paling menarik yang saya temui akhir-akhir ini. Jin narsis yang satu ini doyan bersilat lidah dan selalu menambahkan pendapatnya sendiri lewat catatan kaki. Hubungan antara Bartimaeus dan majikannya, Nathaniel juga amat menarik untuk disimak – antara suka dan tidak suka, butuh tapi tidak butuh. Hal lain yang unik adalah para penyihir di sini bukanlah orang-orang pemberani berkekuatan besar seperti dalam kisah fantasi pada umumnya. Secara garis besar mereka digambarkan sebagai makhluk ambisius, culas dan haus kekuasaan. Pendeknya, saya tersihir oleh pesona kisah ini dan tak sabar membaca kelanjutannya.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-dini"&gt;View all my reviews &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2677421345029582770?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2677421345029582770/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2677421345029582770&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2677421345029582770'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2677421345029582770'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/10/book-review-amulet-of-samarkand.html' title='Book review: The Amulet of Samarkand (Bartimaeus Trilogy, #1)'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-1167618797490970723</id><published>2009-10-07T16:26:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-10-07T16:34:42.115+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='haiku'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><title type='text'>Haiku breeze #3</title><content type='html'>memorable lines&lt;br /&gt;with easy-listening tune&lt;br /&gt;Michael Learns To Rock&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(I was riding a cab when the driver played cheesy old songs on his stereo. &lt;/span&gt;A Shoulder to Cry On&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; by Tommy Page, anyone? How the guy ended up in a recording studio is beyond me. Then the next song was one from Michael Learns to Rock (where are they from anyway – Denmark? Sweden?). Ah, those cheesy, sappy love songs from my adolescence. Keep on learning, guys. "Love is one big illusion/ I should try to forget/ But there is something left in my head/ &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;(All together now!)&lt;/span&gt; Iiiiii won't forget...")&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-1167618797490970723?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/1167618797490970723/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=1167618797490970723&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1167618797490970723'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1167618797490970723'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/10/haiku-breeze-3.html' title='Haiku breeze #3'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-573745520635267214</id><published>2009-10-05T16:27:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2009-10-05T16:31:14.228+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='current issues'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><title type='text'>Batik is all around</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/Ssm80I7jbII/AAAAAAAAAGQ/ZUo0pk1FHFA/s1600-h/batik.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/Ssm80I7jbII/AAAAAAAAAGQ/ZUo0pk1FHFA/s400/batik.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5389046033061997698" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;With co-workers. I've never felt so proud of our heritage as I did that day!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-573745520635267214?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/573745520635267214/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=573745520635267214&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/573745520635267214'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/573745520635267214'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/10/batik-is-all-around.html' title='Batik is all around'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/Ssm80I7jbII/AAAAAAAAAGQ/ZUo0pk1FHFA/s72-c/batik.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-1649460197636814266</id><published>2009-10-05T16:21:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2009-10-05T16:26:50.327+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4666058.The_Guernsey_Literary_and_Potato_Peel_Pie_Society" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51RVlyCYe7L._SX106_.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4666058.The_Guernsey_Literary_and_Potato_Peel_Pie_Society"&gt;The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1194527.Mary_Ann_Shaffer"&gt;Mary Ann Shaffer&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;My rating: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/56583383"&gt;4 of 5 stars&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like many Indonesians perhaps, the only thing that comes to my mind when I hear the word Guernsey is that it is the place where Tommy Suharto keeps his money. This book reveals a lot more about the small British Channel island, occupied by the Germans in WW II. A group of islanders gather to form the Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society, and an unexpected connection drew them to the attention of Juliet Ashton, a London author researching for a new book. Told in letters between the characters, the book is sweet and funny but also harrowing in parts where the islanders tell their experience during Nazi occupation. It may not be a literary masterpiece but this "book about books" sends an uplifting message about the power of literature and will be cherished by bibliophiles. Also, don't miss an appearance from one of the most well-known Victorian authors.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-dini"&gt;View all my reviews &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-1649460197636814266?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/1649460197636814266/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=1649460197636814266&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1649460197636814266'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1649460197636814266'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/10/book-review-guernsey-literary-and.html' title='Book review: The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-8594178613066307753</id><published>2009-09-14T16:47:00.012+07:00</published><updated>2009-09-15T15:15:02.120+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='celebrity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='asian'/><title type='text'>Separated at birth?</title><content type='html'>This might make more sense for those who are familiar with both Taiwanese and Japanese entertainment. When I first saw Yabu Kota of Hey! Say! JUMP I thought I've seen him somewhere before... well, compare these two pictures.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table style="width: 357px; height: 277px;" id="table1" border="1"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td width="159"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/Sq4TYs6tJTI/AAAAAAAAAF4/anretC8ZEn4/s1600-h/ella.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 159px; height: 161px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/Sq4TYs6tJTI/AAAAAAAAAF4/anretC8ZEn4/s320/ella.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5381259919849497906" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Ella&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;(&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;S.H.E.&lt;/span&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Taiwan&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td style="text-align: center;"&gt; &lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/Sq4Te_4bS7I/AAAAAAAAAGA/CpibSe3zBH0/s1600-h/yabu.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 113px; height: 164px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/Sq4Te_4bS7I/AAAAAAAAAGA/CpibSe3zBH0/s320/yabu.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5381260028019428274" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Yabu Kota&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;"&gt;(&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Hey! Say! JUMP&lt;/span&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;"&gt;Japan&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The funny thing is, Yabu is a boy band member managed by Johnny's Entertainment, so naturally he looks like a girl. Ella, on the other hand, is the tomboy one with boyish voice from girl band S.H.E. So the boy and the girl look alike because the boy is girly and the girl is boyish. Strange world, eh?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(P.S. I think Yabu is kind of a cutie though.)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-8594178613066307753?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/8594178613066307753/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=8594178613066307753&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8594178613066307753'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8594178613066307753'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/09/separated-at-birth.html' title='Separated at birth?'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/Sq4TYs6tJTI/AAAAAAAAAF4/anretC8ZEn4/s72-c/ella.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-7177890464919584968</id><published>2009-09-08T15:21:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-09-08T15:38:55.643+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='night'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='haiku'/><title type='text'>Haiku breeze #2</title><content type='html'>a woman's singing&lt;br /&gt;floats through the window at night&lt;br /&gt;my next door neighbor&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(Last week I was trying to sleep when I faintly heard a woman's singing voice from the house next door. I gotta admit it felt a little creepy at first, hearing someone singing amid all the silence of the night. But her voice wasn't so bad, the melody listenable. Then I noticed she was singing in English. A few minutes later I realized she was singing Jason Mraz's &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;You and I Both&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;. Neighbor, you have good taste.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-7177890464919584968?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/7177890464919584968/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=7177890464919584968&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7177890464919584968'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7177890464919584968'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/09/haiku-breeze-2.html' title='Haiku breeze #2'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-4561232294747168989</id><published>2009-09-03T13:23:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-09-03T13:30:05.477+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tv shows'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quiz'/><title type='text'>Which Gossip Girl Character Are You?</title><content type='html'>Apparently I'm Queen B ;D&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.buddytv.com/closedquiz/closed-quiz.aspx?quiz=1000002"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.buddytv.com/closedquiz/images/results/gossipgirl-blair.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.buddytv.com"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Created by BuddyTV&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-4561232294747168989?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/4561232294747168989/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=4561232294747168989&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4561232294747168989'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4561232294747168989'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/09/which-gossip-girl-character-are-you.html' title='Which Gossip Girl Character Are You?'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2709552971808319079</id><published>2009-09-02T17:31:00.004+07:00</published><updated>2009-09-14T16:42:22.187+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='current issues'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='haiku'/><title type='text'>Haiku breeze #1</title><content type='html'>an earthquake today&lt;br /&gt;shook us from our musings&lt;br /&gt;feet back on the ground&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.detiknews.com/read/2009/09/02/150623/1194835/10/gempa-berkekuatan-73-sr-berpusat-di-tasikmalaya-berpotensi-tsunami"&gt;&lt;span class="judul"&gt;(Gempa Berkekuatan 7,3 SR Berpusat di Tasikmalaya, Berpotensi Tsunami)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2709552971808319079?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2709552971808319079/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2709552971808319079&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2709552971808319079'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2709552971808319079'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/09/haiku-breeze-1.html' title='Haiku breeze #1'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-4356021728964520684</id><published>2009-09-01T12:58:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T13:14:36.051+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Children</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1079440.The_Children" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Children" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1180811357m/1079440.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1079440.The_Children"&gt;The Children&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/16.Edith_Wharton"&gt;Edith Wharton&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;My rating: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/49525309"&gt;4 of 5 stars&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;**SPOILER ALERT&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;** &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"He was caught body and soul--that was it; and real loving was not the delicate distraction, the food for dreams... it was this perpetual obsession, this clinging nearness, this breaking on the rack of every bone, and tearing apart of every fibre. And his apprenticeship to it was just beginning..."&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;The Children&lt;/em&gt;, one of Edith Wharton's lesser known works, turned out to be a bit different than I expected it to be. It was better. It is the story of a 46-year-old bachelor, Martin Boyne, who finds himself tangled in the business of the seven children of the Wheater family, stepbrothers and stepsisters trying to stay together in the middle of the storm of their parents' numerous divorces and remarriages. Enchanted by the raucously endearing children, Boyne becomes their confidante and guardian and strives to help their cause.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to the book's back cover, Martin's heart was "captured" by the eldest Wheater, 15-year-old Judith, who is the mother hen of the pack. I first thought the feeling would be platonic, but even in the beginning of the book there were hints that it was not going to be the case. And indeed, Martin slowly finds himself in love with a girl 30 years his junior. I was ready to dislike the whole business, but surprisingly I couldn't. Just like in &lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/53835.The_Age_of_Innocence" title="The Age of Innocence by Edith Wharton"&gt;The Age of Innocence&lt;/a&gt;, Wharton makes the reader understand the feelings of a man who loves someone while knowing there is no way he could ever be with her. To complicate the matter, Martin has been attached to a woman for years; a woman who couldn't be with him because she was already married (this one reminds me of my first Wharton, the novella &lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1492417.Souls_Belated_Penguin_60s_" title="Souls Belated (Penguin 60s) by Edith Wharton"&gt;Souls Belated&lt;/a&gt;). She has just become a widow and is finally free to be together with Martin, but just at that time Martin begins to develop feelings for Judith that he himself was too afraid to admit.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The little Wheater children provides comic relief in the story but otherwise it is quite a sad novel. After finishing it I am once again in awe of Wharton's consummate skill in making the reader feel what the characters feel. It makes one wonder whether she herself has gone through the same heartbreaks, the same predicaments as her characters. I highly recommend this book for the heartfelt drama and beautiful prose. Thank you Ayu for lending it to me!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-dini"&gt;View all my reviews &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-4356021728964520684?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/4356021728964520684/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=4356021728964520684&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4356021728964520684'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4356021728964520684'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/09/book-review-children.html' title='Book review: The Children'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-8674426111658578911</id><published>2009-09-01T12:43:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T12:53:30.053+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fasting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='current issues'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fangirling'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><title type='text'>A magical, special, once-a-year moment</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Some notes on the wonderful things about Ramadhan:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Saving money from not having lunches (and totally wasting it at the end of the day on lavish fast-breaking meals).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- That feeling of serenity that falls upon you during the quiet moments between sahur and Subuh.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Meeting up with friends for fast-breaking. So far I had two, one on Thursday with college friends in Duren Tiga and another on Sunday with Goodreaders during a talkshow on astronomy in Rawamangun.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Busway attendants telling you when it's time to break the fast, even though you can't hear adzan from inside the bus.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- The general feeling of warmth, togetherness and tolerance shared among Muslims and between Muslims and non-Muslims alike. Forget those FPI people. They're just stupid.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Office hour ends early! Whoohoooo!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;And also... the not-so-wonderful things about this particular month:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Firecrackers. Seriously, people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Sleeping hours always lessen due to sahur. Hence:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- You feel so sleepy all the time. And lazy. Well, okay, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I&lt;/span&gt; do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Gastric problems. Apparently I'm like Cinta Laura, who has "gastrouw" or known by regular people as maag (what language is it from again -- Dutch?). I'm now using certain pills advertised by a certain actor named Pak Haji Deddy Mizwar. I mean to slowly wean myself from them though, because the label said continual usage for more than two weeks may cause dependency. Yikes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Last but not least, random fangirl note:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;NEWS just finished their 24 hour TV special. Well done, boys. Now if only the company will release a new single or DVD for you, or even your very own TV show. *fingers crossed*&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-8674426111658578911?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/8674426111658578911/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=8674426111658578911&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8674426111658578911'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8674426111658578911'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/09/magical-special-once-year-moment.html' title='A magical, special, once-a-year moment'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-278958139582243852</id><published>2009-08-14T17:26:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T12:30:23.521+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Mansfield Park</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/208718.Mansfield_Park" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Mansfield Park (Penguin Red Classics)" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172694752m/208718.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/208718.Mansfield_Park"&gt;Mansfield Park&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1265.Jane_Austen"&gt;Jane Austen&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;My rating: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/12946445"&gt;4 of 5 stars&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As the last Austen novel I read, &lt;em&gt;Mansfield Park&lt;/em&gt; made me officially become Austen-literate (well, if you don't count her short, unfinished stories). As always I cannot applaud her more on the beautiful, exquisitely crafted language, but the plot and diverse characters are also exceptional. Fanny Price and Edmund Bertram is probably the cutest Austen couple ever. Although Edmund's change of feelings leave much to be desired, he is still one of Austen's most goodhearted, upstanding hero and does not leave me disappointed like, say, &lt;em&gt;Sense and Sensibility&lt;/em&gt;'s wavering, dishonest Edward Ferrars. Fanny, on the other hand, draws my sympathy through her steady affections and strong principles – she is not Emma Woodhouse or Elizabeth Bennett in that she knows who her heart belongs to all along, only she is too afraid to admit it. There is also interesting character studies in the figures of Henry and Mary Crawford. I might need a re-read of all Austen novels as to more justly compare them, but for now &lt;em&gt;Mansfield Park&lt;/em&gt; holds the elusive title of my favorite among the novels.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-dini"&gt;View all my reviews &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-278958139582243852?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/278958139582243852/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=278958139582243852&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/278958139582243852'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/278958139582243852'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/08/book-review-mansfield-park.html' title='Book review: Mansfield Park'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2906319475377505847</id><published>2009-07-23T16:01:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-07-23T16:09:11.471+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='happy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='birthday'/><title type='text'>"Kimi no happy ba-su-day"</title><content type='html'>Turning 25 today. Is it time for that quarter-life crisis to start?! Heh.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, thanks to everybody who congratulated, texted, wrote in my Facebook wall and generally sent an abundance of good wishes. Sending positive thoughts back!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Listening to&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Happy Birthday&lt;/span&gt; – NEWS (I can't help it, really.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Reading&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Vanity Fair&lt;/span&gt; – WM Thackeray; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Cecilia &amp;amp; Malaikat Ariel&lt;/span&gt; – Jostein Gaarder.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Watching&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Papa to Musume no Nanokakan &lt;/span&gt;(Father and Daughter's Seven Days). A 7-episode Japanese dorama with a &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Freaky Friday&lt;/span&gt;-like concept, only with father and daughter. Of course I'm only watching because Shige is in it (as a guy the daughter has a crush on), but it really is quite hilarious. Watch it online here: http://www.mysoju.com/papa-to-musume-no-nanokakan&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2906319475377505847?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2906319475377505847/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2906319475377505847&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2906319475377505847'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2906319475377505847'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/07/kimi-no-happy-basuday.html' title='&quot;Kimi no happy ba-su-day&quot;'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-529779549782395940</id><published>2009-07-14T16:45:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2009-07-14T17:00:12.930+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quiz'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='literary'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='author'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='interests'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='asian'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='manga'/><title type='text'>Words are all I have to take your heart away</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;From Ayu's LJ. Reply to this meme by yelling "Words!" and I will give you five words that remind me of you. Then post them in your journal and explain what they mean to you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ah, Ayu, you know me well! I figured Austen would come up ;D&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;glasses&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've been wearing glasses since, what, third grade? Maybe because I read a lot and often in improper positions or poorly lighted places, LOL. Sometimes it's tiring to wear glasses, and they leave a mark on the bridge of my nose, but I think they've also become sort of my signature look (What's with the fashion talk, huh?).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Jane Austen&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Believe it or not I only read my first Austen (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Northanger Abbey&lt;/span&gt;) about two years ago. Before that I've only read an abridged version of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Pride and Prejudice&lt;/span&gt;, and watched some adaptations (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Clueless&lt;/span&gt;, anyone?). But now I can boast that I've read all of her books, except the three short unfinished stories – &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Lady Susan&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Watsons&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Sanditon&lt;/span&gt;. I love Austen's wit and beautiful language.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;manga&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My first manga was either &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Pop Corn&lt;/span&gt; (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Seito Shokun&lt;/span&gt;) or &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Miss Modern &lt;/span&gt;(&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Haikara-san ga toru&lt;/span&gt;). From only reading I got interested in drawing manga. Back in elementary school I had a friend who loves to draw. I wanted to draw like her, so I started imitating manga pictures. My favorite theme was inspired by the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Mari-chan &lt;/span&gt;manga series on ballet, so my childhood works consist of a lot of pretty girls dancing in their ballet shoes. Later on my little sister caught the drawing bug from me and now she draws even better than me, while I've hardly picked up a pencil in years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Asian artist&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This overlaps with Jay Chou, so I'm putting it first. My interest on Asian artists must have started with those 90s Hong Kong action movies on TV (Jet Li please, not Jackie Chan). They spilled out to TV series (especially Taiwanese and Japanese) and music (mostly Taiwanese, with bits of Japanese and a drop of Korean). It inspired me to want to learn Mandarin – which is still a distant goal for me. Unlike many other people, though, I don't like F4. As I wrote in a previous post, I'm currently infatuated with one member of a certain Japanese boyband.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Jay Chou&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I first knew about Jay, he had already become a kind of 'prince' in the Mandarin music industry. And then he became king. His first song that I heard was probably &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Jian Dan Ai&lt;/span&gt; (Simple Love) – literally a simple, laid-back, mid-tempo love song. After I listened to around seven albums from him, I find he tends to repeat his formula a bit so sometimes it gets boring. But I still like his upbeat songs that mix R&amp;amp;B, rock, rap and traditional Chinese music. Hey, I even wrote an essay about him in college. Aside from Jay, two other Mandarin music 'kings' that I like are David Tao and Wang Leehom, both also songwriters and producers like him.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-529779549782395940?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/529779549782395940/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=529779549782395940&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/529779549782395940'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/529779549782395940'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/07/words-are-all-i-have-to-take-your-heart.html' title='Words are all I have to take your heart away'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-8822724188196038282</id><published>2009-07-07T16:12:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-07-14T17:02:37.682+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='event'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='current issues'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weekend'/><title type='text'>Miraculous!</title><content type='html'>My family was registered for the &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;presidential election&lt;/span&gt; after all. All five of us weren't listed for the legislative polls in April, but we received the invitation for tomorrow's election yesterday. We didn't even re-registered back in May (well I sort of did, but the poll officer only wrote down my name since I forgot to bring a copy of my ID). I wonder who I should thank for this?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On a side note, I went to &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Pesta Buku Jakarta 2009&lt;/span&gt; on Sunday. Got a free book during a discussion (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Olenka&lt;/span&gt;), bought three translated ones on discount (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Breakfast at Tiffany's&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Anne of Green Gables&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Cecilia dan Malaikat Ariel&lt;/span&gt;) and borrowed two English ones (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Oryx &amp;amp; Crake&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Good Omens&lt;/span&gt;). If not for the wonderful souls of Goodreads friends I would never have been able to borrow books at a book fair, LOL.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, happy voting for everyone who's voting.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-8822724188196038282?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/8822724188196038282/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=8822724188196038282&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8822724188196038282'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8822724188196038282'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/07/miraculous.html' title='Miraculous!'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-5119908119987916286</id><published>2009-07-02T17:01:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T12:54:04.703+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='boys'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='current issues'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fangirling'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='asian'/><title type='text'>Life. Oh life. Dudududu.</title><content type='html'>Phooey. Another month has passed. I've hardly written anything in June. So here's anything.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Several celebrities died. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;David Carradine&lt;/span&gt;. Weird circumstances, but I'll always remember growing up watching &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Kung-Fu: The Legend Continues&lt;/span&gt;. ("I am Caine. I will help you.") &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Michael Jackson&lt;/span&gt; passed too. It's like the end of an era.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Election&lt;/span&gt;'s coming up again next week. Not sure if I'm voting, cause in the legislative election I found I wasn't registered. Boo.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Read about four books in June. Surely I'm capable of better.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've lately discovered a Philippine acoustic band called &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;MYMP&lt;/span&gt; (Make Your Momma Proud). First heard their song at a record store. It was Jason Donovan and Kylie Minogue's oldies hit, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Especially for You&lt;/span&gt;. The band actually made the song sound cool. So I bought their CD, only to find that listening to 20+ slow, acoustic songs in a row is kind of boring. Still, I liked their renditions of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Eternal Flame&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Crazy for You&lt;/span&gt;, and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Tell Me Where It Hurts&lt;/span&gt; ("I'll love all of the hurt away". Oh my).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another new interest, or should I say guilty pleasure, of mine is a Japanese boy band called &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;NEWS&lt;/span&gt;. I've already mentioned in this blog that I'm partial towards East Asian music and entertainment, but the Japanese has long been my sister's turf (she draws manga, listens to J-music and got a scholarship to study in Japan for a year). Now she has successfully poisoned me by using songs and DVDs and before I knew it I was addicted to those dance-y tunes unique to J-Pop. NEWS is a six-member group and one caught my eye early and became my favorite since – &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Shigeaki Kato&lt;/span&gt;. Funny guy, not afraid to make fun of himself. Not the best singer or dancer, but did I mention he's crazily funny? And smart? &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Shige&lt;/span&gt;, as he is usually called, writes monthly articles for a magazine about everyday topics that made me think, hey, you can write regularly about any topic if you want to. Somehow inspired me to write this entry. Boy band members are capable of doing that to you sometimes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SkyGTQJ8JSI/AAAAAAAAAFI/tkAdily7TWc/s1600-h/shige.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 195px; height: 320px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SkyGTQJ8JSI/AAAAAAAAAFI/tkAdily7TWc/s320/shige.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5353801722348971298" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Good old Shige&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Am going to a friend's wedding this weekend. And then &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Pesta Buku Jakarta 2009&lt;/span&gt;. The following week, Goodreads 2nd anniversary gathering. Busy, busy.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-5119908119987916286?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/5119908119987916286/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=5119908119987916286&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5119908119987916286'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5119908119987916286'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/07/life-oh-life-dudududu.html' title='Life. Oh life. Dudududu.'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SkyGTQJ8JSI/AAAAAAAAAFI/tkAdily7TWc/s72-c/shige.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-3171946334309417891</id><published>2009-06-06T11:48:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2009-06-06T11:56:41.059+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Thirteenth Tale</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/5602275.The_Thirteenth_Tale" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Thirteenth Tale (Dongeng Ketiga Belas)" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1226452864m/5602275.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/5602275.The_Thirteenth_Tale"&gt;The Thirteenth Tale&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/22665.Diane_Setterfield"&gt;Diane Setterfield&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/56283518"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;"Semua orang punya cerita. Itu seperti keluarga. Kau mungkin tak tahu siapa mereka, mungkin kau telah kehilangan mereka, tapi mereka tetap ada. Kau mungkin telah menjauh atau mungkin memunggungi mereka, tapi kau tak bisa berkata kau tak memiliki mereka.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;...Tapi keheningan bukanlah lingkungan alami untuk cerita. Cerita membutuhkan kata-kata. Tanpa kata-kata cerita akan menjadi pucat, sakit, dan mati. Kemudian mereka akan menghantuimu."&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Demikianlah tiga hal yang menjadi kunci dalam buku ini: "cerita", "keluarga" dan "hantu". Cerita bermula saat pengarang terkenal Vida Winter yang sudah uzur dan sakit-sakitan ingin kisah hidupnya dituliskan oleh penulis biografi amatir, Margaret Lea. Cerita tersebut berputar di sekitar rumah tua keluarga Angelfield dengan para penghuninya yang eksentrik: Isabelle yang cantik, kakaknya Charlie yang punya kebiasaan-kebiasaan aneh, serta anak-anak Isabelle, si kembar Adeline dan Emmeline. Keluarga merupakan hal kedua yang penting dalam buku ini, karena keluarga Angelfield hidup terpisah dari masyarakat luar dan menyimpan banyak misteri. Belum lagi masalah hantu yang diduga berdiam di rumah tua tersebut dan menampakkan dirinya lewat benda-benda yang berpindah tempat, ruangan yang kuncinya terbuka sendiri, suara langkah kaki di malam hari sampai bayang-bayang yang berkelebat di sudut mata. Akankah seluruh misteri keluarga Angelfield terkuak, atau malah terkubur selamanya di balik reruntuhan rumah tua?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Margaret Lea yang ditugaskan menuliskan kisah tersebut pun menyimpan cerita sendiri. Mengaku lebih menyukai buku daripada manusia, ia tinggal di lantai atas toko buku milik ayahnya. Sebuah rahasia besar tersimpan selama bertahun-tahun dalam keluarga Lea, sebuah rahasia yang senantiasa membayangi setiap langkah Margaret. Seiring usahanya mengungkap kebenaran di balik sosok Vida Winter, Margaret pun harus menghadapi hantu-hantu pribadinya.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Margaret digambarkan sebagai kutu buku sejati yang menggemari novel-novel klasik seperti &lt;em&gt;Wuthering Heights&lt;/em&gt;, &lt;em&gt;Jane Eyre&lt;/em&gt; dan &lt;em&gt;Woman in White&lt;/em&gt;. &lt;em&gt;Jane Eyre&lt;/em&gt; sendiri disebut beberapa kali dan menjadi salah satu petunjuk untuk membongkar misteri yang ada. Saya sendiri cenderung terbayang-bayang &lt;em&gt;Wuthering Heights&lt;/em&gt; saat membaca kisah ini, meskipun saya membaca novel tersebut bertahun-tahun lalu dan sebagian besar isinya sudah tak lekat lagi di ingatan saya. Namun suasana rumah tua yang muram dan gelap serta tragedi keluarga yang terbawa hingga beberapa generasi mengingatkan saya pada buah karya Emily Brontë tersebut.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Terjemahan dalam &lt;em&gt;The Thirteenth Tale&lt;/em&gt; pun cukup baik dan membuat nuansa &lt;em&gt;gothic&lt;/em&gt; dan misterius tetap terjaga. Seperti halnya Margaret yang seringkali larut dalam bacaannya, niscaya novel ini mampu membuat pembacanya hanyut dalam untaian cerita. Tapi jangan lupa sesekali menengok ke balik pundak Anda. Siapa tahu sang hantu ada di sana...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-dini"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-3171946334309417891?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/3171946334309417891/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=3171946334309417891&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/3171946334309417891'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/3171946334309417891'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/06/book-review-thirteenth-tale.html' title='Book review: The Thirteenth Tale'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-4378561567098919749</id><published>2009-05-29T11:15:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-05-29T11:19:52.214+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Norwegian Wood</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/11297.Norwegian_Wood" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Norwegian Wood" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1166468809m/11297.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/11297.Norwegian_Wood"&gt;Norwegian Wood&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/3354.Haruki_Murakami"&gt;Haruki Murakami&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/31729886"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 3 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;**SPOILER ALERT&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;**&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A coming-of-age tale of young college student Toru Watanabe in 1960s Japan, as he grapples with love, sex, loneliness and death, with Beatles tunes playing in the background. Toru and Naoko knew each other through Kizuki, who dated Naoko in high school. Kizuki kills himself, causing Naoko to descend into depression. Only then do she and Toru get close, because of their shared experience of dealing with Kizuki's troubling death. On the other hand, Toru meets a lively young woman in his college, Midori, who is the exact opposite of broody Naoko.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'd give the book merely 2.5 stars because: One, the story drags on in parts as women who meet Toru seem to be inclined to launch into lengthy chronicles of their lives. I much prefer Murakami's newer and shorter book, &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/book/show/17803.After_Dark" title="After Dark by Haruki Murakami"&gt;After Dark&lt;/a&gt;. Secondly, I don't buy the whole thing about Midori "just trying to be honest" with her dirty talk and S&amp;amp;M movies. It seems to me she was trying to lead Toru on since the beginning. The book's back cover describes her as a "fiercely independent" young woman but I find her to be the opposite; she's too dependent and demanding on Toru. I also don't believe that after pining for Naoko for so long Toru suddenly tells Midori that he loves her. Really? After all the time they go out together and she teases him like crazy but he never feels anything and goes straight home after every date to write long letters to Naoko, then he suddenly finds himself in love with Midori? It's unconvincing. Even more unconvincing is him sleeping with Reiko, an older woman who stayed in a sanatorium with Naoko, after Naoko's death just because she was wearing Naoko's clothes. Thirdly, as a Japanese novel that concerns itself with loneliness, sadness and how life and death intertwines, I think Banana Yoshimoto's &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/book/show/50144.Kitchen" title="Kitchen by Banana Yoshimoto"&gt;Kitchen&lt;/a&gt; does a better work than this one in a more concise length.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-dini"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-4378561567098919749?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/4378561567098919749/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=4378561567098919749&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4378561567098919749'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4378561567098919749'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/05/book-review-norwegian-wood.html' title='Book review: Norwegian Wood'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-8678491310449334593</id><published>2009-05-27T16:22:00.004+07:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T12:54:04.703+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='boys'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fun'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fangirling'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><title type='text'>Hello, gorgeous.</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/Sh0IYrJVpgI/AAAAAAAAAFA/X88lYAVX4C4/s1600-h/ed_westwick.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 223px; height: 299px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/Sh0IYrJVpgI/AAAAAAAAAFA/X88lYAVX4C4/s320/ed_westwick.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5340433953123051010" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Cute guys should always have a space in our blogs. Betul begitu, Ayu? ;D&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Plus he's going to be Heathcliff in a new adaptation of Emily Brontë's &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Wuthering Heights&lt;/span&gt;! Very fitting for a guy with a 19th century-sounding name like &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Edward Westwick&lt;/span&gt;, no?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;See the news here: &lt;a href="http://www.cinemaspy.ca/article.php?id=2409"&gt;Arterton and Westwick Go to 'Wuthering Heights'&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-8678491310449334593?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/8678491310449334593/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=8678491310449334593&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8678491310449334593'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8678491310449334593'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/05/hello-gorgeous.html' title='Hello, gorgeous.'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/Sh0IYrJVpgI/AAAAAAAAAFA/X88lYAVX4C4/s72-c/ed_westwick.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-1925248825202555894</id><published>2009-05-20T16:51:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2009-05-23T08:36:53.793+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='event'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fun'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weekend'/><title type='text'>Books and friends make lively combination</title><content type='html'>Last Saturday I went to the &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;World Book Day&lt;/span&gt; celebration at Bank Mandiri Museum in Jakarta Kota. The last two days of the event (Saturday and Sunday) was dedicated to communities, and &lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/group/show/345.Indonesia"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Goodreads Indonesia&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; (GRI) participated by opening a stand. The main attraction was a book-swapping event, which can be considered as a success as it garnered the attention of &lt;a href="http://www.thejakartapost.com/news/2009/05/17/book-fans-benefit-book-swapping.html"&gt;The Jakarta Post&lt;/a&gt;. For me the joy is not only getting some interesting new books (as in those I haven't read), but also knowing that other people will benefit and get to read the books that I swapped.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another perk in joining GRI activities is borrowing books. Most of the GRI crowd are very open in lending and borrowing books that they would even instantly offer to lend you a book when you express interest in it. So after the Saturday event I went to of my GRI friend's place and ended up borrowing &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Gadis Jeruk&lt;/span&gt; by Jostein Gaarder and &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;The Thirteenth Tale&lt;/span&gt; by Diane Setterfield. Thank you Roos for the books ;) She has lots more that I'm interested in but I can't read all of them at once, can I? (Don't even mention the pile of 15++ books waiting for me at home!) I really think joining Goodreads and taking part in the GRI activities is one of the best decisions I ever made. Here's to good friends and good books!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-1925248825202555894?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/1925248825202555894/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=1925248825202555894&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1925248825202555894'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1925248825202555894'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/05/books-and-friends-make-lively.html' title='Books and friends make lively combination'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-887121209111115242</id><published>2009-05-13T10:11:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2009-05-13T11:25:44.839+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quiz'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='literary'/><title type='text'>Which Austen heroine are you?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.strangegirl.com/emma/quiz.php" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.strangegirl.com/emma/quizelinor.jpg" alt="I am Elinor Dashwood!" width="200" height="300" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Take the Quiz here!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You are &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Elinor Dashwood&lt;/span&gt; of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Sense and Sensibility&lt;/span&gt;! You are practical, circumspect, and discreet. Though you are tremendously sensible and allow your head to rule, you have a deep, emotional side that few people often see.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-887121209111115242?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/887121209111115242/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=887121209111115242&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/887121209111115242'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/887121209111115242'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/05/which-austen-heroine-are-you.html' title='Which Austen heroine are you?'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-8753994810046689555</id><published>2009-05-07T12:23:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2009-05-07T12:27:01.683+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Middlesex</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/234706.Middlesex" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Middlesex" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172971407m/234706.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/234706.Middlesex"&gt;Middlesex&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1467.Jeffrey_Eugenides"&gt;Jeffrey Eugenides&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/20048705"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 5 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;"Emotions, in my experience, aren't covered by single words. I don't believe in 'sadness', 'joy' or 'regret'. Maybe the best proof that language is patriarchal is that it oversimplifies feeling. ...I've never had the right words to describe my life, and now that I've entered my story, I need them more than ever."&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I give this book five stars because it is rare that a thick book which takes so long to read engages my interest right up till the end. It tells about first-, second- and third-generation Greek immigrants in the US, and while the main story is about Calliope, the third generation in the Stephanides family, each part of the book sucks me in all the same. The plot is interspersed with real historical events -- the burning of Smyrna in Asia Minor in 1922, immigration to Ellis Island in New York, World War II, the 1967 Detroit race riots -- and elements of Greek culture and customs. The author foreshadows future events by putting in telltale signs here and there of what's to come later in the story, while he is also able to create parallels between certain moments in the story with events that occurred some 20 years before. Although the ending was a little below my expectation, I still highly regard this compelling story about parenthood, adolescence, love, gender, the American dream and most of all about finding yourself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-dini"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-8753994810046689555?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/8753994810046689555/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=8753994810046689555&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8753994810046689555'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8753994810046689555'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/05/book-review-middlesex.html' title='Book review: Middlesex'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-5061305802967171942</id><published>2009-05-07T12:11:00.004+07:00</published><updated>2009-05-13T11:25:57.671+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quiz'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><title type='text'>Which Girl Singer Are You?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.buddytv.com/closedquiz/closed-quiz.aspx?quiz=124"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.buddytv.com/closedquiz/images/results/girlsinger_rihanna.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.buddytv.com"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Created by BuddyTV&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uh-huh. Really? Hm. Let's hope I won't get any abusive boyfriends.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-5061305802967171942?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/5061305802967171942/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=5061305802967171942&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5061305802967171942'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5061305802967171942'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/05/which-girl-singer-are-you.html' title='Which Girl Singer Are You?'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-14267675228634766</id><published>2009-04-14T16:49:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2009-04-14T17:09:11.593+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='work'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><title type='text'>With great power comes great responsibility</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Kenaikan Jabatan Bisa Berakibat Buruk&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Source: inilah.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;INILAH.COM, Jakarta – Jutaan orang pergi bekerja tiap hari dan mengharapkan mendapat kenaikan jabatan. Tapi pegawai harus menyiapkan mental untuk mendapat kenaikan jabatan. Penelitian terbaru mendapati, kenaikan jabatan justru bisa berakibat fatal pada kesehatan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ilmuwan Inggris mendapati orang yang memperoleh kenaikan jabatan 10% diantaranya menderita tekanan mental. Bahkan mereka harus pergi ke dokter untuk mendapat perawatan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Mendapat promosi tidak sehebat yang diperkirakan orang kebanyakan. Penelitian kami mendapati, kesehatan mental para manager mengalami perubahan setelah mendapat promosi jabatan dan itu tidak terjadi dalam jangka panjang,” kata Chris Boyce dari University of Warwick.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Tidak ada indikasi kesehatan makin meningkat bagi orang yang mendapat promosi,” tambahnya.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Karyawan yang mendapat kenaikan jabatan, 20% berkurang tingkat kunjungannya ke dokter. Namun peneliti mendapati, hal itu berhubungan dengan stres karena pekerjaan baru serta waktu yang makin habis.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Peneliti menggunakan data dari survei tahunan Brits menyangkut 1.000 orang yang mendapat kenaikan jabatan. Penemuan itu dipresentasikan pada konferensi Royal Economic Society.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Penelitian lain menunjukkan stres bisa sangat mematikan, meningkatkan segala resiko mulai dari demam hingga kanker.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-14267675228634766?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/14267675228634766/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=14267675228634766&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/14267675228634766'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/14267675228634766'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/04/with-great-power-comes-great.html' title='With great power comes great responsibility'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-9017199526668993816</id><published>2009-03-24T11:54:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-03-24T11:56:23.784+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Honeymoon with My Brother</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/5810049.Honeymoon_with_My_Brother?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Honeymoon with My Brother" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1227172058m/5810049.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/5810049.Honeymoon_with_My_Brother?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Honeymoon with My Brother&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/67817.Franz_Wisner"&gt;Franz Wisner&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/46480639?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 3 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Berkeliling dunia mungkin merupakan impian semua orang. Bagi Franz Wizner, berkeliling dunia adalah pelarian dari sakit hati yang dialaminya setelah diputuskan oleh wanita yang sudah dipacarinya selama sepuluh tahun tepat sebelum mereka menikah, belum lagi penurunan jabatan di tempat kerjanya. Tiket bulan madu untuk berdua telah tersedia, maka Franz mengajak adiknya, Kurt, untuk menghilangkan penatnya pikiran dengan melanglang buana keliling dunia. Kisah bulan madu yang unik itu dituangkan Franz dalam buku ini, diselingi artikel-artikel yang dikirimkannya ke sejumlah media sepanjang perjalanan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bila dibandingkan dengan memoar sejenis yaitu &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/book/show/19501.Eat_Pray_Love_One_Woman_s_Search_for_Everything_Across_Italy_India_and_Indonesia" title="Eat, Pray, Love  One Woman's Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia by Elizabeth Gilbert"&gt;Eat,  Pray,  Love&lt;/a&gt; karya Elizabeth Gilbert yang saya baca lebih dahulu, &lt;em&gt;Honeymoon with My Brother&lt;/em&gt; bernuansa lebih ringan dan humoris. Kedua pengarang sama-sama mengalami patah hati tapi kesedihan Franz nampaknya tidak separah Gilbert yang sampai menenggak pil anti depresi dan terpikir untuk bunuh diri. Nuansa spiritual dan pencarian Tuhan dalam &lt;em&gt;Eat, Pray, Love&lt;/em&gt; juga tidak ada di buku ini. Apalagi Gilbert melakukan perjalanan seorang diri untuk kembali menemukan jati dirinya, tidak seperti Franz yang beruntung memiliki Kurt, adik yang awalnya tidak terlalu dekat dengannya tapi akhirnya menjadi sahabat sejatinya. Sayangnya interaksi antara kedua kakak beradik ini tidak sebanyak yang saya harapkan, mungkin karena mereka lelaki dewasa yang memang tidak biasa saling bertukar pikiran dan membuka hati.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Selain itu buku Franz terpaksa harus merangkum kisah napak tilas dengan lebih singkat karena cakupan perjalanan yang memang sangat luas, mulai dari Eropa, Timur Tengah, Asia Tenggara, Amerika Latin hingga Afrika. Tidak seperti Gilbert yang fokus di tiga negara saja, Italia, India dan Indonesia, Franz dan Kurt menyempatkan diri singgah di berbagai negara di tiap benua. Oleh sebab itu catatan perjalanan Franz pun kadang terkesan terburu-buru karena sudah harus beralih ke tempat lain.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Namun persamaan kedua buku itu adalah penulisnya sama-sama berpikiran terbuka. Franz, yang memang sengaja memilih tempat tujuan di negara-negara Dunia Ketiga untuk menghemat biaya, dapat melihat keindahan alam dan keramahan penduduk di balik hal-hal buruk yang ada di suatu negara, seperti korupsi dan sistem pemerintahan yang bobrok. Di mata Franz kemiskinan tidak selalu berarti ketidakbahagiaan, karena di berbagai negara yang tergolong miskin ia menyaksikan orang-orang yang tidak putus asa dan tetap berusaha keras meski harus bergulat dengan keterbatasan. Ia belajar menghargai hal-hal yang ia miliki, dan semakin ingin melihat bagian-bagian dunia yang belum pernah ia jamah. Setelah perjalanan mereka usai, Franz dan Kurt kini tengah menjalani bulan madu berikutnya yang juga akan dituangkan dalam bentuk buku. Kita tunggu saja seperti apa petualangan mereka selanjutnya.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-dini?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-9017199526668993816?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/9017199526668993816/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=9017199526668993816&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/9017199526668993816'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/9017199526668993816'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/03/book-review-honeymoon-with-my-brother.html' title='Book review: Honeymoon with My Brother'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2147124313050029455</id><published>2009-03-21T13:19:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-03-21T13:23:20.782+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Brideshead Revisited</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/145027.Brideshead_Revisited?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Brideshead Revisited (Everyman's Library Classics)" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172168873m/145027.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/145027.Brideshead_Revisited?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Brideshead Revisited&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/11315.Evelyn_Waugh"&gt;Evelyn Waugh&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42742250?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;**SPOILER ALERT&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;**&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"...perhaps all our loves are merely hints and symbols; vagabond-language scrawled on gate-posts and paving-stones along the weary road that others have tramped before us; perhaps you and I are types and this sadness which sometimes falls between us springs from disappointment in our search, each straining through and beyond the other, snatching a glimpse now and then of the shadow which turns the corner always a pace or two ahead of us."&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Brideshead Revisited&lt;/span&gt;, Evelyn Waugh (who I seriously thought was a woman) uses beautiful, poetic language to tell the nostalgic story of an era long gone. The narrator, Charles Ryder, recalls the days of his youth and his involvement with a charming but problematic Catholic family. He befriends the eccentric, teddy bear-carrying Sebastian Flyte during college in 1920s Oxford, and subsequently gets acquainted with Sebastian's family members: his estranged father, Lord Marchmain; his strict Catholic mother, Lady Marchmain; his dull eldest brother, the Earl of Brideshead; his practical-minded sister Julia; and his witty youngest sister Cordelia. The huge, ornamental Brideshead castle becomes Charles' playground, "that low door in the wall... which opened on an enclosed and enchanted garden".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Charles and Sebastian's relationship remains a point of debate, as some interpret their intimacy as homoerotic while others see it as merely a very close friendship. There was no indication of a physical relationship between them, but Charles did not hesitate in using the word 'love' in relation to Sebastian; he thinks "to know and love one other human being is the root of all wisdom". The two of them fell apart as Sebastian descends further into alcoholism and runs abroad to escape the clutches of his family, which he finds overbearing. I do, however, think that feeling imprisoned by his religion and wealthy family seem like a poor excuse to destroy himself when he knows it will hurt his family. Perhaps that's why I feel there's something about Sebastian's character that I can't quite put my finger on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Years later, Charles meets Julia again on board a ship in stormy seas and the two of them, lonely and unhappily married, began an affair which causes them to divorce their spouses in order to marry. To me this second relationship of Charles' seems much like an extension, or even a replacement, of his earlier attachment to Sebastian. Charles himself is ambiguous in the matter; he mentioned that he sees Sebastian in Julia, but may have also seen Julia in Sebastian all those years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, the real essence of the story, as Waugh describes himself in the preface, is not romance but divine grace that compels the characters to return to Catholicism no matter how far they've seemed to stray. Lord Marchmain, who renounced Catholicism and went to live in Italy with his mistress, finally returns to God in the last moments of his life. Julia starts out as a non-believer but in the end she can't continue to "live in sin" with Charles and chooses God instead. Sebastian, who never returns to England, seeks help from a monastery abroad. Charles argues against God and Catholicism throughout the novel but at Lord Marchmain's deathbed he goes down on his knees and sincerely prays for him. Overall, the main strength of this novel to me is the mesmerizing language that makes you wish you'd written some of the passages, as well as the mix of diverse characters that make for very interesting subjects for discussion.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-dini?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2147124313050029455?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2147124313050029455/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2147124313050029455&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2147124313050029455'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2147124313050029455'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/03/book-review-brideshead-revisited.html' title='Book review: Brideshead Revisited'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-4023662611925985617</id><published>2009-03-13T12:01:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2009-03-13T12:03:12.494+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><title type='text'>Random music meme</title><content type='html'>I stole this from Facebook but thought it would be more fun to post it here. The rules: Choose a singer/band/group. Answer using ONLY titles of songs by that singer/band/group.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;---&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My choice: &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;L'Arc~en~Ciel&lt;/span&gt;. I know quite a lot of their songs, and like quite a few of them. My sister worships them. But they really do rock.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Male or female?&lt;br /&gt;Pretty girl ;D&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Describe yourself.&lt;br /&gt;Spirit dreams inside&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. What do people feel when they're around you?&lt;br /&gt;Driver’s High&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. How would you describe your previous relationship?&lt;br /&gt;Stay Away&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Describe your current relationship.&lt;br /&gt;C’est La Vie&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. Where would you want to be now?&lt;br /&gt;the Fourth Avenue Cafe&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. How do you feel about love?&lt;br /&gt;Feeling Fine&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8. What's your life like?&lt;br /&gt;Neo Universe&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9. What would you ask for if you had only one wish?&lt;br /&gt;Heaven’s Drive&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10. Say something wise.&lt;br /&gt;Ready steady can't hold me back&lt;br /&gt;Ready steady give me good luck&lt;br /&gt;Ready steady never look back&lt;br /&gt;Let's get started ready steady go!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-4023662611925985617?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/4023662611925985617/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=4023662611925985617&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4023662611925985617'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4023662611925985617'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/03/random-music-meme.html' title='Random music meme'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2035252310110885546</id><published>2009-03-10T12:08:00.006+07:00</published><updated>2009-03-10T14:33:31.810+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fun'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weekend'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='concert'/><title type='text'>We sing, we dance, we scream things</title><content type='html'>So the day finally came when I got to see &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Jason Mraz&lt;/span&gt; live at the opening night of the Jakarta &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Java Jazz Festival 2009&lt;/span&gt;. My big sister and I were among the 8,000 people (including a number of celebrities and our own vice president, according to news reports) inundating the JCC exhibition hall that Friday. So please excuse the photos, folks, as I can barely see the stage from where I was standing. I ended up taking some pictures of the screen on my left. It goes without saying that there were lots of singing along, dancing along, and endless screaming that night. If only it would last longer!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SbX2ROqkE3I/AAAAAAAAAEw/-4SD-K9pIps/s1600-h/CIMG3267.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 258px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SbX2ROqkE3I/AAAAAAAAAEw/-4SD-K9pIps/s320/CIMG3267.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5311422111408198514" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First of all, before the show Mike 'Idol' sang the national anthem. I didn't know they do that in Java Jazz. Afterwards Jason came out wearing a simple t-shirt, pants and his trademark fedora hat, singing &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Make It Mine&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Remedy (I Won't Worry)&lt;/span&gt;. He did a funny little crossover during the chorus of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Remedy&lt;/span&gt; by inserting the opening verse of Oasis' &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Wonderwall&lt;/span&gt;. Overall Mr. A-Z was fun, relaxed, funny, quirky and downright awesome. You can't help loving a guy who can sing, writes his own songs, plays guitar, is not afraid to shake his booty on stage, throws polaroid pictures of his band and himself to the audience, and gestures as if giving the audience a big hug. &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Awwww.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SbX3StoMWDI/AAAAAAAAAE4/wKqA_5tiZ_I/s1600-h/CIMG3260.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 242px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SbX3StoMWDI/AAAAAAAAAE4/wKqA_5tiZ_I/s320/CIMG3260.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5311423236411250738" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He sang about 12 songs (again, according to news reports, because I didn't exactly count) including &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Lucky&lt;/span&gt; (duet with some indie jazz singer named Dira), &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Dynamo of Volition&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Butterfly&lt;/span&gt; and of course, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I'm Yours&lt;/span&gt;. I don't think anyone can resist singing along to that song. Sadly, as I mentioned earlier, the show ended too quickly – just a little over an hour. Man, that just wasn't enough. My friend from work, Risti, who also went to the show (and is a major Mr. A-Z fan) said there weren't enough songs played and I guess it's true. It seems that because it was a jazz festival, Jason focused on his more jazzy songs such as &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;A Beautiful Mess&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Bella Luna&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;No Stopping Us&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;You and I Both&lt;/span&gt;, thus also giving a chance for the members of his band to do some improv. I wish he'd also sung some of his more catchy songs which are my favorite, like &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Geek in the Pink&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Curbside Prophet&lt;/span&gt; or &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Wordplay&lt;/span&gt;. Maybe he'll sing them when he comes back here to do a solo concert in the future. Anybody making a petition for it yet? Count me in. Until then, Jason, "I won't hesitate no more, no more, it cannot wait, I'm yours"!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jason's Myspace blog entry on his Asia tour, written at the night of his final show in Jakarta, can be found&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://blogs.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&amp;amp;friendId=4818814&amp;amp;blogId=475104276"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. Thanks to Risti for the link.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2035252310110885546?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2035252310110885546/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2035252310110885546&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2035252310110885546'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2035252310110885546'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/03/we-sing-we-dance-we-scream-things.html' title='We sing, we dance, we scream things'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SbX2ROqkE3I/AAAAAAAAAEw/-4SD-K9pIps/s72-c/CIMG3267.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-9129992479968546549</id><published>2009-03-04T16:53:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-03-04T17:08:54.433+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fun'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hanging out'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weekend'/><title type='text'>Slumdog night out</title><content type='html'>I went to see &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Slumdog Millionaire&lt;/span&gt; with the crazy bunch of people in my office department last Friday. Luckily one of us brought a car so we could cruise over quickly to &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Blitz Megaplex&lt;/span&gt; at &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Mall of Indonesia&lt;/span&gt; (MOI) in Kelapa Gading – my turf, yay! Of course that meant I had to show the way although toll roads confuse me and I've only been to MOI twice, both times only going to Carrefour. The seven of us were jam-packed in a car meant for five people (another one of us used a motorcycle), and arrived at MOI approximately one hour and a million laughs later. We ate at the food court and then watched the movie up to around 10 PM. I still haven't had a proper sightseeing of MOI, though, and I plan to do it some time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/Sa5RXVQd-NI/AAAAAAAAAEo/t9aCJNe954o/s1600-h/slumdog.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 203px; height: 302px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/Sa5RXVQd-NI/AAAAAAAAAEo/t9aCJNe954o/s320/slumdog.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5309270472001452242" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;About the movie, I was prepared to see Slumdog after finishing the book from which it was adapted, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Q &amp;amp; A&lt;/span&gt; (my review for the book is &lt;a href="http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/02/book-review-q.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;). But the film had a lot of differences from the book, and oftentimes I didn't know what was going to happen. Even the main characters' names were different; Ram Mohammad Thomas became &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Jamal Malik&lt;/span&gt; (Dev Patel), Nita became&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; Latika&lt;/span&gt; (Freida Pinto). Ram's naive best friend &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Salim&lt;/span&gt; kept his name, but became Jamal's conniving older brother. The basic premise is the same: a poor boy from Mumbai's slums overcoming the odds and winning millions in a TV quiz as well as gaining the girl he loves. The children in the movie are damn cute, and the music is good too. But Salim's character is what bothered me the most. If he could be so unfeeling as to abandon his little brother and give Latika away to a gang boss for money and security, why did he so quickly change in the end? The part where he let Latika go and basically allowed the gang members to kill him doesn't seem very reasonable to me. Just like when I watched &lt;a href="http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/02/benjamin-button-movie.html"&gt;The Curious Case of Benjamin Button&lt;/a&gt;, I think this movie is good but it just didn't amaze me. So far the Oscar movies I've seen have not surpassed this level, but I'm still waiting for Sean Penn's &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Milk&lt;/span&gt; to open in Blitz, maybe it'll change my mind.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, the Friday night out with my colleagues was fabulous. Aside from being somewhat a farewell party (it was the last day of work for Herman, who drove the car), it was the kind of fun we jaded office workers really need. We totally need to hang out some more, fellas.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's the beginning of the month and I already have a lot of things planned:&lt;br /&gt;- &lt;span&gt;Jason Mraz&lt;/span&gt; at Java Jazz on Friday! Whoo-hoo!&lt;br /&gt;- &lt;a href="http://hey-little-world.blogspot.com/"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;A get-together with old college friends Saturday next week at &lt;span&gt;Secret Recipe&lt;/span&gt; in PIM :) Can't wait.&lt;br /&gt;- Must buy new bag. Cannot choose.&lt;br /&gt;- Currently reading &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Brideshead Revisited&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Honeymoon with My Brother&lt;/span&gt;. Next in line is &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Middlesex&lt;/span&gt; for a book club read. But they all might have to step aside as my boss told me to read &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Wisdom of Whores&lt;/span&gt; for some eye-opening facts about AIDS. Well, at least it's free. I'm going to be the poster girl for borrowing books this year. Friends and libraries are the best!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-9129992479968546549?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/9129992479968546549/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=9129992479968546549&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/9129992479968546549'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/9129992479968546549'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/03/slumdog-night-out.html' title='Slumdog night out'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/Sa5RXVQd-NI/AAAAAAAAAEo/t9aCJNe954o/s72-c/slumdog.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-7109422231458287627</id><published>2009-02-26T14:35:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2009-02-26T14:37:02.195+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='writing'/><title type='text'>Writing exercise from Sindrow</title><content type='html'>The exercise is inspired by a book from Joe Brainard called &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I Remember&lt;/span&gt;. Basically what we gotta do is write a poem about something that happened in the past, starting with the words "I remember". There aren't really any rules to this. You just write whatever you want.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here's what I came up with:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    I remember staying in my grandmother's house. It was a cool, crisp morning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    I remember my cousin, we played hide and seek together. He crouched behind a large armchair.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    I remember running around in the garden, trying to locate the smell of jasmine. My aunt shushed us, her baby was asleep.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    I remember my grandma giving us glasses of milk. I told her milk nauseated me, so she made me a cup of tea instead.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    I remember sitting in her living room, feeling like nothing could disturb us and the stillnesswould go on forever.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-7109422231458287627?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/7109422231458287627/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=7109422231458287627&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7109422231458287627'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7109422231458287627'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/02/writing-exercise-from-sindrow.html' title='Writing exercise from Sindrow'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2343311360035189835</id><published>2009-02-25T13:44:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-02-25T13:51:06.728+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Book of Lost Things</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4467497.The_Book_of_Lost_Things?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Book of Lost Things (Kitab Tentang yang Telah Hilang)" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1220014597m/4467497.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4467497.The_Book_of_Lost_Things?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;The Book of Lost Things&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/38951.John_Connolly"&gt;John Connolly&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/45088161?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;**SPOILER ALERT**&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Melihat judul buku ini, &lt;em&gt;Kitab Tentang yang Telah Hilang&lt;/em&gt;, kita bisa menebak ceritanya berhubungan dengan kehilangan sesuatu atau seseorang. Di awal buku kita langsung dihadapkan pada nasib pahit David, seorang anak lelaki yang kehilangan ibunya karena penyakit. Tak lama setelah ibunya meninggal ayahnya kemudian menikah lagi. Tanpa pernah meminta David diberi ibu baru, Rose, dan adik lelaki baru, Georgie, serta harus pindah ke rumah baru pula. Di tengah masa perang yang berkecamuk di Inggris, hidup David pun tak kalah berkecamuk karena sulitnya menyesuaikan diri dengan semua perubahan yang terjadi. Ia mulai sering mendapat penglihatan-penglihatan aneh dan mendengar buku-buku di kamarnya berbicara. Puncaknya, ia masuk ke dunia lain ketika sedang menghindari pesawat Jerman yang jatuh di kebun rumahnya.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dunia yang dimasuki David penuh hal-hal aneh dan berbahaya, di antaranya makhluk Loup yang merupakan gabungan serigala dan manusia, Binatang mengerikan yang ganas dan sering memangsa penduduk, atau pemburu yang doyan memutilasi anak-anak. Banyak pula tokoh-tokoh yang sering ada dalam dongeng seperti Snow White dan Putri Tidur, tapi mereka tak seperti dalam kisah-kisah yang pernah dibaca David. Untuk mencari jalan pulang David harus menghadap raja negeri itu yang konon memiliki sebuah kitab yang mungkin bisa membantunya. Dengan bantuan si Tukang Kayu dan seorang ksatria, Roland, David harus menghadapi berbagai rintangan terutama dari seorang Lelaki Bungkuk yang tampaknya tahu banyak tentang dirinya dan punya rencana tertentu untuknya.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Saya cukup kaget saat tahu bahwa penulis buku ini, John Connolly, sebelumnya banyak mengarang novel kriminal, karena ia cukup piawai meramu 'dongeng untuk orang dewasa' ini. Meski penuh dengan hal-hal mengerikan, kejam dan &lt;em&gt;twisted&lt;/em&gt;, inti cerita sebenarnya adalah perjalanan psikologis dan emosional David dari seorang anak kecil menuju lelaki dewasa. Ia harus menghadapi rasa takut, iri dengki, prasangka, dan kehilangan. Kita kemudian tahu bahwa sang raja negeri itu dulunya adalah seorang anak dari dunia David yang pernah mengorbankan adik angkatnya sendiri kepada si Lelaki Bungkuk. Ketika David dihadapkan pada situasi yang sama, ia memilih untuk tidak mengorbankan adik tirinya, Georgie, meski dahulu ia merasa benci pada Georgie karena dianggap merebut kasih sayang ayahnya. David telah cukup dewasa untuk tidak menyerah pada pikiran-pikiran buruk yang ada dalam dirinya.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Kejutan lain adalah tokoh si Tukang Kayu yang dikisahkan tewas oleh serigala di awal cerita belakangan diketahui masih hidup dan bertemu lagi dengan David. Ia juga ternyata sudah tahu yang sebenarnya mengenai sang raja dan si Lelaki Bungkuk. Ketika si Tukang Kayu mengatakan "semua anak-anak adalah anak-anakku", ia seakan mengungkapkan dirinya sebagai figur otoritas simbolik di dunia tersebut – seperti tokoh Aslan di kisah Narnia. Dan seperti Narnia juga, David pun pada akhirnya akan kembali ke dunia tersebut. Dilihat dari sisi psikologis, bisa saja seluruh petualangan David di negeri antah berantah itu hanyalah mimpi atau buah imajinasinya sendiri. Ia memang sedang mengalami masalah pribadi yang pelik dan butuh cara alternatif untuk mengatasinya. Entah perjalanan David itu dikhayalkannya atau tidak, kisah ini cukup memesona bagi saya dan berhasil mencapai tujuannya untuk menjadi dongeng bagi orang dewasa.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-Dini?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2343311360035189835?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2343311360035189835/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2343311360035189835&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2343311360035189835'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2343311360035189835'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/02/book-review-book-of-lost-things.html' title='Book review: The Book of Lost Things'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-7527764933801118291</id><published>2009-02-20T23:36:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-02-20T23:37:48.832+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Q &amp; A</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6245469.Q_A?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Q &amp;amp; A" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1234413678m/6245469.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6245469.Q_A?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Q &amp;amp; A&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/36667.Vikas_Swarup"&gt;Vikas Swarup&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/46107148?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Kisah yang diadaptasi menjadi film peraih berbagai penghargaan, &lt;em&gt;Slumdog Millionaire&lt;/em&gt;. Ram Mohammad Thomas adalah pemuda miskin berusia delapan belas tahun yang secara mengejutkan berhasil memenangkan satu miliar rupee dalam sebuah kuis televisi. Bagaimana caranya ia menjawab pertanyaan kuis yang jawabannya mestinya tak diketahui orang yang tinggal di rumah petak kumuh seperti dirinya?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Kita pun dibawa mengikuti kisah Ram, si anak yatim piatu yang ditinggalkan di depan gereja dan dibesarkan oleh seorang pendeta. Namanya merupakan gabungan tiga agama, Ram (dewa Hindu), Mohammad (rasul agama Islam), Thomas (nama Nasrani). Roda nasib membawanya tinggal di berbagai kota dan bertemu dengan berbagai macam manusia. Persis film-film India yang sering ditontonnya, jalan hidup Ram dihiasi drama, komedi maupun tragedi. Kesenjangan orang kaya dan miskin di kota-kota metropolitan India yang disajikan di buku ini pun tak jauh bedanya dengan keadaan negeri kita sendiri. Namun buku ini menekankan bahwa kebaikan pasti akan terbalas walau harus terlebih dulu melalui jalan berliku dan serangkaian kebetulan. Kita sebagai pembaca dilarutkan dalam pusaran cerita dan turut gembira setiap kali sang pembawa acara kuis berkata, "Selamat, Anda telah memenangkan (sekian) juta rupee!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-Dini?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-7527764933801118291?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/7527764933801118291/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=7527764933801118291&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7527764933801118291'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7527764933801118291'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/02/book-review-q.html' title='Book review: Q &amp; A'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-1986159155172756620</id><published>2009-02-19T14:43:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-02-19T15:00:43.700+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><title type='text'>The lady and the cats</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SZ0PnBEBTzI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/qryEQ7v4chE/s1600-h/cats.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 250px; height: 181px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SZ0PnBEBTzI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/qryEQ7v4chE/s320/cats.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5304413099086925618" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I go to work by bus and cross a bridge to my office everyday. On the bridge in the morning there are always two cats. You see stray cats everywhere in the city, really. But these two always seem to be waiting for something in the morning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A middle-aged woman also crosses the bridge every morning. When the cats see her they start meowing and approach her enthusiastically, almost jostling each other to get to her. Then she takes out some leftover rice wrapped in a piece of paper and puts it down for the cats to eat. Once the rice comes out the cats forget about the lady entirely and busy munching on their breakfast, but she strokes them fondly for a while before leaving.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Every morning on the bridge near my office I see love, in the eyes of a lady who feeds the cats.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-1986159155172756620?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/1986159155172756620/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=1986159155172756620&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1986159155172756620'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1986159155172756620'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/02/lady-and-cats.html' title='The lady and the cats'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SZ0PnBEBTzI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/qryEQ7v4chE/s72-c/cats.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-5845316168560907617</id><published>2009-02-17T16:46:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-02-17T16:50:42.222+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Coraline</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1061252.Coraline?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Coraline" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1180646513m/1061252.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1061252.Coraline?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Coraline&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1221698.Neil_Gaiman"&gt;Neil Gaiman&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/44901634?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;  rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Coraline (I had to keep telling myself it's pronounced Cora-LINE, not Cora-LEEN) was feeling bored at home, so she went exploring in her house. There was a mysterious door at the old house, a door leading to a frightening world that mimics this world, but not quite like it. Unimaginable things started to happen once Coraline entered that door. This story mixes horror, fantasy and adventure, with a spunky young girl as the main character. Coraline is awesome not because she's brave, but because &lt;em&gt;"when you're scared but you still do it anyway, &lt;u&gt;that's&lt;/u&gt; brave"&lt;/em&gt;. Now if I could only watch the movie, that'd be perfect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-Dini?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-5845316168560907617?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/5845316168560907617/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=5845316168560907617&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5845316168560907617'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5845316168560907617'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/02/book-review-coraline.html' title='Book review: Coraline'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-5241654668779017051</id><published>2009-02-17T14:00:00.004+07:00</published><updated>2009-02-17T14:19:44.031+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weekend'/><title type='text'>Benjamin Button the movie</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SZpjqvCJkrI/AAAAAAAAAEI/JejrOhkpxfw/s1600-h/benjamin+button.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 188px; height: 290px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SZpjqvCJkrI/AAAAAAAAAEI/JejrOhkpxfw/s320/benjamin+button.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5303661097013318322" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I saw the movie &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;The Curious Case of Benjamin Button&lt;/span&gt; with my friend Saras on the weekend in Setiabudi. It is loosely based on &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;F. Scott Fitzgerald&lt;/span&gt;'s short story of the same name (see my review of the short story &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/02/book-review-curious-case-of-benjamin.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;). The filmmakers only took the title and the basic premise of a man who ages backwards. They also focus more on the love story in the movie.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Benjamin Button (&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Brad Pitt&lt;/span&gt;) was born in New Orleans with the figure of a baby but is aged like an old man. Here the film addresses my main dissatisfaction with the story, i.e. how Benjamin's mother can possibly give birth to an adult-sized person, and what happened to her afterward because there was no mention of her whatsoever after the birth. In the movie Mrs. Button died after giving birth, and Benjamin is baby-sized but with wrinkled skin and an old person's organs. Shocked by his wife's death and disgusted with Benjamin's appearance, his father left him in front of a house for the elderly. Benjamin was then raised by Queenie (Taraji P. Henson), a black woman who runs the house. He meets a little girl named Daisy (adult version played by &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Cate Blanchett&lt;/span&gt;) and the two fall in love, but only got together when they met in the middle – when Benjamin had become young enough for her and she old enough for him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was a good movie, with good visuals and some funny parts though the overall tone is sad. But it didn't really wow me or anything. Not like, say, &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Into The Wild&lt;/span&gt;, which made go 'Holy crap' after I finished watching. In short, not a Best Picture Oscar material for me (then again, what do I know about best pictures?). It's beautiful, though, and the ending scene was perfect. Cate Blanchett is so gorgeous as a ballet dancer. And while I've never been a fan of Brad Pitt, it's fun to see him transform from an old man into the hunk that he is. And then into a fresh-faced boyish teen. Oh my.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-5241654668779017051?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/5241654668779017051/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=5241654668779017051&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5241654668779017051'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5241654668779017051'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/02/benjamin-button-movie.html' title='Benjamin Button the movie'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SZpjqvCJkrI/AAAAAAAAAEI/JejrOhkpxfw/s72-c/benjamin+button.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-1084529219845135488</id><published>2009-02-16T15:45:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-02-26T14:37:21.315+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tv shows'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='speak up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='feminist'/><title type='text'>I'm a kayak, hear me roar</title><content type='html'>A few days ago I saw an episode of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Gilmore Girls&lt;/span&gt; season 7 on DVD. In the episode, one of the main characters, Lorelai Gilmore, is talking with her mother Emily. Lorelai's dad, Richard, had had a heart attack and while he's quite recovered, he doesn't want to do anything but watch TV all day. Emily is upset because now his secretary is constantly calling, asking about work-related stuff while Richard doesn't seem to want to deal with work anymore. Then Emily, the housewife, goes on to compare her situation with Lorelai, the independent single mother. Interesting feminist discussion ensues. See the dialogue below, courtesy of TWIZ TV.com.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;EMILY&lt;/span&gt;: It’s like a canoe.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;LORELAI&lt;/span&gt;: What’s like a canoe?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;EMILY&lt;/span&gt;: Life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;LORELAI&lt;/span&gt;: Okay.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;EMILY&lt;/span&gt;: You're just paddling along in a canoe. Your father and I have been paddling a canoe together for years. Only now, he’s dropped the paddle. He just dropped it. Not only that, but now the canoe is going in circles. Without your father there, I'm paddling on my side and the canoe is spinning in circles, and the harder I paddle, the faster it spins, and it’s hard work, and I'm getting tired.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;LORELAI&lt;/span&gt;: Dizzy, I would think.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;EMILY&lt;/span&gt;: You are in a kayak. You know how to do all of this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;LORELAI&lt;/span&gt;: How does that put me in a kayak?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;EMILY&lt;/span&gt;: Kayaks have paddles with things on both ends. You steer it by yourself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;LORELAI&lt;/span&gt;: Mom, you know how to do things by yourself. You are totally capable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;EMILY&lt;/span&gt;: Sure, I went to Smith, and I was a history major, but I never had any plans to be an historian. I was always going to be a wife. I mean, the way I saw it, a woman’s job was to run a home, organize the social life of a family, and bolster her husband while he earned a living. It was a good system, and it was working very well all these years. Only when your husband isn't there because he’s watching television in a dressing gown, you realize how dependent you are. I didn't even know I owned windmills.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;LORELAI&lt;/span&gt;: Mom, now you know, and you know how to right-click.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;EMILY&lt;/span&gt;: But you. You provide for yourself. You're not dependent on anyone. You're independent.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;LORELAI&lt;/span&gt;: I am kayak, hear me roar.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-1084529219845135488?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/1084529219845135488/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=1084529219845135488&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1084529219845135488'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1084529219845135488'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/02/im-kayak-hear-me-roar.html' title='I&apos;m a kayak, hear me roar'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-5122383101864609506</id><published>2009-02-12T16:37:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2009-02-12T16:42:40.200+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Anak Lelaki Berpiama Garis-Garis (The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1538514.Anak_Lelaki_Berpiama_Garis_Garis?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Anak Lelaki Berpiama Garis-Garis (The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas)" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1184904434m/1538514.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1538514.Anak_Lelaki_Berpiama_Garis_Garis?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Anak Lelaki Berpiama Garis-Garis&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/7195.John_Boyne"&gt;John Boyne&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/44901427?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Kisah persahabatan seorang anak perwira Jerman bernama Bruno dengan anak lelaki berpiama garis-garis, Shmuel, yang ditemuinya di sebuah kamp. Bruno tak mengeri kenapa ia dan keluarganya harus pindah ke sebuah rumah baru di tempat yang sepi. Sebuah pagar tinggi membatasi rumah itu dengan pemukiman orang-orang yang semuanya berpakaian piama garis-garis, dan di depan pagar itulah Bruno bertemu dengan Shmuel. Makna dalam kisah ini bertambah kuat justru karena sejumlah hal tidak diungkapkan secara gamblang, seperti tempat apakah sebenarnya kamp itu, apa yang terjadi dengan pelayan baru di rumah Bruno, atau hal mengejutkan apa yang sebenarnya terjadi di akhir cerita. Pembaca dibiarkan menafsirkan sendiri kisah ini, dan itulah poin penting yang ditawarkan sang pengarang.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-Dini?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-5122383101864609506?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/5122383101864609506/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=5122383101864609506&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5122383101864609506'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5122383101864609506'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/02/book-review-anak-lelaki-berpiama-garis.html' title='Book review: Anak Lelaki Berpiama Garis-Garis (The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas)'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-4572221725293266470</id><published>2009-02-10T16:18:00.005+07:00</published><updated>2009-02-25T13:50:48.318+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Curious Case of Benjamin Button</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/747746.The_Curious_Case_of_Benjamin_Button?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Curious Case of Benjamin Button" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51hw5rmtWqL._SL160_.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/747746.The_Curious_Case_of_Benjamin_Button?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;The Curious Case of Benjamin Button&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/3190.F_Scott_Fitzgerald"&gt;F. Scott Fitzgerald&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/38201211?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 3 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;**SPOILER ALERT**&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An interesting tale of a man who ages backward, though as a short story it lacks detail. How come nothing is ever said of Benjamin's mother? One basic detail is never covered: how on earth did she give birth to an adult-sized person? Why does no one seem to regard Benjamin's aging process weird? He caused a sensation when he was born as an old man, but why is so little mentioned about the public's reaction to his backward-aging? Perhaps this issue could be addressed if the story is written as a novel. But I do like the way the story is told, it's funny and sad and ironic at the same time. Up next is watching the movie, which I plan to do with a friend on the weekend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-Dini?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-4572221725293266470?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/4572221725293266470/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=4572221725293266470&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4572221725293266470'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4572221725293266470'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/02/book-review-curious-case-of-benjamin.html' title='Book review: The Curious Case of Benjamin Button'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-4137347428999926212</id><published>2009-02-10T15:15:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2009-02-10T16:21:25.990+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><title type='text'>Come to the dark side</title><content type='html'>So I've finally joined Facebook. Minutes later all my co-workers have already added me. Ha. There's nothing in it yet as I don't have time to add stuff. But the layout sure looks confusing with all the applications in one place. Hm. Let's see how long this thing lasts.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-4137347428999926212?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/4137347428999926212/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=4137347428999926212&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4137347428999926212'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4137347428999926212'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/02/come-to-dark-side.html' title='Come to the dark side'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-4730110197003181573</id><published>2009-02-03T16:45:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2009-02-03T16:52:30.999+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Perpustakaan Ajaib Bibbi Bokken</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1494179.Perpustakaan_Ajaib_Bibbi_Bokken?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Perpustakaan Ajaib Bibbi Bokken" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1226395983m/1494179.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1494179.Perpustakaan_Ajaib_Bibbi_Bokken?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Perpustakaan Ajaib Bibbi Bokken&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1388082.Jostein_Gaarder"&gt;Jostein Gaarder&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/44901166?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;  rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Saya sudah beberapa kali mendengar tentang buku ini, tapi baru berniat membacanya setelah melihatnya di sebuah perpustakaan. Buku tentang perpustakaan, pastinya harus dipinjam dari perpustakaan. Waktu membaca beberapa halaman awal, ada bagian di mana seorang perempuan terlihat ngiler ketika memandangi buku-buku di toko buku. &lt;em&gt;"Gila, gue banget tuh!"&lt;/em&gt; batin saya. Ketika meneruskan membaca pun saya larut dalam cerita yang mengasyikkan, ikut deg-degan bersama kedua karakter utamanya, dan meresapi kecintaan para tokoh pada buku dan membaca.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sepasang sepupu berusia sekitar 13 dan 12 tahun, Berit dan Nils, tinggal di dua kota yang berbeda di Norwegia dan saling berkorespondensi dengan menulisi sebuah buku yang mereka kirimkan bolak balik di antara mereka. Dalam buku-surat itu mereka membahas misteri yang melingkupi seorang perempuan tua bernama Bibbi Bokken dan sebuah "perpustakaan ajaib". Seiring berjalannya cerita kita diajak untuk mengetahui seperti apakah perpustakaan ajaib itu, siapa Bibbi Bokken sebenarnya, dan mengapa ia tampaknya tahu berbagai hal mengenai Nils dan Berit. Benarkah ada konspirasi di sini?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ketegangan dan misteri yang ada cukup membuat saya tak ingin lepas dari buku ini hingga halaman akhir. Narasi kedua tokoh utama pun membuat jalan cerita tidak membosankan, baik itu karena kepolosan dan imajinasi mereka yang tinggi maupun sisipan humor — misalnya mengenai Nils yang sering agak narsis atau Berit yang sebagai ABG mulai mengenal yang namanya lipstik. Sebagai pecinta buku saya pun sering merasakan hal yang sama seperti dikisahkan dalam buku ini: melihat deretan buku-buku yang tak berujung dan menyadari bahwa sampai kapan pun saya mungkin tidak akan sanggup membaca semuanya. Tapi toh hal itu tidak membuat saya kecil hati, malah saya semakin ingin terus menceburkan diri dalam lautan buku, demi merasakan berjuta keajaiban yang ditimbulkan dengan merangkaikan 26 huruf saja. Jika Anda pecinta buku juga, tak ada salahnya membaca buku ini.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923-Dini?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-4730110197003181573?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/4730110197003181573/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=4730110197003181573&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4730110197003181573'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4730110197003181573'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/02/book-review-perpustakaan-ajaib-bibbi.html' title='Book review: Perpustakaan Ajaib Bibbi Bokken'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-5701747378379536491</id><published>2009-01-20T00:28:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2009-02-03T16:55:02.403+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Neverwhere</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/575754.Neverwhere_Author_s_Preferred_Text?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Neverwhere: Author's Preferred Text" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1175940435m/575754.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/575754.Neverwhere_Author_s_Preferred_Text?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Neverwhere: Author's Preferred Text&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1221698.Neil_Gaiman"&gt;Neil Gaiman&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/38201254?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 3 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As always Gaiman offers a journey into a unique, magical world. This time we're taken to an underground world below London, the place of people who don't belong and have fallen through the cracks. Wasn't too amazing or anything, but I still like it — the humor, the quirky characters, the twist in the plot. And like &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/book/show/16793.Stardust" title="Stardust by Neil Gaiman"&gt;Stardust&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/book/show/2744.Anansi_Boys" title="Anansi Boys by Neil Gaiman"&gt;Anansi Boys&lt;/a&gt; which I read earlier, this book has an endearing, innocent male lead.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-5701747378379536491?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/5701747378379536491/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=5701747378379536491&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5701747378379536491'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5701747378379536491'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/01/book-review-neverwhere.html' title='Book review: Neverwhere'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-756332353284434819</id><published>2009-01-05T15:04:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2009-01-05T15:14:36.761+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Secret Life of Bees</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/832098.The_Secret_Life_of_Bees?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Secret Life of Bees" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1178749718m/832098.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/832098.The_Secret_Life_of_Bees?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;The Secret Life of Bees&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/4711.Sue_Monk_Kidd"&gt;Sue Monk Kidd&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/40727504?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"I realized it for the first time in my life: there is nothing but mystery in the world, how it hides behind the fabric of our poor, browbeat days, shining brightly, and we don't even know it."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the summer of 1964, fourteen-year-old Lily Owens escapes from home with a black servant, Rosaleen, away from her cruel father. Seeking answers to the mystery of her mother's death ten years ago, Lily and Rosaleen ends up living with three black women who keep bees for a living and are named after the months of the calendar: August, June and May.  What Lily finds in the bee farm is not only shelter and companionship, but also ultimately love and forgiveness. The language is simple but beautiful; I must have underlined a passage every few pages. A touching, heartfelt and essentially female novel.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-756332353284434819?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/756332353284434819/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=756332353284434819&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/756332353284434819'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/756332353284434819'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/01/book-review-secret-life-of-bees.html' title='Book review: The Secret Life of Bees'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-315540079501989910</id><published>2009-01-05T13:48:00.005+07:00</published><updated>2009-01-05T15:01:02.761+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fun'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hanging out'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='holiday'/><title type='text'>RAN for the New Year</title><content type='html'>Happy new year, everyone. Last week on Dec. 28 I caught up with &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;RAN&lt;/span&gt;'s free showcase at my home turf, Mal Kelapa Gading 3. I haven't listened to their album, but they're not bad. Certainly a young, fun and groovy bunch. Yang nonton juga ABG semua gitu bo...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The show was part of MKG's Christmas and New Year's events. And since the events were sponsored by Disney, they had all these High School Musical/Hannah Montana/Jonas Brothers decorations on the stage. And of course RAN had to throw in a few Jonas Brothers jokes for good measure.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SWG3RWyOGdI/AAAAAAAAAD4/q2syk2A7gio/s1600-h/CIMG3189.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 322px; height: 244px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SWG3RWyOGdI/AAAAAAAAAD4/q2syk2A7gio/s400/CIMG3189.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5287708946311551442" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SWG3Q4cbfzI/AAAAAAAAADo/Z0CnyYfekaM/s1600-h/CIMG3175.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 322px; height: 241px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SWG3Q4cbfzI/AAAAAAAAADo/Z0CnyYfekaM/s400/CIMG3175.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5287708938167090994" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And in the honor of saying goodbye to last year, here are my memorable 2008 moments:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Got flooded (again) in February. Luckily it didn't last long.&lt;br /&gt;- &lt;a href="http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/05/first-post-yay.html"&gt;Started this blog&lt;/a&gt; in May.&lt;br /&gt;- Got &lt;a href="http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/07/yesterday-i-turned-24.html"&gt;chickenpox&lt;/a&gt; in July. And then passed it on to my two sisters. Urgh.&lt;br /&gt;- Became &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;the&lt;/span&gt; senior writer at my division at work after the previous highest senior was given another position. And I printed business cards with my new title on it, haha.&lt;br /&gt;- Had &lt;a href="http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/08/sushi-weekend.html"&gt;sushi&lt;/a&gt; for the first time.&lt;br /&gt;- Got addicted to &lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/"&gt;Goodreads&lt;/a&gt; and made lots of friends there, both from Indonesia and abroad. And because of the site, I read 52 books last year (have never bothered to count before, but I'm pretty sure I've never gotten that far).&lt;br /&gt;- Had to deal with a family member's health problems.&lt;br /&gt;- Got a picture of myself (and other people) &lt;a href="http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/my-picture-is-in-newspaper.html"&gt;printed in a newspaper&lt;/a&gt; for a Goodreads coverage. I think I also appeared in MetroTV while attending Indonesia Book Fair, but I missed it when it aired.&lt;br /&gt;- Developed new crushes on &lt;a href="http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/12/ive-got-thing-for-you.html"&gt;Emile Hirsch&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/06/movies-fuel-price-and-american-idol.html"&gt;David Cook&lt;/a&gt;, and Ed Westwick, among others. Oh, and Jason Mraz for his music.&lt;br /&gt;- Went to a &lt;a href="http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/david-tao-jakarta-concert-2008.html"&gt;David Tao concert&lt;/a&gt; in October.&lt;br /&gt;- Bought an MP3 player on a whim.&lt;br /&gt;- Got used to being a family breadwinner. And paying our internet bills. Gah.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I won't list my new years resolutions here, first because I'm still working on it and second because I usually procrastinate on doing them anyway. Haha. So I'd just like to wish for a better year ahead of us!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-315540079501989910?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/315540079501989910/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=315540079501989910&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/315540079501989910'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/315540079501989910'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2009/01/ran-for-new-year.html' title='RAN for the New Year'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SWG3RWyOGdI/AAAAAAAAAD4/q2syk2A7gio/s72-c/CIMG3189.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-7993268056005088790</id><published>2008-12-29T16:20:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2008-12-29T16:35:51.428+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><title type='text'>Excuse me ma'am, are you pregnant?</title><content type='html'>As a daily commuter using the TransJakarta bus, I am often faced with the dilemma of giving my seat to people. Old people and mothers with babies are pretty straightforward. The pregnant women, not so much. Well, not unless the bump is big enough to make it obvious that said woman is indeed with child. But sometimes it's difficult to tell the difference between an early pregnancy and an accumulation of excess fat in the belly. Nggak lucu kan kalo udah nanya "Mbak mau duduk, lagi hamil kan?" taunya jawabnya nggak. Agak menyinggung ya bok...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(Mind you, this comes from a girl who definitely needs to shed some of those aforementioned excess belly fat. Luckily I have so far succeeded in concealing it with appropriate articles of clothing, to the point that my co-worker described me as 'ramping'. &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Moi&lt;/span&gt;? Really?)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-7993268056005088790?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/7993268056005088790/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=7993268056005088790&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7993268056005088790'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7993268056005088790'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/12/excuse-me-maam-are-you-pregnant.html' title='Excuse me ma&apos;am, are you pregnant?'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-3682342325614839441</id><published>2008-12-23T09:59:00.006+07:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T12:55:38.361+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='boys'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fun'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fangirling'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><title type='text'>I've got a thing for you</title><content type='html'>My new crush: Emile Hirsch.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SVBXkYl6SZI/AAAAAAAAADg/s5QKQK3qk2w/s1600-h/emile.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 196px; height: 257px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SVBXkYl6SZI/AAAAAAAAADg/s5QKQK3qk2w/s400/emile.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5282818645493959058" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;(Photo from Esquire)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This boy is dang cute. See how I call him "boy" even though he's only one year younger than me?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-3682342325614839441?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/3682342325614839441/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=3682342325614839441&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/3682342325614839441'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/3682342325614839441'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/12/ive-got-thing-for-you.html' title='I&apos;ve got a thing for you'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SVBXkYl6SZI/AAAAAAAAADg/s5QKQK3qk2w/s72-c/emile.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-8453975661398969393</id><published>2008-12-18T14:01:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2008-12-18T14:05:56.015+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Into the Wild</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1390754.Into_the_Wild?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Into the Wild" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41p89XJl2ML._SL160_.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1390754.Into_the_Wild?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Into the Wild&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1235.Jon_Krakauer"&gt;Jon Krakauer&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/18266655?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 5 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This book got me riveted in the tragic story of Chris McCandless, a young man who left his family and friends, abandoned most of his material possessions, went to the Alaska wilderness and perished there. The author does a great job of portraying McCandless complex personality through meticulous research based on interviews, letters and journal entries. The writing is so engaging that although it is already clear from the beginning how McCandless' story would end, I was hooked till the last page. Krakauer only digresses when discussing his own high-risk undertaking and those of ill-fated adventurers similar to McCandless — these parts offer comparison to McCandless' character but I found myself getting impatient and wanting them to end quickly, to return to the main story itself which is much more compelling.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Readers have been divided with regard to this story. Some admire McCandless' daring and idealism; some others say he was stupid, reckless and arrogant enough to have gone to Alaska without sufficient preparation. I think he was a human being with faults and merits, but I have to admit I felt something stirring in me when I read this passage, taken from a letter he wrote to a friend:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"...make a radical change in your lifestyle and begin to boldly do things which you may previously never have thought of doing, or been too hesitant to attempt. So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservation... The very basic core of a man's living spirit is his passion for adventure."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The passage resonates with me because my life has been filled with stagnation and inactivity. I am the queen of conservatism. I don't consider myself unhappy, but I'm always afraid of moving outside the comfort zone, of expanding further than my own comfortable little shell. I often don't exert myself to my best capabilities because halfhearted efforts seemed good enough. When I read about McCandless, I noticed that one of his admirable traits is if he wanted something he went out and did it. He was not afraid of challenges, the greater they are the better. Jason Mraz says &lt;i&gt;"live high, live mighty, live righteously"&lt;/i&gt;. I think that was what McCandless did: he lived up to his ideals.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One the other hand, the greatest tragedy of McCandless' life, in my opinion, was his conflicting feelings toward human intimacy and relationship. He clashed with his parents and others who didn't share his beliefs to the point that he spurned humanity and sought nature and the wilderness instead. But even during his solitary journeys he met a lot of people and connected with them, touching their lives as well as his own. His final odyssey in Alaska had probably made him realize, more than ever, the raw need for companionship, but he didn't survive that trip — causing endless grief to his family. So in the end, if there is something I can take from McCandless story, it is this message: Be bold. Get out there. Do something. But don't forget those who love you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-8453975661398969393?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/8453975661398969393/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=8453975661398969393&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8453975661398969393'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8453975661398969393'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/12/book-review-into-wild.html' title='Book review: Into the Wild'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-6160668108987298580</id><published>2008-12-09T01:27:00.006+07:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T02:52:12.659+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weekend'/><title type='text'>Ember of the golden flower in twilight</title><content type='html'>Please excuse the lame post title, friends. I was trying to assemble three movie titles which I watched last week into one. On Thursday I watched &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;City of Ember&lt;/span&gt; by myself at the theaters, on Sunday went to see the much-hyped &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Twilight&lt;/span&gt; with the big sis, and later caught &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Curse of the Golden Flower&lt;/span&gt; on TV.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/ST1u_mQoJdI/AAAAAAAAADA/SmONEaVr3Hs/s1600-h/ember+poster.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 173px; height: 259px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/ST1u_mQoJdI/AAAAAAAAADA/SmONEaVr3Hs/s400/ember+poster.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277496377229190610" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;First of all, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;City of Ember&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;. Although a film with this title can be quite laughable in Indonesia (kota kok isinya ember?), the movie was enjoyable. Ember is an underground city powered by a generator, which provides the only source of lights for people who never knew what the sun was like. As the generator begins to fail and blackouts become increasingly often, youngsters Lina (&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Saoirse Ronan&lt;/span&gt; of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Atonement&lt;/span&gt; fame) and Doon (&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Harry Treadaway&lt;/span&gt; — who looks like a grown-up but less cute version of Skandar Keynes) try to find a way out of the city to get help. The adventure was fun, and the mystery quite intriguing. It made me want to read the books; there are four YA (young adult) novels about Ember. These kinds of stories serve as a warning that there may come a time when we can no longer rely on the sun, or our energy sources will not be available to us anymore. To sum up, it was a pretty good movie with a message. I just wish I wasn't imagining Skandar as Doon all the time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The next movie is another YA book adaptation, but this is no random book. It's &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Twilight&lt;/span&gt;. As the resident bookworm at my office, lately my co-workers have often asked me, What's &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Twilight&lt;/span&gt; about? Why's everyone talking about it? Well, it's a cheesy teen vampire romance. I expected cheese, and cheese did I get. But it was not so bad, the cheese, in fact it was pretty yummy. Now, moving on from that metaphor...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/ST1z1LxrBrI/AAAAAAAAADI/7oUHwjIRwEA/s1600-h/twilight+poster.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 226px; height: 317px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/ST1z1LxrBrI/AAAAAAAAADI/7oUHwjIRwEA/s400/twilight+poster.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277501695879481010" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The movie chronicles the tale of the supposed star-cross'd couple of this century, &lt;span&gt;Edward&lt;/span&gt; (new Hollywood heartthrob &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Robert Pattinson&lt;/span&gt;, last seen as Cedric Diggory in &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Harry Potter&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; 4&lt;/span&gt;) and Bella (&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Kristen Stewart&lt;/span&gt;, best known for her role in &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Panic Room&lt;/span&gt;). He's an out-of-this world beautiful, fast, strong, mind-reading vampire, while she's a simple but pretty schoolgirl. Edward is supposed to be fighting an urge to suck the blood out of his girlfriend's neck, but his facial expressions sometimes look like he's going to laugh, and then want to puke, or constipating — my sister and I had a great laugh over it. Some of the dialogue in the movie also felt weird, don't know if it's originally like that in the book or it's just the screenplay. On the other hand, Edward and Bella do have great chemistry; some scenes when they're together were really sweet, although the process of falling of love felt too quick. And then there was this scene where the vampires play a super fast/strong version of baseball. I was prepared to hate it because I heard that it was like a Quidditch-wannabe, but it turned out to be kinda cool — maybe it's the background song (I never liked &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Muse&lt;/span&gt;'s &lt;i style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Supermassive Black Hole&lt;/i&gt; because the music video was creepy but it was perfect for that scene). So overall it was OK for a weekend movie. I still want to check out the books just out of curiosity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/ST10rMlNgXI/AAAAAAAAADQ/6VLQc7bZm30/s1600-h/golden+flower+poster.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 210px; height: 296px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/ST10rMlNgXI/AAAAAAAAADQ/6VLQc7bZm30/s400/golden+flower+poster.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277502623808586098" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;The last movie is&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;Zhang Yimou's &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Curse of the Golden Flower&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, playing on TV late Sunday. It's a story of lies, betrayal and intrigue within a royal family in China. The Emperor (&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Chow Yun-Fat&lt;/span&gt;) is poisoning &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;his Empress&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; (&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Gong Li&lt;/span&gt;) &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;for having an affair with crown prince Yuan Xiao, his son from a first wife. The Empress herself is planning a coup with the help of his own son, second prince Yuan Qi (&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Jay Chou&lt;/span&gt;). But other people are also having affairs and cooking schemes of their own, and it all explodes during the Crysanthemum Day festival. A lot has been said about the stunning visuals (and the controversially revealing female costumes &lt;/span&gt;— wonder why nobody in Chin Yung's stories dress like that?). The most stunning of all, I think, is when the coup failed and servants immediately discarded the soldiers' bodies, washed away all the blood, covered everything with a new carpet and put rows and rows of golden flowers for the festival as if nothing ever happened. Crazy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course one of the main reasons I wanted to watch the movie was because of Jay, and I'm glad he got a good part in it. His character is probably the one with the purest intentions — he does everything out of love and reverence for his mother. Just like his own song, &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Ting Mama De Hua&lt;/span&gt; (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Listen To What Mother Says&lt;/span&gt;). Speaking of songs, the ending song for the movie, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Ju Hua Tai&lt;/span&gt; (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Chrysanthemum Flower Bed&lt;/span&gt;) is also performed by Jay, and after watching the movie I felt it had taken a whole new meaning. &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"The chrysanthemum flower is ruined... Hurt all over the ground."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In conclusion (like a good student in a &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;writing class), if I&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; had to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;rank the three movies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; in the order that I enjoyed the most, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Curse of the Golden Flower&lt;/span&gt; would go first, followed by &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;City of Ember&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Twilight&lt;/span&gt;. I'd probably think differently if I had read the books for the last two. Then again... maybe not. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-6160668108987298580?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/6160668108987298580/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=6160668108987298580&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6160668108987298580'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6160668108987298580'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/12/ember-of-golden-flower-in-twilight.html' title='Ember of the golden flower in twilight'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/ST1u_mQoJdI/AAAAAAAAADA/SmONEaVr3Hs/s72-c/ember+poster.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2512005091907390724</id><published>2008-12-02T01:20:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2008-12-02T01:21:40.094+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Love Walked In</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/115076.Love_Walked_In?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Love Walked In" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1171698450m/115076.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/115076.Love_Walked_In?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Love Walked In&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/66631.Marisa_de_los_Santos"&gt;Marisa de los Santos&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/30857323?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"It was one of those dropped-from-the-sky silvery moments when you stand there believing that every last thing in the world is delicate, lovely, and precise, including and especially you."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a story about a girl, a woman, their lives, and what happens when their paths crossed and intertwined. The chapters switch back and forth between the (first person) point of view of 31-year-old Cornelia Brown, and that (not first person) of 11-year-old Clare Hobbes. The author actually started her writing career as a poet, so that probably explains her clever, amusing, enchanting way with words. There were laugh-out-loud moments as well as touching ones, sprinkled with numerous references to classical movies and literary characters (I don't know much about old Hollywood so I can relate better to the latter). I found myself enjoying the first half of the book better than the last and felt the ending fell rather flat, but I couldn't imagine the story to end in any other way. There's a sequel to this book called &lt;i&gt;Belong to Me&lt;/i&gt;, and I'll definitely read it as Marisa de los Santos has officially entered the list of my new favorite writers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2512005091907390724?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2512005091907390724/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2512005091907390724&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2512005091907390724'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2512005091907390724'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/12/book-review-love-walked-in.html' title='Book review: Love Walked In'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2474142498367074522</id><published>2008-12-02T01:15:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2008-12-02T01:31:01.224+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Time Traveler's Wife</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1830952.The_Time_Traveler_s_Wife?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Time Traveler's Wife (Istri Sang Penjelajah Waktu)" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1188937023m/1830952.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1830952.The_Time_Traveler_s_Wife?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;The Time Traveler's Wife&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/498072.Audrey_Niffenegger"&gt;Audrey Niffenegger&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/9414182?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;  rating: 3 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Inilah kisah cinta yang mengharu biru antara Henry, lelaki dengan kelainan gen yang menyebabkan dirinya sering tiba-tiba mondar mandir dalam perjalanan waktu, dengan Clare, gadis yang masa lalu, masa kini dan masa depannya terpaut erat dengan Henry. Buku ini memang cocok sekali untuk dijadikan film karena ceritanya unik, romantis, dramatis dan -is -is lainnya. Tapi apa daya buku ini cuma kebagian tiga bintang saja dari saya soalnya terjemahannya terasa kurang menggigit (nyamuk kali). Terus kok saya merasa seakan-akan buku ini dibagi dua dan diterjemahkan orang yang berbeda ya? Atau mungkin ini cuma kekurangtelitian editor? Soalnya ada kata-kata yang dipakai di bagian pertama tapi di bagian dua jadi beda. Ditambah lagi saya gatal melihat kata "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Well&lt;/span&gt;" diterjemahkan sebagai "Wah", rasanya tidak cocok.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Selain itu dari segi cerita bagian pertama buku terasa kurang greget karena sudah jelas dari awal (dari judulnya malah) bahwa Clare akan menikah dengan Henry, maka perjalanan hingga sampai ke titik itu agak panjang dan membosankan buat saya. Tapi setelah mereka menjalani kehidupan suami istri barulah masalah-masalah penting bergulir dan perjuangan Clare dan Henry mulai menggugah rasa penasaran saya. Buku ini  menawarkan sejumlah pertanyaan menarik: Apakah karena mereka jatuh cinta maka Henry pergi ke masa lalu Clare, ataukah mereka jatuh cinta karena Henry bertemu Clare di masa lalunya? Mampukah Clare bertahan memiliki suami yang seringkali menghilang tanpa tahu kapan akan pulang? Apa pengaruh perjalanan waktu tersebut terhadap diri Henry? Untuk mengetahuinya bacalah buku ini, tapi saran saya lebih baik cari versi bahasa Inggrisnya.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2474142498367074522?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2474142498367074522/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2474142498367074522&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2474142498367074522'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2474142498367074522'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/12/book-review-time-travelers-wife.html' title='Book review: The Time Traveler&apos;s Wife'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-7837702259284126697</id><published>2008-11-22T09:08:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:12:47.614+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Catcher in the Rye</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/5107.The_Catcher_in_the_Rye?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Catcher in the Rye" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1165517671m/5107.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/5107.The_Catcher_in_the_Rye?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;The Catcher in the Rye&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/819789.J_D_Salinger"&gt;J.D. Salinger&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/7530034?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;  rating: 3 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;**SPOILER ALERT** &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I first read about the misadventures of Holden Caulfield when I was a fresh-faced girl of around sixteen, and I didn't quite understand the book back then. I thought it was because my English was rather crumby and all, but when I re-read it I don't think the impression I got was very different or anything.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Old Holden mentions Shakespeare's Hamlet in the book, and I think the boy was right on. He says Hamlet was a "sad, screwed-up guy", which exactly describes Holden himself. He goes around feeling depressed as hell, and then he'd get nervous, or he'd suddenly cry. He keeps ranting about how people are all phonies, but he hangs around with them anyway. He gives all this crap about hating the movies but goes to see them anyhow. He's the one who goes out with a girl just because she's pretty and despite the fact he can't stand her, but he calls everybody else phonies? I think he should get a goddam mirror. I'm not kidding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But aside from that, I can see how he got to that state. It seems that his brother Allie's death messed up with his head a little instead of just his hand. Also, I didn't like the book that much when I first read it but the ending stuck with me for a long time — Holden not going away because his little sister Phoebe asked him to. That scene killed me, I swear to God it did. So in the end I guess I feel for old Holden, who deep down is actually a good boy. He just needs some help to get his head straight.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-7837702259284126697?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/7837702259284126697/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=7837702259284126697&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7837702259284126697'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7837702259284126697'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/11/book-review-catcher-in-rye.html' title='Book review: The Catcher in the Rye'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-671816968488748131</id><published>2008-11-18T10:30:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2008-11-18T10:49:18.018+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tv shows'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quiz'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><title type='text'>He said, she said</title><content type='html'>Fortune cookie said: "Courage is the mastery of fear — not the absence of fear. Lucky numbers 11, 20, 27, 44, 37, 49." (From Chopstix at Plaza Indonesia where my sis and I ate on the weekend)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Trans7 said: "&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Supernatural&lt;/span&gt;. Senin - Jumat 20.00 WIB mulai 19 November." I could not say 'yay' louder than when I saw the commercial. Hopefully they go straight to season 3... right?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://himawari-22.livejournal.com/"&gt;Cici&lt;/a&gt; said: "...you, my sis, you have to do this. :P" So here I am, answering a looooong list of questions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;==================================================&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. The phone rings; who do you want it to be?&lt;br /&gt;The bank or the cellphone company, to tell me that I've won something. Preferably a car or money.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. When shopping at the grocery store, do you return your cart?&lt;br /&gt;It's not like I'm gonna take it home... but I generally just give it at the cashier and let them handle it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. In a social setting, are you more of a talker or a listener?&lt;br /&gt;A listener, but I can talk a lot when I'm comfortable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Do you take compliments well?&lt;br /&gt;Extremely. A psychological test at school once said I thrive from compliments, which is another way of saying I have a big head.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Do you play Sudoku?&lt;br /&gt;Nope. They confuse me a bit. I'm more of a crossword puzzle type.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. If abandoned alone in the wilderness, would you survive?&lt;br /&gt;I don't know, maybe not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Do you like to ride horses?&lt;br /&gt;Haven't ridden one, but I'd like to try.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8. Did you ever go to camp as a kid?&lt;br /&gt;Yes, in junior high with the teenage red cross.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9. What was your favorite game as a kid?&lt;br /&gt;I'm not exactly an ace at games, but I played those standard physical games: petak umpet, petak jongkok, main karet, galasin, etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10. If a sexy person was pursuing you, but you knew he/she was married, would you go for it?&lt;br /&gt;Nah. Besides, just being sexy is not enough.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;11. Could you date someone with different religious beliefs than you?&lt;br /&gt;I don't think so.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;12. Do any songs make you cry?&lt;br /&gt;LOTS of sad songs make me wanna cry. One such song right now is &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Jason Mraz&lt;/span&gt;'s &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Love for A Child&lt;/span&gt;, about a person from a broken home family. (By the way, my friend is gossiping that Mr. A-Z is coming to Jakarta in February.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;13. Are you continuing your education?&lt;br /&gt;Not right now. I want to be financially settled first.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;14. Do you know how to shoot a gun?&lt;br /&gt;Just aim and pull the trigger, right?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;15. If your house was on fire, what would be the first thing you grabbed?&lt;br /&gt;It's funny cause my house WAS on fire (well, at first it was only a house opposite mine but the fire was really big it spread everywhere) but I didn't remember to take anything. Not my wallet, my phone or anything. I just ran out with my family — which probably means they were the first thing I grabbed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;16. How often do you read books?&lt;br /&gt;I'm trying to be a constant reader nowadays. I always have one book in my bag to read on the bus and another one at the living room to read at home.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;17. Do you think more about the past, present or future?&lt;br /&gt;The future, I guess. Wondering what I'll become and what is meant for me to do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;19. What color are your eyes?&lt;br /&gt;Black. I don't know if it's brownish or anything cause as an Indonesian I just take for granted that I have black eyes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;20. How tall are you?&lt;br /&gt;160-ish cm.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;21. Where is your dream house located?&lt;br /&gt;A high place with no floods.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;22. Do you have a secret fetish?&lt;br /&gt;How did you know?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;23. Have you tried sushi?&lt;br /&gt;Tried it for the first time this year at Sushi Tei. It was nice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;24. Have you ever taken pictures in a photo booth?&lt;br /&gt;Of course.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;25. When was the last time you were at Olive Garden?&lt;br /&gt;What's Olive Garden?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;26. When was the last time you were at Church?&lt;br /&gt;I think it was last year, for my sister's friend's wedding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;27. Where was the furthest place you travelled today?&lt;br /&gt;Today? That would be the office, which is in a different side of town from my home.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;28. What was your favourite job?&lt;br /&gt;I generally like all of the jobs I had, but I haven't found "the one".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;29. Do you like mustard?&lt;br /&gt;No.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;30. Do you prefer to sleep or eat?&lt;br /&gt;I love both. Sometimes I do nothing but both.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;31. Do you look like your mom or dad?&lt;br /&gt;Dad.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;32. How long does it take you to shower?&lt;br /&gt;I can do five minutes or less.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;33. Can you do the splits?&lt;br /&gt;I suck at gymnastics.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;34. What movie do you want to see right now?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Other Boleyn Girl&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Twilight&lt;/span&gt;, because I'm too lazy to read the books. Also can't wait to watch the next &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Narnia&lt;/span&gt; movie to see how big Skandar Keynes has grown.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;35. If you could fast forward your life, would you?&lt;br /&gt;I'd rather rewind and fix some things. Nothing major, I just wished I was more open and sociable as a teenager, and more active in showing my true potential.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;36. What did you do for New Year's?&lt;br /&gt;Stayed at home.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;37. Do you think The Grudge was scary?&lt;br /&gt;Haven't watched it. I'd like to check out the sequel though, just to see Edison Chen who has a snowy smooth face that I envy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;38. Could you relate to a character in Mean Girls?&lt;br /&gt;I've only seen glimpses of it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;39. Do you own a camera phone?&lt;br /&gt;No. I always think photos taken on camera phones are unclear anyway.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;40. Do you have an "ex box" with pics and letters from past lovers?&lt;br /&gt;No.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;41. Was your mom a cheerleader?&lt;br /&gt;Er... don't think so.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;42. What's the last letter of your middle name?&lt;br /&gt;Don't have one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;43. Do you like your middle name?&lt;br /&gt;See No. 42.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;44. How many hours of sleep do you get a night?&lt;br /&gt;Six, seven hours. It's not enough though, eight is my standard. Or maybe nine. No, make that ten.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;45. Do you like care bears?&lt;br /&gt;An uncle gave us two as kids, and they're adorable. They lasted for YEARS.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;46. What do you buy at the movies?&lt;br /&gt;Popcorn and drinks, usually juice or iced tea.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;47. Do you know how to play poker?&lt;br /&gt;I played a computer game of it in the past... not sure I understand it though.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;48. Do you wear your seatbelt?&lt;br /&gt;Yes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;49. What do you wear to sleep?&lt;br /&gt;What I wear at home.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;50. Anything big ever happen in your hometown?&lt;br /&gt;Floods, riots and bombs. Everything seems to happen in this city.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;51. How many meals do you eat a day?&lt;br /&gt;Three. Four if I feel like it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;52. Is your tongue pierced?&lt;br /&gt;No! Yuck.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;53. Do you like funny or serious people better?&lt;br /&gt;Funny people are always fun, but you need the serious ones too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;54. Ever been to L.A.?&lt;br /&gt;Lenteng Agung? Hell yes!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;55. Did you eat a cookie today?&lt;br /&gt;No, but I have a brownie in my bag...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;56. Do you steal or pay for your music downloads?&lt;br /&gt;Steal, I'm ashamed to say. I try to make it up by only buying original DVDs. Double standard, I know.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;57. Do you hate chocolate?&lt;br /&gt;Are you kidding me?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;58. What do you and your parents fight about the most?&lt;br /&gt;When they tell me to do something and I don't want to do it. Or they say something over and over again and I just get sick of it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;59. Are you a gullible person?&lt;br /&gt;I'd like to think not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;60. Do you need a boyfriend/girlfriend to be happy?&lt;br /&gt;Not really. It'd be fun though.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;61. If you could have any job what would it be?&lt;br /&gt;Right now I really want to be a translator for novels.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;62. Are you easy to get along with?&lt;br /&gt;I guess so. I think people see me as harmless. Either that or a bore, haha.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;63. What is your favourite time of day?&lt;br /&gt;Late afternoon around 4 o'clock, when the breeze is blowing and the sun is preparing to set.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-671816968488748131?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/671816968488748131/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=671816968488748131&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/671816968488748131'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/671816968488748131'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/11/he-said-she-said.html' title='He said, she said'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-6133737696857257690</id><published>2008-11-07T17:46:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2008-11-18T10:35:44.268+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tv shows'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='current issues'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dream'/><title type='text'>Dreams from my lecturer</title><content type='html'>A few days ago I had a long and weird dream in which &lt;a href="http://himawari-22.livejournal.com/"&gt;my sister&lt;/a&gt; and I went on a journey. One of the things we did was stop by to see my old university lecturer, Pak Fuad – which was weird because my sister doesn't even know him. He then offered us to take two books from his collection, and I distinctly remember that one of the books I took was &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Out&lt;/span&gt; by &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Natsuo Kirino&lt;/span&gt;. Could my subconscious be sending me a message to read that novel? I was only very mildly interested in it...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But more importantly, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;kenapa gue ngimpiin Pak Fuad&lt;/span&gt;??? Ini sih kangen kuliah taraf berat...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh, and since I wrote about &lt;a href="http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/david-tao-jakarta-concert-2008.html"&gt;David Tao's Jakarta concert&lt;/a&gt; I've been getting many visitors from various corners of the world. As shown by the ever-reliable &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://feedjit.com/"&gt;Feedjit&lt;/a&gt;, people have come places like Singapore, Hong Kong, Taipei and Malaysia (which is not surprising considering the ethnic Chinese population in those places) and even as far as Oslo, Massachusetts, Melbourne, Kyoto, Lancashire and California. Thanks to &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://dtindo.blogspot.com/"&gt;DT Indonesia&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://taozhe.blogspot.com/"&gt;TaoZhe FanBlog&lt;/a&gt; for linking me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Trans7 is continuing to air &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Heroes&lt;/span&gt; to its 2nd season. Although people say the series is consistently going downhill, I'm still curious to see how it all plays out. Plus Sylar is getting hotter by the minute.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also, saw on a commercial the other day that RCTI is going to air &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Prison Break&lt;/span&gt;. From the looks of it they're gonna rerun season 1 (on Saturday midnight at that), but I certainly wouldn't say no to a weekly dose of Wentworth Miller.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And like millions of other people in various parts of the globe, I was touched by &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Barack Obama&lt;/span&gt;'s speech after he won the US presidential election. John Mayer said we're waiting on the world to change. Maybe the change has started to come after all.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-6133737696857257690?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/6133737696857257690/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=6133737696857257690&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6133737696857257690'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6133737696857257690'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/11/dreams-from-my-lecturer.html' title='Dreams from my lecturer'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-6118610029337585622</id><published>2008-11-05T10:48:00.004+07:00</published><updated>2008-11-18T10:35:24.325+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Anak Lelaki yang Menelan Bintang-Bintang (The Boy Who Ate Stars)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4033106.Anak_Lelaki_yang_Menelan_Bintang_Bintang?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Anak Lelaki yang Menelan Bintang-Bintang (The Boy Who Ate Stars)" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1218262176m/4033106.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4033106.Anak_Lelaki_yang_Menelan_Bintang_Bintang?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Anak Lelaki yang Menelan Bintang-Bintang&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/388778.Kochka"&gt;Kochka&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/35671629?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 2 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Buku ini berkisah tentang Lucy, anak perempuan berumur dua belas tahun di Paris, yang mendapat pengalaman baru setelah mengenal seorang anak autis berusia empat tahun bernama Matthew. Tidak seperti orang pada umumnya yang melihat autisme sebagai suatu kekurangan atau keterbelakangan, Lucy dan temannya, Theodora, menganggap tingkah laku Matthew unik dan istimewa. Bukannya tidak bisa berkomunikasi dan terpisah dari realitas, di mata anak-anak yang polos itu Matthew memiliki kontak yang amat kuat dengan realitas dan benda-benda, hingga Lucy berkesimpulan Matthew adalah makhluk luar angkasa.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sayangnya selain perspektif berbeda terhadap anak berkebutuhan khusus, saya tidak mendapat sesuatu yang "lain" dari buku ini. Mungkin karena kisahnya begitu singkat sehingga terasa tidak dikembangkan secara maksimal. Misalnya bagaimana awal mulanya Mauogo, pengasuh Matthew yang tidak pernah berbicara pada orang lain, bisa berkomunikasi dengan Matthew dengan caranya sendiri? Apa pula korelasi antara kisah Matthew dengan Francois, si anjing pemalu milik teman ibu Lucy? Petualangan Lucy dan Theo dalam "menyelami" dunia Matthew seperti dikatakan di sampul belakang buku pun menurut saya tidak begitu dalam, tidak banyak hal yang terjadi pada mereka. Apakah karena ditujukan untuk semua umur, maka jalan ceritanya cenderung sederhana? Bila dibandingkan dengan &lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.blogger.com/search/search?q=+The+Curious+Incident+of+the+Dog+in+the+Night-Time&amp;amp;t=title"&gt; &lt;span&gt;The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; yang sama-sama membahas isu anak berkebutuhan khusus, saya merasa buku ini biasa saja. Meski demikian sang pengarang tetap patut diacungi jempol untuk temanya yang mengusung toleransi dan simpati terhadap sesama manusia.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-6118610029337585622?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/6118610029337585622/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=6118610029337585622&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6118610029337585622'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6118610029337585622'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/11/book-review-anak-lelaki-yang-menelan.html' title='Book review: Anak Lelaki yang Menelan Bintang-Bintang (The Boy Who Ate Stars)'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-273077790349541954</id><published>2008-11-05T10:44:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2008-11-05T10:47:33.372+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Dracula</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2132280.Dracula?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Dracula" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41oLDmcuz%2BL._SL160_.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2132280.Dracula?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Dracula&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/6988.Bram_Stoker"&gt;Bram Stoker&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/12955714?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A true classic horror story which excited and thrilled me when reading. Although the story gets a little slow in parts (especially when the characters go out investigating) but it always picks up again with the smallest hints: a howling of wolves, mist seeping through the window, a chill in the air. The writing style that uses journals, letters and newspaper clippings also provided glimpses into the heads of the characters, although it left some of the characters who didn't write journals somewhat less vividly represented in my mind. All that aside, this tale of a band of people rallying together to face the ultimate Un-Dead certainly deserves to be called the godfather of vampire fiction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-273077790349541954?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/273077790349541954/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=273077790349541954&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/273077790349541954'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/273077790349541954'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/11/book-review-dracula.html' title='Book review: Dracula'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-6891008964191658423</id><published>2008-10-31T17:46:00.007+07:00</published><updated>2009-05-13T11:32:00.463+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tv shows'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='boys'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='interests'/><title type='text'>Because Ayu asked me to</title><content type='html'>A list of five facts about me:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;1. I got my English from &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Sesame Street&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;During my elementary school days they haven't put English in the standard curriculum yet (yes, lame). I only started getting English classes in junior high. So I acquired the basics of English from watching Elmo, Kermit, Big Bird, Bert, Ernie, Cookie Monster, Oscar and friends. So parents, if you want your kids to have good English, tell them to watch &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Sesame Street&lt;/span&gt; (and don't dub it, please. It's ridiculous). I also watched other early 90s TV shows: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The A-Team&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Knight Rider&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;MacGyver&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Growing Pains&lt;/span&gt;...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;2. I'm addicted to the TV show &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Supernatural&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Love the drama, the thrills, the humor, the action, the folklore and myths, the classic rock soundtrack, and of course, the boys.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SQrl_VSiT-I/AAAAAAAAAC4/kLfinvMo0BQ/s1600-h/sup1.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 363px; height: 243px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SQrl_VSiT-I/AAAAAAAAAC4/kLfinvMo0BQ/s400/sup1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5263271990745255906" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Seriously, guys. Stop staring. You're making me melt.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;3. I'm fussy about food&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are a lot of stuff I don't like. Some I never eat (durian, tape, asinan, rujak, bubur sumsum) while others I can stand but just generally avoid (sayur asem, toge, gado-gado). Sometimes I think I just need to try new things more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;4. I'm a make up rookie&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First of all, I never really know the right place to apply blush on. I know theoretically it should be on the cheekbone, but some days I apply it higher or lower or with different strokes and I never know which one looks better. Secondly, eyeliner bugs me cause can't apply it – I keep on blinking even when someone else applies it for me. How do those fellas who wear guyliners do it anyway? I guess I just think more about shallow things like this since I started my office job.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;5. I'm interested in haiku and Tarot&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first one I knew about during high school, and it's just fun to write the little poems on my agenda. The second one was because I was reading the superb manga &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;X&lt;/span&gt; by CLAMP, which features the characters as images in Tarot cards. I'm interested in the symbology and art, but I don't believe in the mysticism, though. They're just fun to look at and read about, and I've never actually read or have someone read the cards for me.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-6891008964191658423?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/6891008964191658423/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=6891008964191658423&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6891008964191658423'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6891008964191658423'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/because-ayu-asked-me-to.html' title='Because Ayu asked me to'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SQrl_VSiT-I/AAAAAAAAAC4/kLfinvMo0BQ/s72-c/sup1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2138209981891448106</id><published>2008-10-31T13:36:00.008+07:00</published><updated>2008-10-31T17:29:46.169+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tv shows'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quiz'/><title type='text'>Which Heroes Character Are You?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.buddytv.com/closedquiz/closed-quiz.aspx?quiz=30"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.buddytv.com/closedquiz/images/results/heroes-nathan.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; More on &lt;a href="http://www.buddytv.com/Heroes.aspx"&gt;Heroes&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;a href="http://www.buddytv.com"&gt;Created by BuddyTV&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Huh. That's kinda creepy.&lt;br /&gt;Peter, I will save youuuuuu...! *hugs Peter*&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2138209981891448106?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2138209981891448106/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2138209981891448106&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2138209981891448106'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2138209981891448106'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/which-heroes-character-are-you.html' title='Which Heroes Character Are You?'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2788039088169240671</id><published>2008-10-30T10:52:00.007+07:00</published><updated>2008-10-30T11:46:42.745+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fun'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weekend'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='concert'/><title type='text'>David Tao Jakarta Concert 2008</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SQk1GEidxfI/AAAAAAAAACo/tA0LugR5cAQ/s1600-h/tickets.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SQk1GEidxfI/AAAAAAAAACo/tA0LugR5cAQ/s320/tickets.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5262796017972921842" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I got to see David Tao live on Saturday night! Mind you, it's something I didn't think was possible. Or if it was, I had to pay lots of money or go to another country. Turns out I didn't have to do those things, and though I was sitting quite at the back, I had a wonderful experience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But first of all, the venue. It took me and my sister so long to get to it cause the building was practically a labyrinth. Really, people, make it easier for concertgoers please. And the interior would've been better with a higher ceiling for people in the back row to see more clearly. Anyway, it all paid off cause right after the stage darkened and the host disappeared, there was no need for some opening act we didn't want to see before DT himself showed up singing &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Runaway&lt;/span&gt;, followed by &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Wang Bu Liao&lt;/span&gt;, I think. I gotta clarify here that I don't know all of David's songs (unlike the guy sitting beside me who knew all of the lyrics by heart, including the rap parts) but I did recognize most of those he sang that night. He and his band did a great job mixing the slow and mid-tempo songs like &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Tian Tian (Close to You)&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Ai Wo Hai Shi Ta (Who Do You Love?)&lt;/span&gt;, or &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Jiu Shi Ai Ni (Love Can)&lt;/span&gt; and the hard rock tunes such as &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Hei Se Liu Ding (Black Tangerine)&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Gui (Ghost)&lt;/span&gt;. I also love it that he switches from Mandarin to English now and then so I basically could understand what he was saying.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some highlights of the nearly two-hour concert:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-  David's outfit was simple, red shirt and jeans with black jacket. In the middle of the show he changed the jacket with a tattered black vest. Sometimes he only sang and in others he played acoustic or electric guitar, and also a keyboard, I think.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- He had a great chemistry with his multicultural ensemble band, giving them props after each performance. &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Yue Liang Dai Biao Shei De Xin (Moon Over My Heart)&lt;/span&gt; was done in a funky jazz style with DT's good friend Kheng Long on the keyboard and Elisa on the trombone. It was a very different arrangement that my sister didn't recognize the song at first.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- The band's guitarist, Jamie Wilson (sp?), speaks Malay so he was quite understandable to the audience. When DT told him to talk he greeted the audience and said to the VIP row at the front, &lt;span&gt;"Apa kabar orang-orang kaya di depan?"&lt;/span&gt; Ha! Funny guy. Then before singing &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Regular Friends&lt;/span&gt; David mentioned that he and Jamie go way back and are really good friends. The conversation went something like this:&lt;br /&gt;David: He's a very special friend to me.&lt;br /&gt;Jamie: &lt;span&gt;Dia teman yang sangat spesial... tapi bukan seperti itu...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;David: Oh no no, not in a weird kind of way...&lt;br /&gt;Jamie: &lt;span&gt;Kami ini lelaki...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;David: Yup, real men. *showing his biceps* XD XD&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- In the middle of singing &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Ghost&lt;/span&gt;, David looked at the audience and said "Which one of you is the ghost?" or something to that effect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Before singing &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Susan Shuo (Susan Said)&lt;/span&gt; he mentioned that this was his first time in Jakarta but his mother came to perform here some 30 years ago, which is kind of cool.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- He sang one of his latest hits, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Jin Tian Ni Yao Jia Gei Wo (Marry Me Today)&lt;/span&gt; with his two backup singers Ke Wei and Elisa (the original duet was with Jolin Tsai). So does that mean you're gonna marry both of them? Naughty David!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- He did not hesitate to get close to the audience, often going down to shake their hands or asking one of them to go on stage with him. At one point he walked down to get closer to those at the back row (including me), so a lot of us stood up to say hi and cheered.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- He mentioned that he ate gado-gado and es cendol while he was here. And of course, any concert of any foreign artist in the country would not be complete without the artist saying &lt;span&gt;"Aku cinta padamu"&lt;/span&gt;, which he did, and prompted screams from the audience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- The concert ended with David's signature song &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Ai Hen Jian Dan (I Love You)&lt;/span&gt;. He asked us to sing along to the chorus with him. "Just sing 'I love you', very easy right?" So we tried to sing the whole chorus and he said it sounded like "I love you, grmrmrbbl grrrmmbl. But it's OK, it happens all the time!" We got better with a little practice, though... and it really helped to have that guy singing along beside me cause did I mention he knew ALL the words?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My only regret was that I was sitting at the back and apparently I'm the most lousy photographer in the world, so the pictures I took were not very presentable. Sigh. And also I thought the audience was somehow not rowdy enough, LOL. I mean, DT's in the house, it's OK to go crazy a little bit...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SQkzjf78feI/AAAAAAAAACY/VM5S6sFsks8/s1600-h/DT+screen.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SQkzjf78feI/AAAAAAAAACY/VM5S6sFsks8/s320/DT+screen.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5262794324520500706" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;DT as seen on the TV screen at the back.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SQkzjlbpxoI/AAAAAAAAACg/JJUrzAW-MLo/s1600-h/DT+stage.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SQkzjlbpxoI/AAAAAAAAACg/JJUrzAW-MLo/s320/DT+stage.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5262794325995669122" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;That's him in the middle of the stage playing guitar... did I tell you my pictures were lousy?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But overall, it was a great and enjoyable concert because of the artist himself. David was humorous and relaxed, fun and charming. He is a superb musician who clearly loves his music and loves performing it that the feeling transcends to the audience. &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;To David, I'm glad I went to see your show and hope this is only the first of many more performances to come in Jakarta. Keep on making great music for all of us to listen to. Jiu shi ai ni!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2788039088169240671?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2788039088169240671/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2788039088169240671&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2788039088169240671'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2788039088169240671'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/david-tao-jakarta-concert-2008.html' title='David Tao Jakarta Concert 2008'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SQk1GEidxfI/AAAAAAAAACo/tA0LugR5cAQ/s72-c/tickets.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-3270958716448276956</id><published>2008-10-27T17:05:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2008-10-27T17:09:45.721+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quiz'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><title type='text'>Shuffle your life</title><content type='html'>Got this from &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://belozoglu.blogspot.com"&gt;Titan&lt;/a&gt;'s blog. Should be fun.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Put your music player on shuffle.&lt;br /&gt;2. Press forward for each question.&lt;br /&gt;3. Use the song title as the answer to the question even if it doesn’t make sense.&lt;br /&gt;4. Write the answers down, or even comment on it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;==========================================================&lt;br /&gt;1. How are you feeling today?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Little L&lt;/span&gt; (Jamiroquai)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: Dancy, I suppose?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Will you get far in life?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Hey Jude&lt;/span&gt; (The Beatles)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: Hey, I guess I can make it better...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. What’s your best friend’s theme song?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Starlight&lt;/span&gt; (Muse)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: She doesn't even know Muse.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. What is the story of your life?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Clockwatching&lt;/span&gt; (Jason Mraz)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: Ha, never really listened to this one. But I have been staring at the clock too much, though.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. What was school like?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;It's Gonna Rain &lt;/span&gt;(Bonnie Pink)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: Er... it rained a lot at school. But I made it through the rain (no wait, that's a Mariah Carey song).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. How can you get ahead with life?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Have Fun, Go Mad&lt;/span&gt; (Blair)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: 'Nuff said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. What's the best thing about your friends?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Owner of My Heart&lt;/span&gt; (Sasha)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: They own my heart. Awwwww.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8. Describe your grandparents?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; Theme from Knight Rider&lt;br /&gt;Comment: .....maybe they liked David Hasselhoff.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9. How’s your life going?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;It's My Life&lt;/span&gt; (Bon Jovi)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: "It's now or never, I ain't gonna live forever. I just wanna live while I'm alive."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10. What will be played at my funeral?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Unbelievable&lt;/span&gt; (Craig David)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: It would have been a great, unbelievable journey.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;11. Will you have a happy life?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Love Fool&lt;/span&gt; (The Cardigans)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: Argh. I have a bad feeling about this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;12. What do your friends really think of you?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Only When I Sleep&lt;/span&gt; (The Corrs)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: They think I sleep too much.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;13. Do people secretly lust after you?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Geek in the Pink&lt;/span&gt; (Jason Mraz)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: What else could they do? I'm the geek in the pink! ;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;14. How can you make yourself happy?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Sobakasu &lt;/span&gt;(Judy and Mary)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: I watch Rurouni Kenshin and rock out to the songs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;15. Will you ever have children?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Shop Around&lt;/span&gt; (David Archuleta)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: My mama told me I better shop around first. Ha!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;16. What song would you strip to?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Wonderwall&lt;/span&gt; (Oasis)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: How can anyone possibly strip to this?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;17. What does your mom think of you?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I Am&lt;/span&gt; (Hitomi)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: She thinks I am what I am.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;18. What is your deep, dark secret?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;A Beautiful Mess&lt;/span&gt; (Jason Mraz)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: I'm a complete mess inside.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;19. What is your enemy’s theme song?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;My Boo&lt;/span&gt; (Alicia Keys &amp;amp; Usher)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: My enemy is my boo! Boo hoo!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;20. What’s your personality like?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Mr. Brightside &lt;/span&gt;(The Killers)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: I try to look at the bright side.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;21. What will be played at your wedding?&lt;br /&gt;&gt;&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Perfect Man&lt;/span&gt; (Shinhwa)&lt;br /&gt;Comment: I'll have a perfect man by my side. And hopefully he can dance and is a member of a Korean boyband. Cool!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-3270958716448276956?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/3270958716448276956/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=3270958716448276956&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/3270958716448276956'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/3270958716448276956'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/shuffle-your-life.html' title='Shuffle your life'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-6004968305639929138</id><published>2008-10-24T15:55:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2008-10-24T16:04:03.233+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fun'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><title type='text'>Going to a concert tomorrow!</title><content type='html'>Tomorrow I'm going to a &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;David Tao&lt;/span&gt; concert in Mangga Dua with my sister. For those who don't know, I'm familiar with East Asian entertainment, with a preference for Mandarin (I know a little about Japanese and Korean showbiz too). One of the best singer/songwriter/producers in the Chinese music industry is David Tao or &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Tao Zhe&lt;/span&gt;. He's not much in the looks department compared to other celebrities, and not so young either (nearly 40), but he is an award-winning, talented and original musician. I enjoy his mix of pop, R&amp;amp;B, rock and traditional Chinese music. David also studied in Los Angeles, so he is proficient in English (always a plus point in my book). Similar singers include &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Leehom Wang&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Jay Chou&lt;/span&gt;, both of whom I also listen to. If you'd like a comparison with Indonesian artists... I don't know, maybe Glenn Fredly?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Apparently business to bring high-profile Mandarin artists to Indonesia has been good lately, since singers like super girl group S.H.E and Leehom (whose concert I sadly missed earlier this year) have been signed to hold shows here. In the past it seemed highly improbable to get David or Leehom for a show in Jakarta, but apparently things have changed. If someone manage to bring Jay around, now that can really be called doing the impossible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Go &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Tao"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; for more info on David Tao.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-6004968305639929138?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/6004968305639929138/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=6004968305639929138&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6004968305639929138'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6004968305639929138'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/going-to-concert-tomorrow.html' title='Going to a concert tomorrow!'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-3218322705555265951</id><published>2008-10-24T15:47:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2008-10-24T15:54:29.620+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Brick Lane</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2133416.Brick_Lane?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Brick Lane (Indonesian version)" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1194190136m/2133416.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2133416.Brick_Lane?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Brick Lane&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/11271.Monica_Ali"&gt;Monica Ali&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/34147037?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 3 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Setelah dapat wanti-wanti bahwa buku ini bikin bosan karena cuma berkutat pada masalah sehari-hari, saya pun mempersiapkan diri untuk bersabar membaca sampai tuntas. Meski ceritanya memang berpanjang-panjang dan awalnya terkesan membosankan tetapi semakin dibaca semakin penasaran bagaimana akhir kisah ini.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nazneen, seorang gadis dari pedesaan Bangladesh dijodohkan dengan pria yang usianya dua kali lipat dari dirinya. Ia diboyong ke London, Inggris dan menjalani hidup sebagai istri Muslim Bengali yang baik: mengerjakan pekerjaan rumah tangga, melayani suami, dan merawat anak. Nazneen yang selalu pasrah dan terima saja kemana arah takdir menuntunnya menjalani kehidupan yang berbeda jauh dengan adik perempuannya, Hasina, yang hidupnya seakan selalu dipermainkan takdir — kawin lari saat masih remaja kemudian pisah dari suaminya, melakukan berbagai pekerjaan dan selalu berpindah dari satu tempat ke tempat lain di Bangladesh. Hasina hanya muncul di cerita lewat surat-suratnya untuk Nazneen selama bertahun-tahun.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Karakter-karakter lain tampil dengan latar belakang kehidupan imigran Bangladesh di London: Chanu, suami Nazneen yang cuma bisa omong besar tapi tak pernah sukses, Razia, sahabat Nazneen yang penampilannya kebarat-baratan, Mrs. Islam sang wanita tua berprofesi lintah darat, dll. Perubahan besar kemudian terjadi pada Nazneen saat ia mengenal Karim, pemuda yang membentuk kelompok Muslim radikal di komunitas Bengali. Keduanya menjalin hubungan yang semakin membuat Nazneen berpikir akan jalan hidupnya selama ini. Akankah Nazneen akhirnya berani menentukan takdirnya sendiri? Pilihan apakah yang akan ia ambil, tetap bersama Karim atau kembali ke Bangladesh bersama suami dan anak-anaknya?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ada berbagai paradoks yang saya temui dalam novel ini. Chanu yang berpendidikan tinggi gemar mengutip tokoh filsafat dan sastra Inggris tapi di lain waktu berkoar-koar mengenai kehebatan budaya Bangladesh. Nazneen pertama kali merasa begitu tertarik pada Karim saat melihatnya shalat (hal yang jarang dilakukan Chanu), tapi perasaan itu mendorong mereka menjalin hubungan yang dilarang agama. Keseharian Nazneen yang lempeng-lempeng saja dan tak pernah melawan arus dikontraskan dengan Hasina yang selalu terombang-ambing hidupnya namun berani mengambil keputusan sendiri. Selain menyajikan warna-warni budaya di Inggris novel ini juga sekilas menyinggung masalah pergerakan Islam radikal karena setting waktunya bertepatan dengan peristiwa 11 September di AS.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Untuk membaca novel ini dibutuhkan kesabaran ekstra, yang cukup terbayar karena lama kelamaan saya menjadi larut dalam kisahnya. Namun sepertinya Brick Lane adalah jenis novel yang tak cukup dibaca sendiri saja, melainkan lebih menarik dan membuka wawasan bila dijadikan bahan diskusi dengan sudut pandang jender, ras, agama, dan multikulturalisme. Saya jadi ingin &lt;i&gt;flashback&lt;/i&gt; ke masa lalu, duduk di ruang kuliah dan berdiskusi seru dengan dosen dan kawan-kawan...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-3218322705555265951?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/3218322705555265951/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=3218322705555265951&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/3218322705555265951'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/3218322705555265951'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/book-review-brick-lane.html' title='Book review: Brick Lane'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-5780406019308102665</id><published>2008-10-20T16:51:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2008-10-20T16:55:43.850+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><title type='text'>That was quite a scare.</title><content type='html'>I had a quite frightening experience this morning. After starting to work, I was looking at the computer monitor when I suddenly realized there was something with my eyesight. You know when you get photographed and you see something after the flash hit (lampu blitz)? That's what I saw, like something obstructing my eyesight and making things unclear. Was quite panicked but then it slowly went away after I repeatedly blinked and wiped my eyes for a few minutes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After that went away I got this terrible headache at the front-left side of my head. I only got better after having a magic pill of Panadol Extra and excusing myself to doze off for a few minutes at the office mosque during lunch break.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was quite scary. I realized that one of my biggest fears is going blind. I've been wearing glasses since like third or fourth grade and I remember a childhood friend telling me back then that wearing glasses is the first step towards blindness and you'll slowly lose your eyesight completely as you grow older.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Those words were echoing in my head this morning, I tell ya.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So. Should I be panicking and go visit an ophthalmologist or something? Or is it just a case of reading and staring at the computer too long?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-5780406019308102665?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/5780406019308102665/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=5780406019308102665&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5780406019308102665'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5780406019308102665'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/that-was-quite-scare.html' title='That was quite a scare.'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-4420061790890773815</id><published>2008-10-12T16:32:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2008-10-12T16:58:16.685+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='current issues'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>More money, more problems</title><content type='html'>There's been a lot of news about this global financial crisis going on, with people worrying that Indonesia might get seriously affected, that it'll be 1997 all over again. My memory of the 1997 financial crisis consists of food prices going up, which prompted my friends and I (we were in junior high) to start sharing our lunches. One of us would buy lunch to share one day, and the next day the other person buys, and so on in turns (cue audience voice: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Awww&lt;/span&gt;). I wonder if some kids across the country would have to resort to that soon.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;With that thought in mind I want to start saving more money, and as one of my biggest expenditure comes from buying books, I thought I'd save up by borrowing more (and start reading what I actually have). Therefore, last Friday I got myself a membership at the Depdiknas library in Senayan. Hopefully it can curb some of my expenses... fingers crossed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1998222.The_Sisterhood_of_the_Traveling_Pants_2?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants 2" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51jbp123EqL._SL160_.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;But before I start all the saving money stuff, I wanted to buy birthday presents for my Mom and my elder sister, whose birthdays are on October 8 and October 10 respectively. I bought my mother a new Quran (she's been asking for one with bigger letters to make it easy on her eyes) and the last novel in the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants&lt;/span&gt; series for my sister. Well actually the novel was for me, but I made her birthday an excuse to get it, haha. I've read all the other three novels in the series and want to read this last one before the movie comes out here, so I grabbed a copy even though it's a movie tie-in version and doesn't match the covers of the other books (I have OCD that way).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another thing I recently got is a little insurance package for myself. I figured I have to be prepared for a worst case scenario, so when a friend at the office offered me to buy insurance I thought about it and finally got one. It's an insurance plus savings, so it's also another basket to put my eggs in. I'm hoping my sisters would think about taking a similar step. Being an independent woman is hard, no?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-4420061790890773815?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/4420061790890773815/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=4420061790890773815&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4420061790890773815'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4420061790890773815'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/more-money-more-problems.html' title='More money, more problems'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2484864656633067884</id><published>2008-10-07T01:16:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2009-05-13T11:27:32.599+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='literary'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fun'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><title type='text'>Me. A picture. In a newspaper.</title><content type='html'>Allow me a moment of narcissism. It's not everyday I got a photo of me printed in a newspaper. This is from Kompas Sunday edition on October 5, 2008. There are three separate articles about the Goodreads book-reading community in Indonesia, but (ahem!) a picture of me with other members of the community is in the second one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm keeping that newspaper, that's for sure.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://cetak.kompas.com/read/xml/2008/10/05/01455467/kami.tidak.pandang.buku"&gt;Kami Tidak Pandang Buku&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://cetak.kompas.com/read/xml/2008/10/05/01453298/bukan.kutu.buku.yang.kuper"&gt;Bukan Kutu Buku yang Kuper&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://cetak.kompas.com/read/xml/2008/10/05/0144431/buku.langka.buku.bekas.buku.diskon"&gt;Buku Langka, Buku Bekas, Buku Diskon&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2484864656633067884?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2484864656633067884/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2484864656633067884&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2484864656633067884'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2484864656633067884'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/my-picture-is-in-newspaper.html' title='Me. A picture. In a newspaper.'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-301452445346213644</id><published>2008-10-05T23:53:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2008-10-05T23:54:09.148+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='holiday'/><title type='text'>Holiday's over, people.</title><content type='html'>Time to get our asses back to work. Hhhh. I don't want holiday to end! Haven't had enough lazy time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, happy Lebaran to those who celebrate. To everyone, how did that one week off felt? Too fast, I hear you say? Couldn't agree more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh ya buat yg ikut buka puasa Inggris '02, sori ya foto-fotonya belom gw upload atau kirim ke milis. Lupa melulu mau minta adik gw transfer ke flashdisk. And I can't do it without her, haha.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hhhh. Work.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-301452445346213644?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/301452445346213644/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=301452445346213644&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/301452445346213644'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/301452445346213644'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/holidays-over-people.html' title='Holiday&apos;s over, people.'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-7591701768874403789</id><published>2008-10-05T23:49:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2008-10-05T23:50:34.445+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Frankenstein</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/849586.Frankenstein?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Frankenstein (Read Red)" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1178892798m/849586.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/849586.Frankenstein?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Frankenstein&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/11139.Mary_Shelley"&gt;Mary Shelley&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/11848884?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 3 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The tale of Victor Frankenstein, a man obsessed with creating life. He assembled an unnamed monster from human remains and succeeded in giving it life, but then was disgusted and abandoned his own handiwork. Rejected by all mankind due to his hideous appearance, the creature vowed to take revenge on the person who brought him into this world. Although some parts of the story are unconvincing for me (such as how the monster acquired speech and intelligence), Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley has created an enduring masterpiece that touches on a lot of topics including the destructive power of obsession, the nature of good and evil, and the relationship between man and his creator. And she wrote all of this over a bet when she was 19.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-7591701768874403789?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/7591701768874403789/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=7591701768874403789&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7591701768874403789'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7591701768874403789'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/book-review-frankenstein.html' title='Book review: Frankenstein'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-1329243148891604824</id><published>2008-10-05T23:45:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2008-10-05T23:47:52.582+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Blindness</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/823168.Blindness?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Blindness " src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1219518211m/823168.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/823168.Blindness?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Blindness&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1285555.Jose_Saramago"&gt;Jose Saramago&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/30857991?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A harrowing story of how people in a city suddenly go blind one by one in a seeming contagious epidemic. The government puts them in a facility to prevent the blindness from spreading further. The story is told without quotation marks and in long paragraphs that span for pages, enhancing the feeling of panic and disorder. No characters are mentioned by name, only by profession (the doctor, the pharmacist assistant) or identification (the girl with dark glasses, the man with an eye-patch). This is the kind of book that will disturb you, make you wince, cause you to be appalled, make you think about a lot of things from the government to the nature of humans, and in the end, lead you to be grateful that you have a pair of eyes to see.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-1329243148891604824?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/1329243148891604824/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=1329243148891604824&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1329243148891604824'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1329243148891604824'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/book-review-blindness.html' title='Book review: Blindness'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-7824720446792624934</id><published>2008-10-05T23:41:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:12:03.793+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Sense and Sensibility</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/41885.Sense_and_Sensibility?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Sense and Sensibility (Barnes &amp;amp; Noble Classics Series) (B&amp;amp;N Classics Trade Paper)" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1169775208m/41885.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/41885.Sense_and_Sensibility?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Sense and Sensibility&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1265.Jane_Austen"&gt;Jane Austen&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/11841065?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;** SPOILER ALERT ** &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A story of two sisters with their different temperaments and complicated love stories. The emotional Marianne falls madly in love with a rascal while her more composed older sister Elinor finds herself attached to a man who's already engaged. Secrets and surprises provides a lot of humor and irony to the story, which I enjoyed (the mind games between Elinor and her rival in love, Lucy Steele, is exceptional). Side characters such as rowdy Mrs. Jennings and rude Mr. Palmer also adds to the comedy. However, I feel that Austen is too lenient towards several male characters: the scoundrel Willoughby is obviously forgiven quite easily, and the weak Edward Ferrars is hardly chided for hiding his engagement. Edward's dishonesty and inconstancy makes it hard for me to consider him as a hero. He makes a stark contrast to the real hero of the story: Colonel Brandon, an old, dull fellow but true gentleman in word and deed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-7824720446792624934?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/7824720446792624934/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=7824720446792624934&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7824720446792624934'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7824720446792624934'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/10/book-review-sense-and-sensibility.html' title='Book review: Sense and Sensibility'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-1445112916673436765</id><published>2008-09-25T10:57:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2008-09-25T11:06:35.608+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='speak up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='current issues'/><title type='text'>What's wrong with people?</title><content type='html'>In the course of my work as a writer for a news website, lately I often come across headlines like this: "Razia rumah makan yang tetap buka siang hari saat Ramadhan", "Restoran dirusak karena tidak tutup di bulan puasa", etc etc. I mean, what in the world is wrong with people?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Emangnya kenapa kalo ada restoran yang buka siang-siang di bulan puasa? Biar aja itu buat warga non-Muslim yang perlu makan, atau cewek2 yg lagi dapet. Emangnya belum cukup mereka taruh kain penutup di depan, sampe mesti dirusak segala kalo tetep buka? Kalo semua pengusaha makanan harus berhenti jualan pas bulan puasa, mau dapat duit dari mana mereka? Lagian kalo alasannya supaya nggak menyinggung orang yang puasa, toh mereka yang puasa juga harusnya nggak usah deket2 restoran kalo nggak mau tergoda.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gue nggak habis pikir gimana nasib pengusaha &amp;amp; pegawai restoran yang puasa tapi tetap buka usaha karena nggak ada penghasilan lain, terus tempat usahanya dirusak orang-orang yang berpikiran sempit.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I thought we were a tolerant nation.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-1445112916673436765?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/1445112916673436765/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=1445112916673436765&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1445112916673436765'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1445112916673436765'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/09/whats-wrong-with-people.html' title='What&apos;s wrong with people?'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-6174821007332584682</id><published>2008-09-22T10:18:00.005+07:00</published><updated>2009-05-13T11:42:01.087+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quiz'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book quiz</title><content type='html'>Got this from &lt;a href="http://tyrant-mouth.livejournal.com/"&gt;Ayu's LJ&lt;/a&gt;. It's hard for me to answer 'the best' or 'the worst' questions, so these answers are totally subject to change.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;1. Last book you read?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Sense and Sensibility&lt;/span&gt; by Jane Austen. Some of the male characters in this book are just, ick.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;2. Book that you’re reading currently?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Blindness&lt;/span&gt; by José Saramago, about a contagious blindness epidemic. I surprisingly have never heard of the author, although he got the Nobel Prize for Literature. The movie version of the book has just been released.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;3. Your favorite book of all time?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh I don't know. Perhaps the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Harry Potter&lt;/span&gt; series.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;4. Worst book you’ve ever read?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because Ayu mentioned it: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Snake&lt;/span&gt; by Dewi Anggraeni. Blah.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;5. Three characters that you love?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1) Jane Eyre — the epitome of independent woman.&lt;br /&gt;2) Fred and George Weasley. They're tons of fun and double the trouble!&lt;br /&gt;3) Lastly, I always have a thing for what I call 'the second guy'. You know, the sidekick, the one who helps out the hero, or the one jilted by the girl for the hero. Whether in film, books or TV series, the second guy often wins my sympathy. Plus because they're not so upright as the hero, they're often a bit more daring and naughty, hehehe. So here is a tribute to some of the second guys I can think of: Dick from Enid Blyton's &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Famous Five&lt;/span&gt; series, Edmund from the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Chronicles of Narnia&lt;/span&gt; (OK, I've never actually read them, just watched the movies), Haruka from &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Prince of Tea&lt;/span&gt; manga, Heiji Hattori from &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Detective Conan&lt;/span&gt;, Sanosuke Sagara in &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Rurouni Kenshin&lt;/span&gt;, and many others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(I'm totally cheating in this question cause there are more than three characters, haha.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;6. Three characters that you loathe?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1) I remember hating Severus Snape for mercilessly bullying Harry all the time... of course, that was before Rowling revealed his whole story in the final book.&lt;br /&gt;2) Dorian Gray (sorry Ayu!). I just can't understand a guy who loves his good looks above everything. His ultimate put-off quote goes something like this: "When I found that I've grown old, I shall kill myself." Please!&lt;br /&gt;3) Newland Archer from &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Age of Innocence&lt;/span&gt;. The dude needs to stop whining and just make up his mind.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;7. Most favorite line from a book?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"I can live alone, if self-respect, and circumstances require me so to do. I need not sell my soul to buy bliss. I have an inward treasure born with me, which can keep me alive if all extraneous delights should be withheld, or offered only at a price I cannot afford to give."&lt;br /&gt;— Charlotte Brontë  (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Jane Eyre&lt;/span&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;8. Most memorable scene from a book?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't remember much about JD Salinger's &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Catcher in the Rye&lt;/span&gt;, but I have a vague remembrance of the ending where Holden Caulfield's little sister asks him not to go, or not to leave her, or something. It was really touching cause this rebellious kid without a care in the world still has deep love for his sister.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;9. If you could date one character from a book, who would it be?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Captain Arthur Hastings from Agatha Christie's Poirot books. He's dashing and brave, and though not the sharpest tool in the shed, he'd surely protect me in the face of danger ;P And hey, he's a 'second guy' too!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;10. Best adaptation from a book to a film?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Atonement&lt;/span&gt;. Also, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Stardust&lt;/span&gt; was a very enjoyable movie although it doesn't follow the book too strictly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;11. Worst adaptation from a book to a film?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Da Vinci Code&lt;/span&gt;. Probably because I think Tom Hanks looks wrong in it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;12. What film is better than the book?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Jane Austen Book Club&lt;/span&gt;. The book feels disjointed to me but the movie is more enjoyable. &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;A Time to Kill&lt;/span&gt; also served a lot of things better than the movie, and is less boring.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;13. If you want to make a film from a book, what book will you choose?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Neil Gaiman's &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Anansi Boys&lt;/span&gt;. Two brothers with magical powers, yum!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;14. What book you wish you’d written?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lots of them. I even wish I wrote a few good chick lits. Um... probably &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Handmaid's Tale&lt;/span&gt;, cause it's so shocking yet very relevant.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;15. What is the saddest book you’ve ever read?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time&lt;/span&gt;. It's so sad when parents can't understand or get close to their child.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-6174821007332584682?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/6174821007332584682/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=6174821007332584682&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6174821007332584682'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6174821007332584682'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/09/book-quiz.html' title='Book quiz'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-6502054552803573321</id><published>2008-09-18T14:39:00.009+07:00</published><updated>2008-09-18T15:24:22.977+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: American Gods</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/349347.American_Gods?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="American Gods" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1173975984m/349347.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/349347.American_Gods?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;American Gods&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1882.Neil_Gaiman"&gt;Neil Gaiman&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/12645838?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 3 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If the population of America is comprised of immigrants from all over the world and their descendants, then what about its gods? Sure enough, they are also ancient gods from the immigrants' countries of origins. Shadow Moon, who had just been released from prison to find her wife killed in an accident, gets hired to help a certain Mr. Wednesday and finds himself caught in the middle of a war between the aforementioned folkloric gods and new, modern ones.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think I would've enjoyed the book more had it been more succinct and to the point. There was too much build up before the actual war between the gods, lots of enigmatic or supposedly prophetic dreams, and numerous mention (or no mention at all, just descriptions) of gods from ancient mythology. If I were a mythology enthusiast I would've been thrilled will this but with my limited knowledge it all merely seemed like a lot of name-dropping. Nevertheless, one must give due credit to Gaiman for his extensive knowledge and research on the subject. I liked the "Coming to America" parts which chronicle the journeys of ancient gods to the US, and sometimes I even prefer these tales than the actual plot mainly because it's new and interesting for me. And as I always found in all of Gaiman's books I've read so far, seemingly random incidents and utterances later became important to solve the puzzle in the story. The book also raises questions of what people believe in, and how their belief can make certain things come true.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"People believe, thought Shadow. It's what people do. They believe. And then they will not take responsibility for their beliefs; they conjure things, and do not trust the conjurations. People populate the darkness: with ghosts, with gods, with electrons, with tales. People imagine, and people believe: and it is that belief, that rock-solid belief, that makes things happen."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-6502054552803573321?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/6502054552803573321/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=6502054552803573321&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6502054552803573321'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6502054552803573321'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/09/book-review-american-gods.html' title='Book review: American Gods'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2171073169106217556</id><published>2008-09-18T14:39:00.007+07:00</published><updated>2008-09-18T15:12:30.946+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Penggambar Mimpi</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3633373.Penggambar_Mimpi?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Penggambar Mimpi" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1215144851m/3633373.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3633373.Penggambar_Mimpi?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Penggambar Mimpi&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1924336.Nurkastelia_A_"&gt;Nurkastelia A.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/29919152?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 3 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Kumpulan cerpen bikinan temen2 kuliah gue yang bikin iriiiii. Hehehe. I gotta give props for them for the creativity and the courage. Setelah gue baca ternyata cerita2 ini ada yang manis, ada juga yang tragis. Salah satu benang merahnya adalah surprise ending, yang muncul di beberapa cerita. Tapi ada juga cerita2 yang terlalu pendek sehingga terlihat seperti penggalan kecil atau malah cuma awalan dari cerita yang lebih panjang lagi. Intinya, I want more!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Favorit gue: "Lucid Dreaming" (deskripsinya unik, tapi gue bingung endingnya beneran begitu atau salah cetak?), "Sheer Chance" (for a whimsical, dream-like nuance) dan "Tiga" (surprise ending dengan sudut pandang yang merata).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2171073169106217556?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2171073169106217556/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2171073169106217556&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2171073169106217556'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2171073169106217556'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/09/book-review-penggambar-mimpi.html' title='Book review: Penggambar Mimpi'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-65928788430421779</id><published>2008-09-18T14:38:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2008-09-18T19:47:07.787+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><title type='text'>Turkish Delight</title><content type='html'>My American-raised Korean boss yesterday gave Turkish Delight candies to those of us in the office who weren't fasting. Of course it immediately reminded me of &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Edmund Pevensie&lt;/span&gt; in &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;The Chronicles of Narnia&lt;/span&gt;, but the ones my boss gave us were smaller. She said to us, "Do you want some? It's Turkish Delight. It's from Turkey." Er... I know, ma'am. That's why it's called Turkish. ;D&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SNIJStJcp5I/AAAAAAAAABs/PUFBkO0_psg/s1600-h/narnia-turkishdelight.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SNIJStJcp5I/AAAAAAAAABs/PUFBkO0_psg/s320/narnia-turkishdelight.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5247266732801566610" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Should I be talking about Turkish Delight now that I'm fasting again?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-65928788430421779?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/65928788430421779/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=65928788430421779&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/65928788430421779'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/65928788430421779'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/09/turkish-delight.html' title='Turkish Delight'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SNIJStJcp5I/AAAAAAAAABs/PUFBkO0_psg/s72-c/narnia-turkishdelight.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-5603276528264179074</id><published>2008-09-09T00:55:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2008-09-09T01:05:51.387+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: About A Boy</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4271.About_a_Boy?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="About a Boy" src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/photo.goodreads.com/books/1210596850m/4271.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4271.About_a_Boy?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;About a Boy&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/2929.Nick_Hornby"&gt;Nick Hornby&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/12039135?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 3 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Humorous and light, though it touches on serious issues such as depression and bullying. Hornby describes incredibly well the mind workings of both a child and an adult. Somehow as I got nearer the end the story sort of went downhill, perhaps because the personality change of one of the main characters, Will, doesn't feel natural to me. But overall still an enjoyable read.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-5603276528264179074?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/5603276528264179074/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=5603276528264179074&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5603276528264179074'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5603276528264179074'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/09/book-review-about-boy.html' title='Book review: About A Boy'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-77367646488032503</id><published>2008-09-07T21:54:00.006+07:00</published><updated>2008-09-07T23:03:44.957+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><title type='text'>Legacy</title><content type='html'>I inherited my father's looks.&lt;br /&gt;I have a lot of my mother's temper.&lt;br /&gt;My mom cooks and my dad drives. I can do neither... so far.&lt;br /&gt;I got my brains from my dad.&lt;br /&gt;I got my guts from my mom.&lt;br /&gt;My blood type is different from both my parents'. My dad is AB. My mom is B. All three of their daughters are A.&lt;br /&gt;My mom taught me to always finish my meal, to the last grain of rice.&lt;br /&gt;My dad is the one who always takes us to the bookstore every time we go to a mall.&lt;br /&gt;They both complain if I read while eating. (Which I almost always do.)&lt;br /&gt;Like my dad, I am calm and keep a lot of things to myself.&lt;br /&gt;Like my mom, I can be loud and lively.&lt;br /&gt;I am incredibly lazy. (Now that is just me, I think.)&lt;br /&gt;I know they are proud of me, though they don't always show it.&lt;br /&gt;I am a proud mixture of both my parents, though I don't always show it.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-77367646488032503?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/77367646488032503/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=77367646488032503&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/77367646488032503'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/77367646488032503'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/09/legacy.html' title='Legacy'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-872816475668798705</id><published>2008-09-05T01:00:00.009+07:00</published><updated>2008-10-31T13:47:32.878+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quiz'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><title type='text'>Which Narnia Character Are You?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.buddytv.com/closedquiz/closed-quiz.aspx?quiz=73"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.buddytv.com/closedquiz/images/results/narnia-susan.jpg"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.buddytv.com"&gt;Created by BuddyTV&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thought so. I like Edmund better, though.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-872816475668798705?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/872816475668798705/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=872816475668798705&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/872816475668798705'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/872816475668798705'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/09/which-narnia-character-are-you.html' title='Which Narnia Character Are You?'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-3805392535074512038</id><published>2008-09-01T23:53:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2008-09-01T23:54:21.922+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: After Dark</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1340587.After_Dark?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="After Dark" src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/photo.goodreads.com/books/1213751590m/1340587.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1340587.After_Dark?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;After Dark&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/3354.Haruki_Murakami"&gt;Haruki Murakami&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/30091282?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This was short, simple and meaningful. It's a story of a number of people whose paths intersected during the eerie hours between midnight and dawn. Despite the horror undertone, I found that so many more topics were incorporated into the slim volume: loneliness, alienation, modern urban life, and ultimately, human connection. I had many guesses of how the story might turn out while reading, and they are almost always wrong. While some things remain unexplained, I found many insightful passages in the characters' conversations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This was my second Murakami after being unable to finish his short story collection, &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/search/search?q=%20The%20Elephant%20Vanishes&amp;amp;t=title"&gt; The Elephant Vanishes&lt;/a&gt;, and it helped convince me to read more books by him (though probably not the longer ones). After I finished reading the book on the bus on my way home from a day's work, I found myself looking out the window, at a city that had just come alive after dark.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-3805392535074512038?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/3805392535074512038/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=3805392535074512038&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/3805392535074512038'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/3805392535074512038'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/09/book-review-after-dark.html' title='Book review: After Dark'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-8504022323170029377</id><published>2008-09-01T23:37:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2008-09-01T23:57:41.921+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tv shows'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fasting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><title type='text'>Puasa oh puasa</title><content type='html'>Biasanya waktu hari pertama puasa gue agak kebat kebit. Karena udah lama nggak puasa yang kebayang pasti haus dan lemesnya gak karuan. Tapi biasanya gue melampaui perkiraan sendiri. Tahan puasa sampe magrib tanpa terlalu banyak keluhan, lantas mikir, hey, ternyata nggak berat2 amat kok, sebulan kayak gini (minus period days) mah enteeeng. Ini berlanjut sampe beberapa hari sebelum mulai kerasa penderitaannya.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But today... first day of fasting, and my body doesn't want to cooperate. Lemes ditambah kepala pening, maunya tidur terus. Agak untung sih karena lagi nightshift, jadi jam tidur bertambah. Must drink more water and take vitamins.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh man, I'm now addicted to &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Gossip Girl&lt;/span&gt;. At first I was a little pissed cause Trans7 picked it over the latest season of &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Supernatural&lt;/span&gt;, but I'm now officially hooked. That Chuck Bass guy is hilarious. Just don't spread this as gossip.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-8504022323170029377?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/8504022323170029377/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=8504022323170029377&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8504022323170029377'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8504022323170029377'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/09/puasa-oh-puasa.html' title='Puasa oh puasa'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-3961081060243443258</id><published>2008-08-19T13:29:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2008-09-07T23:15:31.259+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Count of Monte Cristo</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/7127.The_Count_of_Monte_Cristo?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Count of Monte Cristo (Enriched Classics)" src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/photo.goodreads.com/books/1165606536m/7127.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/7127.The_Count_of_Monte_Cristo?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;The Count of Monte Cristo&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/4785.Alexandre_Dumas"&gt;Alexandre Dumas&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/12038622?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;** SPOILER ALERT ** &lt;/span&gt;Very plot-driven, melodramatic and suspenseful, the book successfully intrigued me and captured my full attention although I don't think I would've made it through if I had read the unabridged version of 1300++ pages. Edmond Dantes seeks to avenge those who had wronged him by turning himself into a new persona, the Count of Monte Cristo, and cleverly orchestrates his enemies' downfall. But by playing God and punishing those he deemed sinful, I think in the end Dantes corrupts his own soul. Although the ending seemed like somewhat a happy one — Dantes cancels his plans to punish himself and goes to live with a young lady who loves him — I think he will always be dogged by his conscience that he had harmed not only the guilty but also the innocent. And that is the price he has to pay for seeking vengeance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-3961081060243443258?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/3961081060243443258/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=3961081060243443258&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/3961081060243443258'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/3961081060243443258'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/08/book-review-count-of-monte-cristo.html' title='Book review: The Count of Monte Cristo'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-5261272325971629769</id><published>2008-08-18T17:55:00.005+07:00</published><updated>2008-09-25T11:03:16.124+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='speak up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='current issues'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='holiday'/><title type='text'>Hari merdeka</title><content type='html'>Kemarin tanggal 17 Agustus, hari kemerdekaan kita. Hari merdeka, nusa dan bangsa, hari lahirnya bangsa Indonesia, dst dst.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gue bukan mau membahas topik filosofis seperti apakah bangsa kita udah benar-benar merdeka, seberapa kuatnya pondasi republik ini dari ancaman luar dan dalam, atau mempertanyakan nasionalisme warga Indonesia keturunan luar negeri kayak topik infotainment (kalo kata Cincha Lowra, "saya &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;tunjukin&lt;/span&gt; cinta negara ini lewat &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;social action&lt;/span&gt;!"). Gue cuma mau mengungkapkan beberapa hal yang gue rasain pas perayaan tujuhbelasan ini.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gue merasa beruntung karena selama 24 tahun hidup gue negara ini sering ngalamin pergolakan tapi gue selalu jauh dari pusatnya dan berhasil selamat sampai sekarang.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gue merasa gedung kantor gue yang baru kurang asik karena nggak ada lomba tujuhbelasan kayak gedung yang dulu, hehehe. Tahun lalu gue ikutan balap bakiak, dan walaupun finish paling belakang yang penting masuk finish doooong. Dan ikut nyorakin temen kantor yang ikutan tarik tambang.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gue sebagai orang yang lumayan merhatiin bulutangkis dan suka main juga pas masih kecil dulu, ikut bangga karena tim bulutangkis Indonesia dapat emas olimpiade di ganda putra, perak di ganda campuran, dan perunggu di tunggal putri.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gue bersyukur karena sejak kerja di tempat yang sekarang gue jadi tahu lebih banyak soal Indonesia (termasuk hal-hal yang gue nggak pengen tahu). Dan jadi malu karena bos gue yang orang Australia tahu lebih banyak tentang negara gue daripada gue sendiri. &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I salute you, Keith!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gue merasa kadang-kadang lebih suka pake bahasa Inggris daripada bahasa sendiri karena kesannya lebih &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;sophisticated&lt;/span&gt;. &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Snob I am.&lt;/span&gt; Atau kalaupun pake bahasa Indonesia kayak sekarang ini, bukanlah bahasa yang baik dan benar.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gue juga merasa beruntung lahir di keluarga kelas menengah sehingga gue bisa menikmati hal-hal yang banyak orang lain di negara ini nggak bisa nikmati, tapi juga tahu rasanya berusaha untuk ngedapetin sesuatu yang gue inginkan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gue pengen negara ini jadi lebih damai dan toleran.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gue masih terus berpikir gimana caranya gue bisa menyumbangkan sesuatu buat negara gue, tempat tinggal gue dari dulu sampai sekarang dan kemungkinan besar sampai selamanya, walaupun mungkin cuma dalam hal-hal kecil aja.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Eh, omongan gue kok buntut-buntutnya berbau filosofis bin nasionalis juga ya :)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-5261272325971629769?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/5261272325971629769/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=5261272325971629769&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5261272325971629769'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5261272325971629769'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/08/hari-merdeka.html' title='Hari merdeka'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-6109789752506301634</id><published>2008-08-16T09:37:00.007+07:00</published><updated>2008-08-18T01:27:21.820+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fun'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='eating out'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hanging out'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weekend'/><title type='text'>Sushi weekend</title><content type='html'>Last night I went to eat with my co-workers at &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Sushi Tei&lt;/span&gt; in &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;PIM 2&lt;/span&gt;. It was the first time I went out with nearly all of the people in my division (most of the girls, anyway. There were only two guys in our division and they probably didn't want to hang out with a bunch of loud, crazy ladies in the weekend, heh). We also have a quite high personnel turnover, and right now we have our largest number of workers yet. So yeah, it was pretty rowdy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was also the first time I ever ate sushi. I've tried a Korean dish similar to rice sushi, but this was the first time I actually went to eat at a sushi restaurant. It's always interesting to eat something new, and the taste was not bad either. I might go again some time with my sisters, or with &lt;a href="http://hey-little-world.blogspot.com/"&gt;Atchoo&lt;/a&gt;, perhaps? I know you like sushi, and PIM is your turf! ;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SKhiQ6ZkRTI/AAAAAAAAABE/Ob_QqyeuQmo/s1600-h/sushi+2.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 268px; height: 201px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SKhiQ6ZkRTI/AAAAAAAAABE/Ob_QqyeuQmo/s320/sushi+2.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5235542609512121650" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SKhiQ6ZkRTI/AAAAAAAAABE/Ob_QqyeuQmo/s1600-h/sushi+2.JPG"&gt;  &lt;/a&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SKhiQ4sZdoI/AAAAAAAAABM/sD1_dcFUkCY/s1600-h/sushi+3.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 267px; height: 201px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SKhiQ4sZdoI/AAAAAAAAABM/sD1_dcFUkCY/s320/sushi+3.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5235542609054234242" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I had salmon sushi, tuna salad maki and ebi &amp;amp; yasai kakiage don. Man, I was full.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So what we nine ladies did was mostly eating and laughing and taking pictures and then eating again, taking pictures of each other eating, laughing about the pictures and then eating some more. In the end we didn't know whether our stomachs hurt because we were full or because we laughed too much, haha.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SKhiTEnyFhI/AAAAAAAAABU/3601gghkFI0/s1600-h/sushi+1.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SKhiTEnyFhI/AAAAAAAAABU/3601gghkFI0/s320/sushi+1.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5235542646615840274" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;The ladies that were having fun that night...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SKhiTT4UlNI/AAAAAAAAABc/ZHh1ZiwsFuY/s1600-h/sushi+5.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SKhiTT4UlNI/AAAAAAAAABc/ZHh1ZiwsFuY/s320/sushi+5.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5235542650711741650" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;My friend told me the background looks very 'Zen' :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I arrived home at 11 PM and still had to wake up early today to write the weekly assignment, but the fun was worth it. Looking forward to going out with all of you again, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;IMD people&lt;/span&gt;!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SKhiThhAHWI/AAAAAAAAABk/7-VpgRM5_AE/s1600-h/sushi+4.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SKhiThhAHWI/AAAAAAAAABk/7-VpgRM5_AE/s320/sushi+4.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5235542654372027746" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Girls just wanna have fun &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(clockwise from top)&lt;/span&gt;: Rani, Emil, Saras, Ika, me, Mbak Mita, Titan, Rifa, Mbak Risti&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Alrighty. Still have to pay the internet bills today before I forget and get another fine, sheesh. &lt;a href="http://himawari-22.livejournal.com/"&gt;himawari_22&lt;/a&gt; is going with me cause she needs some stuff but can't decide which one to buy first. And then there's talk about going for a long-overdue creambath... we'll see ;)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-6109789752506301634?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/6109789752506301634/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=6109789752506301634&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6109789752506301634'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6109789752506301634'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/08/sushi-weekend.html' title='Sushi weekend'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SKhiQ6ZkRTI/AAAAAAAAABE/Ob_QqyeuQmo/s72-c/sushi+2.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2939288231255009933</id><published>2008-08-13T14:38:00.007+07:00</published><updated>2008-08-14T15:55:27.058+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><title type='text'>August!</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SKKSXpXzEAI/AAAAAAAAAAs/yp3sfVXYSs0/s1600-h/august+rush.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SKKSXpXzEAI/AAAAAAAAAAs/yp3sfVXYSs0/s320/august+rush.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5233906651898253314" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;What better movie to watch in the month of August than &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;August Rush&lt;/span&gt;? I missed this film when it played at Blitz Megaplex a few months ago so I was excited when my big sister came home with this last week.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Evan Taylor (&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Freddie Highmore&lt;/span&gt;) is a musical prodigy, son of the beautiful cellist Lyla (&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Keri Russell&lt;/span&gt;) and equally beautiful rock singer/guitarist Louis (&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Jonathan Rhys-Meyers&lt;/span&gt;). But the ill-fated couple was separated by circumstances and Evan was left at an orphanage. Years later, the boy travels to find his parents by playing music with the belief that somehow they will be able to hear him. He meets Wizard (&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Robin Williams&lt;/span&gt;), who sees his talent and wants to promote him under a catchier name, August Rush. Will August successfully burst into the music scene as a hot new talent like David Archuleta? Will he be able to reunite with his parents?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Although the movie has a lot of improbable coincidences and can sometimes make you roll your eyes (August can play guitar like playing the piano a la Balawan! August creates orchestral symphonies out of thin air!), but it's enjoyable to watch. The journey of August, Lyla and Louis (btw I didn't know Rhys-Meyers' voice was &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;that&lt;/span&gt; high) in finding each other is very heartwarming. Having a lead actor like Freddie also helps, of course. That kid is so darn adorable I'm worried that when he grows up he'll be like Elijah 'can't-shake-off-the-baby-face-despite-facial-hair' Wood (but I do like Elijah). Overall, you should watch this movie if you need a dose of warm and fuzzy in your day. And if you believe in the power of music ("...it's all around us. All you have to do is listen").&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Speaking of my big sister who bought this movie... she is now down with chickenpox. Yep, the disease has come full circle. I'm supposed to feel guilty for starting the outbreak that caused my two sisters to fall sick consecutively, but I gotta say it's rather hilarious. In a twisted kind of way. Sorry, sis. But hey, at least this means all of us are now chickenpox-free, right? We're not gonna get it again for the rest of our lives, right? &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Right?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Argh. I want the chickenpox scars on my face and body to DISAPPEAR. A.S.A.P. Anybody know a good product which doesn't involve fancy, expensive clinics? Or any vanishing spells from Harry Potter?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have a great August, everyone!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2939288231255009933?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2939288231255009933/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2939288231255009933&amp;isPopup=true' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2939288231255009933'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2939288231255009933'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/08/august.html' title='August!'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SKKSXpXzEAI/AAAAAAAAAAs/yp3sfVXYSs0/s72-c/august+rush.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-8858406403711646319</id><published>2008-07-31T09:50:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2008-07-31T09:52:09.020+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Anansi Boys</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/569979.Anansi_Boys?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Anansi Boys" src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/photo.goodreads.com/books/1175883910m/569979.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/569979.Anansi_Boys?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Anansi Boys&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1882.Neil_Gaiman"&gt;Neil Gaiman&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/12645856?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Stories are webs, interconnected, strand to strand, and you follow each story to the centre, because the centre is the end. Each person is a strand of story."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Neil Gaiman skillfully weaves the strands to make an amusing tale of two sons of the trickster spider-god, Anansi. Fat Charlie, who's actually only fat briefly during childhood, lives a normal if not boring life for twenty-something years without knowing the true identity of his estranged father. Only after his father's death does he learn that the old man was a god and there's another son in the family named Spider. Over the course of the book, Fat Charlie meets his eccentric, fun-loving brother Spider for the first time, encounters strange mythical creatures, travels to otherworldly places, and learns a lot more than he ever wants to know about himself and his family.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is the second Gaiman book I've read after &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/search/search?q=%20Stardust&amp;amp;t=title"&gt; Stardust&lt;/a&gt;, and I found that they both tell the stories of different characters but all the branches point to the same direction in the end, where everything fits perfectly like puzzle pieces. For a book that mixes magic, brotherly camaraderie, animal spirits, white-collar crimes, ghosts and karaoke songs, &lt;i&gt;Anansi Boys&lt;/i&gt; is certainly a funny and entertaining read.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-8858406403711646319?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/8858406403711646319/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=8858406403711646319&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8858406403711646319'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8858406403711646319'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/07/book-review-anansi-boys.html' title='Book review: Anansi Boys'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-5644534261670231093</id><published>2008-07-30T20:42:00.004+07:00</published><updated>2008-07-30T21:01:09.486+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Handmaid's Tale</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/863571.The_Handmaid_s_Tale?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Handmaid's Tale" src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/photo.goodreads.com/books/1178999165m/863571.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/863571.The_Handmaid_s_Tale?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;The Handmaid's Tale&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/3472.Margaret_Atwood"&gt;Margaret Atwood&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/25023454?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;  rating: 5 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Handmaid's Tale&lt;/i&gt; is a frightening look into a future where the US, now called the Republic of Gilead, is run by religious fundamentalists. In this grim world, women have no right to property, are forbidden to read and write, and are assigned to specific functions. One of them is that of the Handmaid, who is assigned to a family as a means of reproduction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The story is told through the point of view of Offred, a Handmaid assigned to a prominent family in Gilead. She can still remember a time before the country became Gilead, when she had a husband, a daughter, a job and a home — which was all taken from her. We learn bit by bit about her life, then and now, as she switches from present narrative to past events in an attempt of "reconstruction".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The book is a dystopia about an oppressive regime, but I find that the situation described is horribly similar to what had been and is going on in several parts of the world. It's a five-star material for me because it shocked and amazed me and gave a lot of relevant points to ponder about freedom, gender, religion and fundamentalism.  As Offred asks during a prayer: &lt;i&gt;"Oh God... Is this what you had in mind?"&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I want to believe that it's not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-5644534261670231093?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/5644534261670231093/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=5644534261670231093&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5644534261670231093'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5644534261670231093'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/07/book-review-handmaids-tale.html' title='Book review: The Handmaid&apos;s Tale'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-6176826752328197196</id><published>2008-07-28T11:16:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2008-07-28T11:29:14.417+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Age of Innocence</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/868412.The_Age_of_Innocence?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Age of Innocence (Wordsworth Classics)" src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/photo.goodreads.com/books/1179042568m/868412.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/868412.The_Age_of_Innocence?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;The Age of Innocence&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/16.Edith_Wharton"&gt;Edith Wharton&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/12039469?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 3 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This beautifully-written classic tells the story of people trapped in the "eternal triangle of love". Edith Wharton skillfully details the lifestyle, customs and manners of upper-class New York society in the 1870s, in which every family seems to be related one way or another.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Newland Archer, who is engaged to the innocent, conservative May Welland, falls in love with her exotic Europeanized cousin Ellen Olenska. He is torn between following his impulse to be with Ellen, whose marriage is on the rocks, or fulfilling what is considered to be his 'duty' and settle down with May like everyone expects him to.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What I like about this novel is that the story and descriptions flow smoothly and the language is not too difficult for a classic. However, the plot moves rather slowly because I felt Newland keeps going back and forth in his dilemma between the two women.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I actually watched the Martin Scorsese movie a few years before I read this, and while I felt no sympathy to any character in the film in particular, when reading the book I tend to sympathize with both Ellen and May, and dislike Newland. I think his love for Ellen is only based on her "mysterious and outlandish background" and wouldn't have been as strong if not for his own feelings of confinement. I admire Ellen for her principles and integrity – not so much like Newland's sense of 'duty' but a reluctance to hurt other people's feelings. May, on the other hand, is highly underestimated by Newland, who thinks she "knew nothing and expected everything". The reader will later find that he was very, very wrong.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Overall, the book was not fantastic but I liked it nonetheless. Perhaps if I hadn't watch the movie earlier my opinion would've been different. I'm still interested in reading Wharton's other works, though. Oh, and I love the cover of the Wordsworth edition that I read. A fitting picture, so graceful and classic.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-6176826752328197196?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/6176826752328197196/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=6176826752328197196&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6176826752328197196'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6176826752328197196'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/07/book-review-age-of-innocence.html' title='Book review: The Age of Innocence'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-7530652180764317360</id><published>2008-07-25T10:11:00.004+07:00</published><updated>2008-07-25T10:15:01.201+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><title type='text'>I'm really sorry.</title><content type='html'>So it's official. &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://himawari-22.livejournal.com"&gt;My little sister&lt;/a&gt; got chickenpox from me. On Wednesday she started feeling sick and yesterday she began having the lesions. I feel guilty that she fell sick after I got better. I'm really sorry, honey.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-7530652180764317360?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/7530652180764317360/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=7530652180764317360&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7530652180764317360'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/7530652180764317360'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/07/im-really-sorry.html' title='I&apos;m really sorry.'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-1725541261956911036</id><published>2008-07-25T10:05:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2008-07-25T10:10:05.525+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Prince of Tea</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3247719.Prince_of_Tea?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Prince of Tea (Series 1-25)" src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/photo.goodreads.com/books/1209361219m/3247719.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3247719.Prince_of_Tea?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Prince of Tea&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1377989.Nanpei_Yamada"&gt;Nanpei Yamada&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/28222205?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;  rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Serial yang seru dan bikin penasaran. Meskipun latar belakangnya magis dengan tokoh2 peri dari dunia lain, tapi inti cerita sebenarnya adalah hubungan persahabatan dan cinta antar karakter yang kompleks. Tapi kurang puas nih sama endingnya karena kurang mencakup semua tokoh. Oya, biasanya habis baca komik ini jadi pengen minum teh hangat dan makan kue yang enak-enak. Yummy!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-1725541261956911036?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/1725541261956911036/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=1725541261956911036&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1725541261956911036'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1725541261956911036'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/07/book-review-prince-of-tea.html' title='Book review: Prince of Tea'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-401424610424928456</id><published>2008-07-24T12:30:00.007+07:00</published><updated>2008-12-12T06:47:20.990+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><title type='text'>Yesterday I turned 24.</title><content type='html'>Quite a lot of things happened since my last post. First of all, I got sick. On July 13th (no, it wasn't a Friday) I started feeling unwell. Then I got a fever, and there were weird spots all over my body. Not the kind you get when you contract dengue fever, which I got in high school. I knew enough, as a resident health writer at my workplace, that this might mean I had &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;chickenpox&lt;/span&gt;. I was not mistaken.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Luckily, I managed to force my way through the end of my night shift and afterwards asked for a week of sick leave. Another fortunate fact was that the fever didn't last too long, my blisters didn't itch as much as I thought it would, and I still have some semblance of an appetite. And I just love love love staying at home. I've been a 9-to-5 person for more than a year and a half (well, interspersed by regular night shifts) and taking a break from all that was really what I need, despite being sick and all. I mean, how often does one get to spend one's time sleeping and watching TV all day?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My condition has gradually improved, and since Tuesday I started working again though only from home. The blisters have been healing nicely too. What I'm worried about now is that I may have infected one of my sisters, both of whom have never had chickenpox. Let's hope that doesn't happen... I was also bummed when I had to miss a reunion with a bunch of college friends on the 19th, but it turned out that the outing was canceled cause of scheduling problems — busy people, aren't we? Hope we can get together sometime later. Overall, a lesson I learned from all this is that health is very, very precious, my friend. And that the mother is almost always right. Well. Most of the time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And then came July 23, a sacred day in my calendar, for it is the day that I celebrate my &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;birthday&lt;/span&gt;. I'm 24 this year, which means I'm almost 25, which means I'm nearly a quarter of a century old. Now that doesn't sound so encouraging, huh? To all the people who congratulated me, thanks a bunch. As for birthday wishes, I'm just glad I'm slowly getting back to health I hope I can maintain it (better start exercising regularly...). I also nurture a secret wish to attain my Heart's Desire — that is, to get my dream job as a book translator — before I turn 25. Let's hope I have the guts to actually take the steps to realize that dream. Yosh!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SIgbhtkqtzI/AAAAAAAAAAk/_OzKHxZf5JY/s1600-h/wanted+movie.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SIgbhtkqtzI/AAAAAAAAAAk/_OzKHxZf5JY/s320/wanted+movie.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5226457633546483506" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;A bit of a movie update: I went to watch &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Wanted&lt;/span&gt; a few days before I fell sick. It was fun! The  talented &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;James McAvoy&lt;/span&gt; was believable both as the nervous loser at the office and the cool, skilled assassin. He can be good-looking but not in-your-face pretty. It was entertaining to see him and &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Angelina Jolie&lt;/span&gt; run around performing a lot of humanly impossible action sequences with rock music blasting in the background. Although the blood was a bit too much for me and some points of the story don't make much sense, as an action flick (which I don't watch so much) I thought it was fun. In fact, I'm totally picturing McAvoy in my head while reading Neil Gaiman's &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Anansi Boys&lt;/span&gt; right now. The book is about two brothers who are the sons of a trickster god. One has his powers, while the other doesn't (I can imagine McAvoy as both brothers). So far it's a fun, entertaining read.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh, I still want to write a review for Edith Wharton's &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;The Age of Innocence&lt;/span&gt;. And Margaret Atwood's &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;The Handmaid's Tale&lt;/span&gt;, which I finished right before I got sick (I did quite a lot of things before I got sick, it turned out). The latter book really scared the crap out of me, I hope I can write a review that does it justice. Until then, here's to good health.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-401424610424928456?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/401424610424928456/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=401424610424928456&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/401424610424928456'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/401424610424928456'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/07/yesterday-i-turned-24.html' title='Yesterday I turned 24.'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SIgbhtkqtzI/AAAAAAAAAAk/_OzKHxZf5JY/s72-c/wanted+movie.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-6974444746322275135</id><published>2008-07-08T22:34:00.007+07:00</published><updated>2008-07-08T23:40:40.819+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><title type='text'>Been having too much sleep</title><content type='html'>I always feel I don't get enough sleep during normal days. But when I'm on night shifts, I sleep too much. Like, nine or ten hours a day. It's like when I try to wake up there was something dragging me back in, saying "Don't go up yet, go back to sleep". Hm. Too much of anything is bad, right?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Last Friday (after willing myself to wake up) I went to &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Pesta Buku Jakarta&lt;/span&gt; at Istora Senayan. I often go to these kind of book fairs but end up buying nothing.  That's also what happened last Friday. The books that I want to read were only available in translations, and I was afraid of regretting it if I buy cause I'm often disappointed with translations. There was a stand of imported books by Periplus with huge discounts, but I didn't find anything interesting. They were mostly Japanese literature and non-fiction books, plus it was always jam-packed in there. So I ended up going to Plaza Indonesia afterwards and checked out &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Aksara&lt;/span&gt; bookstore so as to not come home empty-handed. After lusting over a dozen books for about a half an hour, I bought two &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Neil Gaiman&lt;/span&gt; books, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;American Gods&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Anansi Boys&lt;/span&gt; (both have strong connections to one of my favorite TV series, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Supernatural&lt;/span&gt;). Hope I can read at least one of them this month for a book club.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I seem to be in a book-buying craze for the last few months (it's all because of you, &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/"&gt;Goodreads&lt;/a&gt;!). I have at least 16 unread books at home, including the two new ones. Maybe I should follow my college friend &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://tyrant-mouth.livejournal.com/"&gt;Ayu&lt;/a&gt; and sign up with &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Depdiknas library&lt;/span&gt; in Senayan. Their books are from the British Council so I'm sure there are lots of interesting ones there. But I really gotta finish those 16 books first... maybe allocate some of my sleeping time for reading. Haha.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Despite not buying anything, a highlight of going to Pesta Buku was bumping into another college friend, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Indah&lt;/span&gt;. The publishing company where she works, Erlangga, opened some stands there. It was great meeting her, and I hope she can give me editing/correcting jobs again in the future, hee.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On a final note... I'm kinda curious to watch &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Wanted&lt;/span&gt;. Only to see &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;James McAvoy&lt;/span&gt; (who broke my heart in &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Atonement&lt;/span&gt;), cause I have no interest in Angelina Jolie. Should be a fast, no-need-to-think action flick. I'll probably catch it later this week or next, when it goes on.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-6974444746322275135?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/6974444746322275135/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=6974444746322275135&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6974444746322275135'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6974444746322275135'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/07/been-having-too-much-sleep.html' title='Been having too much sleep'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-1585455369237597363</id><published>2008-07-03T01:16:00.005+07:00</published><updated>2008-12-12T06:47:21.157+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fun'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='eating out'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hanging out'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weekend'/><title type='text'>Weekend outing... well, sort of</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SGvGYReJ6OI/AAAAAAAAAAU/tG8aExnW9UU/s1600-h/satc+poster.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SGvGYReJ6OI/AAAAAAAAAAU/tG8aExnW9UU/s320/satc+poster.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5218482713547892962" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;My big sister and I planned to watch &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Sex and the City: The Movie&lt;/span&gt; last Saturday, but after I arrived and bought the tickets my sister called saying she was stuck in traffic and probably wouldn't make it in time. So I ended up watching it alone... which was not as fun, but was OK. Would've been better if we were watching together, of course, cause my sis is an even bigger fan of SATC than I am.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let's talk about the movie first. &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(Time to look away if you haven't watched it cause here come the spoilers.) &lt;/span&gt;The story provides a great ending to the great adventures, or misadventures, of the four female friends. Carrie (Sarah Jessica Parker) faces the question of whether or not she'll find true love, and we learn Mr. Big (Chris Noth)'s real name in the process. I personally like how Miranda (Cynthia Nixon)'s story turns out, cause it was so sweet. Samantha (Kim Cattrall)'s ending shows that not all love stories have to end perfectly. Charlotte (Kristin Scott Thomas), on the other hand, has no problems at all, in my opinion. She's just there to be the object for comedy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As one might expect, the movie is filled with gorgeous clothes — I heard that no wardrobe is ever worn twice. The soundtrack is nice as well. But the thing that kept popping in my head while watching was that... SJP looks really old. And skinny. I mean look at her arms. They make her look even older than Cattrall.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After the movie ended I got together with my sister and, to give her a pick-me-up, ate some cakes at &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Secret Recipe&lt;/span&gt;. I knew she was curious after seeing the restaurant review on the latest&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; The Jakarta Post&lt;/span&gt;'s &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Weekender&lt;/span&gt;. She ate a chocolate fudge cake while I helped myself to a cheese chocolate cake. Yummy yum.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This Tuesday I also started working nights again at home. I just grabbed some MP3s from my friend's playlist and there's this one song I keep listening to cause it's too darned sweet: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I'm Yours&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;by &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Jason Mraz&lt;/span&gt;. I've been having a crush on Mr. A to Z for a while, and this song only made it worse. &lt;span class="reviewText"&gt;&lt;span id="freeTextcomment1108190" style="" class="reviewText"&gt;&lt;i&gt;"I won't hesitate no more, no more, it cannot wait, I'm yours!"&lt;/i&gt; *gushing*&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-1585455369237597363?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/1585455369237597363/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=1585455369237597363&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1585455369237597363'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1585455369237597363'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/07/weekend-outing-well-sort-of.html' title='Weekend outing... well, sort of'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SGvGYReJ6OI/AAAAAAAAAAU/tG8aExnW9UU/s72-c/satc+poster.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-6745551808282357426</id><published>2008-07-02T22:29:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2008-07-02T22:32:42.117+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Girls in Pants</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/364640.Girls_in_Pants_The_Third_Summer_of_the_Sisterhood?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Girls in Pants: The Third Summer of the Sisterhood" src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/photo.goodreads.com/books/1174133976m/364640.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/364640.Girls_in_Pants_The_Third_Summer_of_the_Sisterhood?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Girls in Pants: The Third Summer of the Sisterhood&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/3681.Ann_Brashares"&gt;Ann Brashares&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/22010753?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;  rating: 3 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My sister said these Sisterhood novels, about friendship of four teenage girls aided by a magical pair of pants, always have this gloomy aura lurking beneath. I tend to agree with her. The word I think describes the series is 'bittersweet', because that's what life is. The four girls, Carmen, Bridget, Lena and Tibby deal with a lot during their teens, and there were always valuable lessons to learn. For them, and also for the readers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"The lesson was: Don't open, don't climb, don't reach, and you will not fall. But it was the wrong lesson! She had learned the wrong lesson!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The real lesson... was the opposite: Try, reach, want, and you may fall. But even if you do, you might be okay anyway.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Flexing her feet under the covers, Tibby thought of a corollary to this lesson: If you don't try, you save nothing, because you might as well be dead."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-6745551808282357426?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/6745551808282357426/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=6745551808282357426&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6745551808282357426'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6745551808282357426'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/07/book-review-girls-in-pants-third-summer.html' title='Book review: Girls in Pants'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2875550647538871585</id><published>2008-06-27T11:41:00.004+07:00</published><updated>2008-12-12T06:47:21.319+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='randomness'/><title type='text'>The moon</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SGR1a5jJqVI/AAAAAAAAAAM/ZO91aZ0slnc/s1600-h/moon4.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SGR1a5jJqVI/AAAAAAAAAAM/ZO91aZ0slnc/s320/moon4.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5216423373387180370" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have a thing about the moon.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't know exactly how I feel when I see it. Sentimental? Romantic? Or let's put it this way: I'm filled with a sense of wonder. Yeah, that's the word. Wonder. As a child I used to be fascinated by the way celestial bodies seem to follow you everywhere you go. You walk ahead, it goes ahead too. You turn right, and it still faithfully follows you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The wonder reaches its ultimate height when the moon is full, like what happened a few days ago. I was so enthralled by the full moon that I wanted to take a picture of it, so I borrowed my little sister's digital camera. My sister took one picture the previous day, but I thought it wasn't so good — it didn't capture the full moon the way I wanted. Turns out that the pictures I took were even worse. I am probably the most lousy photographer in the world cause I can't even keep my hands still so the moon always looked wobbly. So I gave up and took a free image from the web. Heh.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They say things happen during the full moon. From natural, logical things like tidal waves to supernatural, mythical things like the transformation of werewolves and the rebirth of Sailor Moon. ;P But what I think about when I see the full moon hanging in the sky, or its light streaming in through my bedroom window, is the amazing fact that this is the same orb that has shone down on the people of this earth dozens, hundreds, and thousands of years ago.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2875550647538871585?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2875550647538871585/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2875550647538871585&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2875550647538871585'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2875550647538871585'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/06/moon.html' title='The moon'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rDka8kb9mns/SGR1a5jJqVI/AAAAAAAAAAM/ZO91aZ0slnc/s72-c/moon4.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2659569080597998363</id><published>2008-06-27T10:32:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2009-05-13T11:43:52.788+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quiz'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Quiz: What Kind of Reader Are You?</title><content type='html'>&lt;table style="width: 320px; border: 1px solid gray; font: normal 12px arial, verdana, sans-serif; background-color: white;"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td colspan="2" style="background: white; color: black; padding: 5px;"&gt;&lt;b style="font: bold 20px 'Times New Roman', serif; display: block; margin-bottom: 8px;"&gt;What Kind of Reader Are You?&lt;/b&gt; &lt;div style="font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 4px;"&gt;Your Result: &lt;b&gt;Dedicated Reader&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="width: 200px; background: white; border: 1px solid black;"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 78%; background: red; font-size: 8px; line-height: 8px;"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p style="margin: 10px; border: none; background: white; color: black;"&gt;You are always trying to find the time to get back to your book. You are convinced that the world would be a much better place if only everyone read more.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="color: black; background: white; padding: 3px;"&gt;Literate Good Citizen&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td style="background: white; padding: 3px;"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 100px; background: white; border: 1px solid black; margin-top: 4px;"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 73%; background: red; font-size: 8px; line-height: 8px;"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="color: black; background: white; padding: 3px;"&gt;Obsessive-Compulsive Bookworm&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td style="background: white; padding: 3px;"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 100px; background: white; border: 1px solid black; margin-top: 4px;"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 69%; background: red; font-size: 8px; line-height: 8px;"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="color: black; background: white; padding: 3px;"&gt;Fad Reader&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td style="background: white; 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padding: 8px;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.gotoquiz.com/what_kind_of_reader_are_you"&gt;&lt;b&gt;What Kind of Reader Are You?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.gotoquiz.com/"&gt;Create Your Own Quiz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2659569080597998363?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2659569080597998363/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2659569080597998363&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2659569080597998363'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2659569080597998363'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/06/quiz-what-kind-of-reader-are-you.html' title='Quiz: What Kind of Reader Are You?'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-6366021153242099805</id><published>2008-06-26T14:56:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2008-06-26T15:11:06.450+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Eat, Pray, Love</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2445157.Eat_Pray_Love_One_Woman_s_Search_for_Everything_Across_Italy_India_and_Indonesia?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman's Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41GKR251A9L._SL160_.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2445157.Eat_Pray_Love_One_Woman_s_Search_for_Everything_Across_Italy_India_and_Indonesia?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman's Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/11679.Elizabeth_Gilbert"&gt;Elizabeth Gilbert&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/13355205?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I first heard the premise of &lt;i&gt;Eat, Pray, Love&lt;/i&gt; — a woman's journey after a series of personal hardships to find peace and happiness across three countries — I thought it was going to be a solemn retelling of the pilgrimage-like voyage in the likes of Paulo Coelho. Of course I was wrong.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Elizabeth Gilbert tells an honest story (which starts with the quote "Tell the truth, tell the truth, tell the truth") of her emotional and psychological breakdown after a harrowing divorce and a whirlwind romance. Embarking on a culinary expedition to Italy for the sake of pleasure (&lt;i&gt;eat&lt;/i&gt;), a spiritual retreat at a temple in India (&lt;i&gt;pray&lt;/i&gt;), and a search for balance with the help of an elderly medicine man on a tourist island in Indonesia (&lt;i&gt;love&lt;/i&gt;), she shares how she progresses from depression to a balanced, full life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At first I didn't really get how serious Gilbert's problem was — she only mentioned the word 'suicidal' in a passing, almost nonchalant way — until she described her use of medication and the moments when she seriously thought of killing herself. Her tone is often melancholic in places; in others it was rich with humor and wit. Some have called her a self-centered whiner but to me she was only expressing her anguish, trying to make sense of her world after it turned upside down, and finally allowing herself to heal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I also find that Gilbert's open-mindedness toward many schools of spiritualism and religion leads me to tolerate hers as well. I may or may not agree with her practices and beliefs (one of them is that there is no such thing as hell because if imperfect humans can be so compassionate and forgiving, why not God almighty Himself?) but it doesn't stop me from appreciating them. In an era where religious debate can so easily lead to scathing insult and physical aggression, Gilbert's take on religion is a breath of fresh air.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But the core of the story, for me, is that Gilbert's search brought her face to face with the only one who can help her: herself. Only you can bring yourself from an awful state to a better place. Just like Gilbert's favorite Italian word: &lt;i&gt;"Attraversiamo"&lt;/i&gt; (let's cross over).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-6366021153242099805?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/6366021153242099805/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=6366021153242099805&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6366021153242099805'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/6366021153242099805'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/06/book-review-eat-pray-love.html' title='Book review: Eat, Pray, Love'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-2220611243345100640</id><published>2008-06-26T14:47:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2008-06-26T14:49:46.663+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Jane Eyre</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/161106.Jane_Eyre?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Jane Eyre (Barnes &amp;amp; Noble Classics)" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/419VG7FpEbL._SL160_.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/161106.Jane_Eyre?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Jane Eyre&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1036615.Charlotte_Bront_"&gt;Charlotte Brontë&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/11848575?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a classic I'm glad I didn't miss. Aptly subtitled "An Autobiography", it is a first hand account of the life story of a poor, plain orphan girl as she progresses from childhood, adolescence, and into adulthood. Through the different periods of her life she proves herself as a brave, strong, outspoken, independent girl who never loses her sense of self-worth. The Gothic elements in the story fascinated me: the passionate romance between Jane and the brooding Mr. Rochester, a large old manor with mysterious inhabitants, prophetic dreams and seemingly improbable coincidences. On the other hand, the spiritual aspect of the novel resonates through the numerous quotes from religious scriptures and the main character's closeness to God. Though the length of the book is rather daunting at first, I find it fairly easy to read and very engaging. Definitely a worthy collection.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A favorite quote from the book: &lt;i&gt;"I can live alone, if self-respect, and circumstances require me so to do. I need not sell my soul to buy bliss. I have an inward treasure born with me, which can keep me alive if all extraneous delights should be withheld, or offered only at a price I cannot afford to give."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-2220611243345100640?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/2220611243345100640/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=2220611243345100640&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2220611243345100640'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/2220611243345100640'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/06/book-review-jane-eyre.html' title='Book review: Jane Eyre'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-5517962117748301243</id><published>2008-06-25T14:29:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2008-06-27T13:07:40.794+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1618.The_Curious_Incident_of_the_Dog_in_the_Night_time?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time " src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/photo.goodreads.com/books/1209688506m/1618.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1618.The_Curious_Incident_of_the_Dog_in_the_Night_time?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1050.Mark_Haddon"&gt;Mark Haddon&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/9414404?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My friend recommended this book to me back when we were in college and even brought it as a topic of our speaking skills class, saying that it's "amazing" and "a must read!". And she was right — the book was interesting, amusing, heart-wrenching and endlessly fascinating. It's an easy, short read that you wish wouldn't end so quickly. Fifteen-year-old autistic child Christopher Boone tries to investigate who killed the neighbor's dog and instead has his world turned upside down.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The author did a great job in describing the thought processes and feelings of the autistic main character, 15-year-old Christopher Boone. I find that I could appreciate the acute differences between Christopher's and the average person's mind as well as acknowledge that we actually have quite a lot of things in common. Many people &lt;i&gt;do&lt;/i&gt; have quirks and OCD-type behaviors much like Christopher's distaste for the color yellow and brown — I, for one, sometimes can't stand seeing dog-eared book pages and unevenly folded papers. As I am introverted and not a people person (I'm getting better as I grow older though), I can understand Christopher's insecurities with other people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the other hand, I can also empathize with the everyday struggle his parents (especially his father) must go through in raising a child like Christopher — even more than my sympathy for Christopher himself. Every time he and his dad touched the tips of their fingers to replace a hug I feel a tug at my heart. All in all, I highly recommend this book for being a lesson in empathy, tolerance and parenting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-5517962117748301243?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/5517962117748301243/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=5517962117748301243&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5517962117748301243'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/5517962117748301243'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/06/book-review-curious-incident-of-dog-in.html' title='Book review: The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-8708922214643928175</id><published>2008-06-25T13:54:00.003+07:00</published><updated>2008-06-26T14:52:42.956+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Jane Austen Book Club</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/820335.The_Jane_Austen_Book_Club?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Jane Austen Book Club" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/21hdM20IBAL.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/820335.The_Jane_Austen_Book_Club?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;The Jane Austen Book Club&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1448.Karen_Joy_Fowler"&gt;Karen Joy Fowler&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/11611628?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 3 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The book is about six people who gather for six months to talk about the six Jane Austen novels. The twists and turns of the characters' lives mirror the novels' plots. At first I found it hard to get into the heads of the characters since the omniscient narrator switches points of views very quickly, but it gets better in the middle though, and funnier. I also thought it focuses on some characters more than others. Extra points however for the insightful Reader's Guide at the end of the book which provides synopses of and responses to Austen's novels (it really makes me want to grab all of the novels and read them). I also like the hilarious discussion questions 'penned' by the characters.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-8708922214643928175?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/8708922214643928175/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=8708922214643928175&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8708922214643928175'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/8708922214643928175'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/06/book-review-jane-austen-book-club.html' title='Book review: The Jane Austen Book Club'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-1609211666128937155</id><published>2008-06-25T13:45:00.004+07:00</published><updated>2008-06-27T13:07:20.274+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: Stardust</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1778908.Stardust?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="Stardust" src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/photo.goodreads.com/books/1188193579m/1778908.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1778908.Stardust?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;Stardust&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1882.Neil_Gaiman"&gt;Neil Gaiman&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/7246695?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 4 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally finished this book after six days and an array of distractions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was an enjoyable read! A true fairy tale with all the wonder, adventure and magical creatures — and a lot of humor as well. The story tells about the faerie world which is only separated by a wall from the human world. The young, innocent hero Tristran Thorn decides to venture to the other side of the wall in search of a falling star to win the heart of his loved one. But little did he know that some others are also after the star, or that he actually has a stronger connection to the fairie world than he thinks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Despite the theme and the flowery language appropriate to fairy tales, we can tell that the book is not meant for children, for (aside from some sex scenes) nowhere in children's fairy tales can we find a falling star that said "Fuck" after a hard landing ;P Am waiting forward for the movie now, hopefully it lives up to the book — or at least be a decent, complimentary film version of the story, for I have learned from the Harry Potter series never to expect a movie version to be the same with how I imagined the book in my mind.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wish I could attain my Heart's Desire like Tristran did in the book — or to be more exact, to actually find out WHAT my Heart's Desire is and then attain it. Bah. But then again, as Tristran discovered, knowing what you want and trying to get it doesn't necessarily mean you'll have it in the end... cause you might end up with something even better than you ever imagined.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-1609211666128937155?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/1609211666128937155/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=1609211666128937155&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1609211666128937155'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/1609211666128937155'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/06/book-review-stardust.html' title='Book review: Stardust'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-950256076519508307</id><published>2008-06-25T12:55:00.010+07:00</published><updated>2008-06-26T14:52:58.738+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Book review: The Awakening</title><content type='html'>Am posting some of my old Goodreads reviews for lack of anything else to post. Heh.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/543425.The_Awakening_And_Other_Stories?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="The Awakening: And Other Stories (Oxford World's Classics)" src="http://s3.amazonaws.com/photo.goodreads.com/books/1175655794m/543425.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/543425.The_Awakening_And_Other_Stories?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;The Awakening: And Other Stories&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/5132.Kate_Chopin"&gt;Kate Chopin&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/6872653?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;h3&gt;My review&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rating: 3 of 5 stars&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This book was the corpus for my undergraduate thesis. Which means I read it countless times, analyzing the words that portray the character relations and their conversations, marking the important parts, underlining important words. Then I lost the book in a fire. Hmm. It was meant to be, I guess. So, let's see how much I remember about the book. ^^&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Awakening&lt;/span&gt; tells the story of Edna Pontellier, the wife of an upperclass businessman in New Orleans and mother of two boys. Marrying without love, she finds herself confined and suffocated, wanting to release herself from the binds of marriage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She falls in love with a younger man, develops a mainly sexual relationship with another, supports herself by selling paintings, moves out to a smaller home afforded by her new job, and basically tries to figure herself out and find her own place in the world. She is 'awakened' from a simple existence as a wife and mother, but the awakening comes with a price.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The book was widely criticized at the time it was published due to the seemingly wild and improper behavior of the main character. But I think it appeased itself, somehow, by creating a tragic ending. Had Edna managed to fully succeed in her awakening, the book would have met an even harsher reception. Does that mean the world weren't ready for such feminism then? Not that it's ready now, I should say.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the way, the topic of my thesis was power relations between Edna and the three men in her life. Results? She may be awakened but she still lives in a man's world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;View all my reviews.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/245923?utm_medium=api&amp;amp;utm_source=blog_review"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-950256076519508307?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/950256076519508307/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=950256076519508307&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/950256076519508307'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/950256076519508307'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/06/book-review-awakening.html' title='Book review: The Awakening'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695172274311530404.post-4181828716646632823</id><published>2008-06-19T14:09:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2008-06-19T14:39:06.119+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><title type='text'>Problems.</title><content type='html'>I've been thinking about some problems lately.&lt;br /&gt;It's not the problems themselves that I'm thinking about, but how I react in the face of problems.&lt;br /&gt;Am I the kind of person who runs away when facing troubles?&lt;br /&gt;Or am I a person who figures out a way to handle them?&lt;br /&gt;Evidence is pointing heavily on the former.&lt;br /&gt;I am often too lazy to try to work things out, or too scared to face the challenges ahead of me.&lt;br /&gt;But why should I be that kind of person?&lt;br /&gt;I am blessed with so many things in my life that I don't know how to count them.&lt;br /&gt;Why do I undermine myself, thinking that the problems are bigger than me when in fact they're not?&lt;br /&gt;Last week I set off to work early and had breakfast at a stall opposite my office.&lt;br /&gt;With a full stomach and a lifted mood, I climbed a crossing bridge to reach the office building, the gentle morning sun beating down on me.&lt;br /&gt;I thought, life has been so, so good to me.&lt;br /&gt;So what am I so scared of?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Cause I'm young heart living in a world filled with love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;So when tear drops fall from me like rain from above&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I can brush my troubles away&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Know that deep down inside&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I've got sunshine in my life&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;("World Filled with Love", Craig David)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8695172274311530404-4181828716646632823?l=ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/feeds/4181828716646632823/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8695172274311530404&amp;postID=4181828716646632823&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4181828716646632823'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8695172274311530404/posts/default/4181828716646632823'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ceaselessdreamer.blogspot.com/2008/06/problems.html' title='Problems.'/><author><name>Dini</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06193085763052463884</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry></feed>
